Never Chase After Being Dumped (From A Psychotherapist)

Never Chase After Being Dumped

In this video I talk about the importance of never chasing anyone who has dumped you. I go into detail about how that behavior makes them feel more trapped, turns them off further, and makes someone lose respect for you.

[gabrielc]

Listen to this man he knows what hes talking about! Coach craig is genuine and truly wants to see you grow and succeed

[alainpatry]

Wish I had seen this weeks ago! Ugh! "When someone backs away, give them space." Good mantra, but I still struggle to see how shutting out someone instead of talking things thru in the first place (when there was the initial blowup) is mature in any way. I believe in communication, thru thick and thin. I don't understand these tendencies women have to take flight and shut you out (avoidance...).

[nicolebrowne]

That exactly some of the reasons why my ex and I fought a lot, every time I wanted to see him he was tired from his job, therefore we didn't do much. I got tired of not getting out because of this, I mentioned this several times.

[MrMusiclovelife]

Coach Craig..you are a plethora of information and a candle in the darkness that I felt before I found your videos. It all makes sense. I was so worried about getting my ex back...now I just want to love myself first then find love after I’m whole. If it’s my ex great, if it’s not, I still win. Thank you!!!

[lionelt]

I legit had a girl tell me she was ready to come back to me, but because I started chasing, she lost complete interest. Don't know how true that was but...We were still connected on social media prior, but as soon as I started chasing, she unfollowed me on everything and it was the last time we spoke. Ever since then, I dont chase. Sometimes they reach back out to you and sometimes they dont. Depends on the connection

[gregoryjwhite]

As Craig always says, it’s brutal getting dumped especially when you give 100%. Unfortunately you do need to let them go & give them space. I’m in the same boat and it’s pretty shittie.

[nathanb]

I was the guy in this video, I even fell asleep at the restaurant when she took us out to have fun. I did not beg or contact her and after 2 weeks she contacted me. It's crazy true how they contact when you REALLY stop thinking about them and try and have fun in your life, it's like they feel that energy. I did not apologize or tell her how much I cared so I was worried my situation no contact would not work but it did. I was reserved because of the way she dumped me but she started to fear I was already moving on. She really loves me because she straight up was open and told me how it was killing her there was no need to mirror her interest. Thanks for the advice coach your vidoes are priceless. Let them miss you and take the space to watch Craigs videos and learn from mistakes.

[audreywalter]

I reached out to my ex and we started talking and we are planning of seeing, life is too short to play games. Talk things out, break up or make up.

[TheSamale]

I was dumped for 16 years ago and got with her 1 daughter she's 15, and she remarried, and she divoce again
In those years, I never saw my daughter
And now, I just support my child for financial
And she avoids me to talk to me. I don't even think about anything to do with her.

[android]

"Tonight was kinda fun..."

- "BABY, I LOVE YOU I MISS YOU I CAN'T BE WITHOUT YOU!" 😂

[eddiesantiago]

seriously coach Craig is the best I've seen by far

[laisanchez]

I wish I had seen this early! But doing NC for almost a month now. 7yrs relationship! Isn't easy 😭

[kristinashopova]

Having a really hard time. We broke up 6 days ago, his decision. He has financial problems, also we started to have problems in our relationship because he was getting more and more closed. His parents have taught him that money is crucial and even my attempts to calm him didn't work. Anxiety kicked in for both of us and after a major fights with lots of things said, I picked my stuff and went back to my country. Watching the videos daily and hoping things will turn around at some point. Coach, I did understand many things about myself for what I thank you with all my heart. Keep up the good work, we need your advices. Hope no contact works, I really love this person and I am more than ready to work for this relationship. God bless you all!

[marrytissina]

I'm in 10 weeks of NC, he didn't reach out, I lost hope, I better move on

[fitforfreelance]

nice straightforward steps. I always support getting in the best shape of your life so you don't even worry about what they think or do on the date

[ZoeyIndigoSky]

OMG CRAIG! I've binged watched all your videos this week and you crack me up all the time!!!

[MinorPlutocrat]

This video is great, wish I had seen the "what you needed to do at the time" bit about 8 months ago.

[lightemupzombeast]

this channel is by far the best an out relationships

[giuseppemaggio]

Craig, what if she left you because of the lack of attention? What if she left you because you didn't value her enough? Is no contact the solution in the contest as well?

[jennifersavage]

You're an Angel Coach Graig, am going to sign up soon for email coaching, am so devastated as well .... You're the only who can make us alive again by watching on your Videos xxx Please keep up the good work to help others, on this entire World ....