Polygyny: Absentee Husband (Pt. 1)

It may sound like a myth but in some cases of polygyny, the husband is absent. Meaning that initial wives or even subsequent wives are practically abandoned by him in polygyny and communication is dangerously low whenever he's at another wife's home. There have been times that I've been asked; 'Coach Fatimah, I don't know where he is! What do I do?'

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jazakallah khairan for all your duas it means a lot to me and my family❤️🤲🤲🤲

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The problem with everybody jumping into polygyny is this not every man should have more than one wife, most men are not eligible to have one wife according to my culture as an Israelite, to have one wife you must first get the permission of the father and permission of your family to bring this woman into your bloodline, if you receive that blessing from your family and the woman's family that's only going to be because you have something to offer some more than you having a 9 to 5 a car a apartment or house it must be land and the fact it self-efficient independent of any system, before taking on a wife so if anything happens with the world economy and it fall food shortages his home his family will not be affected by what the system does, not only are righteous man will come for a wife and that manner if a man is not capable of providing in that manner he's not eligible, so Polygyny not even on the table one wife isn't on the table because everything is out of order That's what some black people do they just make a mess of things everybody want to jump into all these things that they have no idea what they're getting themselves into me before I take a wife or wives now I make sure that her father knows that I can take care not just her but a whole village. I own land in Africa and I'm building an estate/Village where I will be tribal chief so once my estate is built I have generational inheritance generational wealth resources that will ensure the next three to four generations that's facts I own both of my properties so a father would be comfortable that his daughter is going to be taken care of. I have two properties in Africa and I have a construction company in Africa and I have more business projects to launch however I wouldn't feel comfortable marrying a woman with the knowledge that I have now and the way the world is now without having that, this is a must a priority for every man before he take one wife to have at least land where he can grow food and control your his land resources and produce your own power source without relying on the government, if you don't have that then the conversation of Polygyny shouldn't even be in your mouth facts.

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Plogamy damage and traumatized the children unfortunately