Why Girls HATE Nice Guys

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[sonofsarek]

The vast majority of nice guys treat girls the way they want to be treated. If a girl is so psychologically damaged that she can’t appreciate that, then she is unrepairable and not worth your time. Stop placating women and their insanity.

[jizzervirusreptikonski]

Nice person is good, fake nice person is of course bad.

[Italiazplayby]

Most "nice guys" are just nice guys, it's society as of late that is spinning this narrative that being nice is something else. A lot of women just like toxic because they are use to it, so when someone comes along not being that then it's looked at as a negative regardless. Men are either deemed "nice" in a negative way or are toxic. Notice how there is no in between?

[Downsdddgh]

Girls also might have a problem with being nice and a nice guy forces them to also be well mannered.
It's easier to be mean.
Takes discipline to control ones emotions.
I personally don't like being angry. Its too stressful.

[biffbifford]

If you don’t think actual nice guys exist, you are deeply flawed.

[borodach]

Why does everybody assume I’m trying to be nice to get something, I’ve always been nice since I was little, it’s my nature. Now I trying to change my automatic nice behaviors but is not easy

[SingerSourav]

He is spitting facts, it's the harsh reality. Don't be a nice guy, but treat the other person exactly in the same way he/she treats you.

[bobross]

Yeah, I disagree with this. Some guys do this, but most guys act nice because they are good guys. They do things for girls they like because they foolishly think if you show you like them, the women will realize that and like you too. Guys also are logical and if a girl says "I just like you as a friend, but keeps texting and calling you and you are showing interest, that must mean they do like you and are "playing hard to get". It isnt "fake". Women say it is fake because they are playing dumb when they know the guy likes them, but pretend that they are just "friends". Trouble is most women now are damaged and spoiled and told they are all "10's", so they demand the hot rich guy. But they dont exist or if they do have 20 women after them, so they get bitter and angry.

[FadeintotheShadows]

Saying that a nice person isn't really nice when they actually are is serious gaslighting.

[jfranco_official]

I'm nice.... to everyone... girls and men. No i don't apologize every 5 seconds, but i am a people pleaser... again, to both men and women. It IS a problem I guess. But I'm not nice for the reasons the video says

[nickp]

You act like there's either fake nice guy or sociopath

What about the genuinely nice emotionally mature human beings? Channels like these are convincing guys that they need to be sociopaths to get girls instead of being a standup dude.

[Bloodyslayer]

The problem is that even being steadily kind and supportive is not appreciated, therefore we either have to choose mean against our nature, or simply continue being kind with people that really deserve it.

[technocatification]

Or some guys are just a little nicer and less broken. I agree with the sentiment but some people genuinely don’t need a mask. But that’s kindness not niceness.

[paulsmith]

The thing is though I was brought up to be respectful and nice to ladies so I'm not faking It but I know many of the guys do. I can be bad as well.

[DeanMartinson-cilk]

I don’t completely agree, there are genuine nice guys and gals, that don’t have that motivation the just want to have a relationship with someone they are interested in and its also the masculine part women are attracted to not the bad punk boy.

[pyrusboy]

What about guys who are genuinely nice and not using a faks persona

[fredlevrai]

Unsubscribing from a so-called psychologist who doesn't make the difference between good and manipulative.

[chrisruth]

It's more because bad boys are extremely attractive & big time know it so being nice or not is completely irrelevant so even if they are mean they can still get woman cause of there looks

[danielchang]

Bad boys = "unapologetic when it comes to going for what want." I'm sure the nice guys are doing the same without showing any regret or shame in their own way(s)...

[kalega]

Okay, this is probably the first actual bad clip I've seen from Ben. I get where he's going, but he's still painting such a broad brush and using so many general harmful terms without any real thought. It's okay to be nice, guys. Trust me. It's also okay to be dominant, but not a BAD person. Just don't be a pushover, insincere, manipulative, a bad person, etc. THOSE are the real negative traits of both "nice guys" and "bad boys".

Plus, women who like bad boys aren't women. They're girls, yet to mature and only will like you for how you make them feel. They'll rarely actually care about you as a person.

And cmon, you ever see Ben work his magic? He is not a bad boy. This seems like odd, reverse advice.