Community discussion on 'The Value of Others' (Part II)

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Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world.

#psychology #dating #relationship

[psychacks]

My book has been out for over a month now, which should have given you plenty of time to peruse its contents. Let's get together to discuss your questions about intersexual dynamics and the economic model of relationships.

Buy my book, "The Value of Others"

Book a paid consultation:


Social Media




Become a Psychonaut and join PsycHack's member community:

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Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world.

#psychology #dating #relationship

[jermaineroberts]

Taraban is my go-to guy when it comes to life/dating. I've been watching him for about 6 months or so. Im so grateful for his insight.

[mateuszsan]

Thanks Orion, as always your knowledge is just mindblowing. Although, not only the knowledge, the way you teach is really exceptional, you are really exceptional and excellent mentor.

[SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor]

I'm north of average, but not by much. My wife has always been amazing in my eyes but she's actually south of average. That said, she filed for divorce a few months ago and my heart breaks every morning since. Obviously we dated and mated but it didn't result in a lifelong relationship.

[nikeisagreekgoddess]

59:53 - "You signed up for monogany, not for celibacy. Enforced celibacy is as distant from a monogamous arrangement as cheating. Both fail to comply with the act of providing sex for one other person".

That's what a therapist is for. A proper reframing of the expectations that should be derived from a contract.

[hosugeorge]

You should do more of these, not only for your book, but for our questions in general.

[gregprince]

A couple of thoughts: Interviewing two couples in a room together can be successful. Telling the truth will always work itself out. They may not like it and may develop some resentment, but when they choose to ponder what was said, they will likely respect what was said in the end. Biblically speaking, " speak the truth with love." As far as the other thing you mentioned, about romance, if you can't be your true authentic self around a person that person is not likely the relationship for you. From a biblical perspective, God may have called you to the gift of singleness. Oftentimes, in life, we push for things that we want without taking into consideration what God wants for our lives. There has to be that altruistic connection, or it may be a sign you're not moving ahead with his plan.

[hardlyabutterflyeffect]

These live streams are my favorite! 😍 I love seeing how quickly you process the questions and what comes forth off the cuff. 🔥 Every bit as delicious and articulate as the essays. 🙌 The variety of topics covered is like getting 10 new episodes at once too. 💖

[tmangeles]

Congratulation on the success, Orion! 💪💪 I really enjoy your work!

[docere]

Your answer for that First question was spot on and a perspective I’ve not previously considered.
Thank you.
I should have known that Pareto would probably explain something that confounds me.

[RussellDeacon]

Parental disapproval and positive life options reduces alcohol issues. In france studies showed that introducing alcohol earlier was still a factor in increased risk for alcohol abuse.

[ssing]

I just giggle I was the first to get a review in Apple Books 🤭

Incredible book folks. Get it. I’m on my 3rd go around trying to even digest a fraction of its contents

[drmatthewhorkey]

Thanks for clarifying the parable in your book. I pondered on it for a while after finishing reading it.

[chad_miller_]

Thanks for all your hard work Orion. I had to re-read chapter 10, 2 times, due to the dense content which I at first couldn't fully comprehend due to the structure of the chapter. However everything became clear in the final few pages. Truly an apt read for the modern times. I know there is particular difficulty embedded in the challenge, but I'd love to see a follow up book in the future with perhaps some practical advice on making long term relationships go the distance and how to walk that fine line of love. Cheers

[arielondoua]

Amazing book ! I'm recommending it every around me. You make a great and honest contribution in the field. Keep up the great work ! 👏👏👏

[jasonherrin]

What a resonating perspective. With the current times, and refreshing as hell. Thanks my dude.

[Alexxx]

I'm so sad that I missed another one of your lives. The book is excellent, thank you

[valdius]

Comminincation is a mean to acheve a task. If you already know what you spouse wants, there is no need for further "communication".

Sometimes being heard is the current "goal", this is a different context.

[DavidTramacchi]

I jave a great title for an episode.
"Situationships - Men go where they are Welcomed"
I think this would be a great working title to explore the current dating scene and why women always blame men to staying in Situationships longer than we should.

[ewhhmvl]

For the guy who is married for 20 plus years and his wife is no longer sexual. Look up rian stones books on dread. Praxeology i believe is the name of his book. Its your only option. Also next time dont get married so you can simply just choose better. As long as you're upholding your end of the bargain there is no room for that in a relationship.