She's Not Messaging Like Before | Has She Lost Interest or Met Someone Else?

If a girl has stopped messaging you and you're wondering if she's doing it on purpose. Or if she's met another guy, this article will guide you through this difficult situation.

But first, let's go through an email, and we'll talk about this in more detail.

Hey Chris, I recently started messaging a girl on Instagram, and everything went really well, and we met up after a week or so. We agreed to meet again after a few days, but she got really bad news, and in the afternoon, she canceled the date. She said she was stressed out because she had to deal with her thesis and family issues.

If she's ignoring you because she has some problems with family and is under stress, she'll pull away. Anytime a woman feels pressure in a relationship, they will back away from you. That's just the way he goes. But when this happens, you must also back off and give her space.

I learned from your book Atomic Attraction the importance of being stoic and patient. I think I'm doing a really good job, but I don't like what is going on and wonder if there is another guy in the background. This waiting is getting more and more difficult. Weeks earlier, she messaged me all day, but now without any warning, she's changed her behavior and is growing increasingly distant. But when I reach out to her, she's like the same as before, but she's just not reaching out to me at all.

Is there any chance of overthinking, and is there a way to make her miss me and want to talk to me? I can't believe her initial attraction for me just disappeared because I felt that everything was good.

If you're worried that she's just going to go and meet another guy, or she's lost interest in you, then stop and take a deep breath. Don't panic and act out of anxiety; otherwise, she's just going to lose interest and really pull away from you.

When a woman pulls away, they don't forget about you, and nine times out of ten they don't have another guy they want to be with. That's not what happens. What happens is they start to get more interested in you and think about you even more.

If you have one guy giving a girl a thousand roses and love bombing the hell out of her and another guy who goes about his business and doesn't message her that that much, which guy do you think she'll choose?

They choose the guy who isn't chasing her and the guy they have to work to win over. Women will always pull away at some point in time. They do this to test a man or because the man is acting too feminine and relationship-focused. Women won't stay the same as they were in the beginning because life changes and relationships change. If she's stressed out or you've been taking up too much of her time, she will want to get back to normal life.

If she feels like you're constantly messaging and calling, she's going to wonder, what are you doing with your life? Don't you have anything else better to do with your time? Remember, as a man you must focus on yourself and your mission. If you do that, she won't forget about you, she won't' run off with someone else, and she will come back to you with higher attraction.

If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, right from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, then I highly recommend you get a copy of my book Atomic Attraction.

Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she's pulled away from you or left you.

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Chris Canwell

[andywatson]

You cannot negotiate burning desire. If a woman is attracted to you she will make it easy and move mountains to be with you.

[Theelyment]

Listen to me and listen to me good! Whenever a woman pulls away from you, do nothing at all and begin seeing new women IMMEDIATELY! If she is your girlfriend and you notice it and it becomes worse, just tell her the next time she reaches out that it seems you two need some space and tell her to get back to you when she's ready and start seeing new women IMMEDIATELY!! Do not EVER get too emotionally attached to a woman. She can sense it and will view it as weakness and start to pull away. Always stay focused on yourself and your goals and put her DEAD last on your list and she will wonder about you and begin to seek you back out. But here's the thing. If you've shown too much weakness and broke masculine frame, than depending on how much of a bitch you were, you might be toast!! So just fall back and leave her alone and start seeing new women and start focusing on yourself!! It's a win win situation. She'll either come back or you'll find someone better!!

[TripleOptionFootballAcademy]

If the woman is not putting in 80%+ of the effort—you’re losing…

[hernstv]

I learned from this man not to chase girls and it worked every single time.

[JPogi]

That's why it's very important that you have a "Hobby" that you spend your time on so you don't focus solely on a girl.

[traipoom]

When she pulls away, just talk to other women. NEVER focus on just 1woman when dating or you will likely suffer.

[lonewolf]

The use of proper psychology makes this dude stand out from the rest.

[highliving-animatedvideos]

Agree: do not get reactive or even worse ask for explanations. Live your life, have fun.
The moment she sees that you don’t chase, she will likely be intrigued again.
She will want to know what you are up to

[ddman]

Fr this guy is the best in YouTube…his voice alone makes me feel good

[wfgqgqqqgq]

If a woman isn't texting you, she's texting some other dude whom she finds more attractive than you. Coaches will never tell you this but it's the harsh truth. Women can't live without male attention. There's nothing you can do about it, other than accept it and move on with your life. If you attempt to pull away in the hopes of regaining her attraction, all you're doing is putting her on a pedestal. Pulling away should happen naturally due to you realizing she's not worth your time, and instead choosing to focus your attention on other things in your life.

[ThePatriots]

You should never be reaching out first to a woman that isn’t your girlfriend for any reason. Women with true burning desire will always contact you first 100% of the time.

[bramkayser]

NInon De lenclos: A woman once said: Love/attraction never dies of starvation but often of indigestion:
Law 16: Use absence to increase respect=attraction.

[raymobbs]

Spot on advice! embrace the space and she will come back.

[Proposal]

While he´s scratching the surface, you really shouldn´t care about it, either she´s not interested in you or she´s interested in someone else...

[mak]

men have emotions too, not all days are sunny, life breaks us at some point or the other, if during those times, your partner cannot be with you, then whats the point ?
In fact test the person, before you give your heart, see if they are really worth it, put them in tough situations, see their response and Always protect your heart.
Take care guys.

[brookvalley]

The biggest problem all of these guys have is that they are focusing on one woman. The solution is to date two to four women at a time, tell all of the women that you sometimes date more than one woman at a time, and do not take any of the women out every Saturday night, so that all of the women presume that you are currently dating more than one woman. This lets the women know that they are literally dating a man with options. So, when one woman starts to pull away, you literally will not care. You will look deep into your heart of hearts and discover that you just don't care. The downside of not caring is that it takes the edge off of relationships. If you have only one tenuous relationship it is like holding onto the edge of a cliff by your fingernails. It's very dramatic. If you have four relationships, each one is like standing on a rug with a cushion behind you. Occasionally, one woman will pull the rug out from under you, but you will fall on the cushion of one to three other women. Focus less on keeping one woman happy and more on attracting up to four women. (The ideal number is three. More than four gets very cumbersome.) The key is to tell all of the women that you sometimes date more than one woman and then do not take any woman out every Saturday night. At one point in time, I started dating a woman whom I found more interesting than any woman who I had dated in quite some time. She had not texted me for about a week. (I usually don't text women. I wait for them to text me.) I wanted to see how I really felt about the possibility of losing a woman who was one of the most interesting women I had ever dated. So, I looked deep into my heart, and I discovered that I just did not care. This was a rather startling discovery, but it is the result of truly having the options of other women. She eventually did text me, and she is one of the women I am currently dating. But, and here is the key, if she had not texted me, I would not have cared.

[auups]

Always explains everything in the simplest way possible. Man you're the real one. Keep up the good work ❤️

[janmeshsharma]

Small, crisp, precise and upto the point! Chris always hits the Bulls eye! Keep the good work and educating men with your wisdom. Love from India!

[MenMovement]

Beta men will get panicated and start to text her, call her makeing her to drop off all. Men who know how to control their emotions will make indirectly a woman to wonder about him

[mav]

This is true if she has emotional investment in you. I've had several women reach out to me later.