Why Women HATE Nice Guys

[LimeintheCoco]

Be yourself fellas. Dont ever worry about what these American women think.

[BloodyHeck]

Women only like a strong man who sets boundaries until it means she doesn't get her way. Then she sees him as controlling.

[Andyh]

It is better to be single and happy than getting into a relationship with the wrong person

[NoahCrusade-bwds]

Being nice is our way of showing a woman we love her. But love doesn't exist with materialistic, promiscuous women.

[Imran-Lalani]

Bet they won’t be complaining about nice guys when they are single and in nursing homes all lonely.

[juanderuano]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[tomdrummy]

……..because women have all the masculine energy today . 🤣🤣🤣

[volsdeep]

I’ve had so many women tell me they like nice guys then completely go back on their word lol. I’m a nice guy but I’m not a pushover. The reason they like assholes is because they’re constantly having to chase their validation. Once they have it, on to the next one.

[DionLYA]

I agree with everything you say. As someone who lacks masculinity, I think one of the reasons guys like us aren't masculine is due to the fear of abandonment resulting from insecure/anxious childhood attachment styles.

We have been ignored or abandoned by our parents or peers for our behaviour, so growing up, we become "yes" men to please others just to avoid feeling "abandoned" by people.

My advice to guys who are struggling to stand up for yourselves is to start saying "no" to people when you don't like something. You might be afraid to say no for fear that the relationship ends, and hoping that giving in will make the relationship better. But trust me, it never gets better. They will continue to use you and disrespect you until you wish you committed suicide.

If someone wants to get angry at you simply for saying "no", be prepared to leave the relationship.

Sure, you might not instantly become masculine just for saying "no", but it really helps and I was able to feel a sense of relief for speaking my true feelings.

[MrIllusionEyes]

“Nice” gets thrown around way too often with different interpretations, definitions and meanings. The only downside to being “nice” to people is when they take advantage and that in itself can lead to toxicity.

[randys]

Nice guys don’t finish last. Nice guys are the only guys that have a chance at finishing first.

This video is spot on about separating masculinity from being nice.

[Μύρων-βτ]

2:00 There is a misconception here: guys DON'T get girls BECAUSE of their confidence. They get girls and THAT'S WHY they have confidence. Confidence is a byproduct of getting girls, not the kain reason for it. Furthermore, they main reason girls don't respect simps is not so because they lack masculinity but because they show that they haven't been preselected by other girls. Girls want men who are not only stereotypically good looking but who are also are getting selected by other girls. It's a form of woman to woman validation fellas.

[neoblackwolf]

I hate myself, that will not change. If someone can't like me for who and what I am then I'll stay alone till I die it's fine with me.

[philaman]

52m, never married and not dating. I am a nice and kind person by nature and refuse to change my ideals for some primadonna who thinks her farts don't smell. I think 'll stay where I am after watching this video.

[ironjohn]

Dont forget charges and jail ive been there just for defending myself. Dont look for trouble just because a borderline or bipolar wants you to always fight her drama she drums up in public.

[modalsoul]

This is such an oversimplification.. my goodness …..

[farkinarkin]

Nah... stop blaming men. VVomen just use the nebulous term of "nice guy" to label anyone not "Chad" or "Tyrone" enough.

[nourchame]

I was literally called a sexist because of this. I remember a few girls rejected me simply because I’m not “one of those naughty bad guys” and I’ve always complained about that simply because I don’t even do anything that’s considered bad and that I’m just being myself because normally I am kind to everyone. 😂 I can take and handle rejection but it’s still annoying, and then a few girls started calling me a sexist because “I don’t understand what girls go through in these scenarios”, that I should accept that they want to be friends and that they can date and be with bad guys if they want since they don’t believe in “being nice” when it’s a guy. One girl literally told me that even if the bad guy is a serial killer, if she wants to be with him, let her do that. This society is DOOMED.

[ConestogaCreek]

Here is the flow her argument: she’s assuming women can completely figure that out after one meeting. Human personalities are more complex than that. Just because he was nice to you, perhaps even a little overly nice, doesn’t mean that’s how he is all the time in life. I for example I’m a very nice guy however cross a line and piss me off and then see how I am then.

[thepenguin]

Don't be a nice guy
Be a good man