She Left You On Unread and Ignored Your Message | She's So Disrespectful!

If a woman ignores your messages and leaves you on unread, it’s irritating and annoying. It does feel disrespectful as well. This is because you’re thinking like a guy, which means you’re thinking with logic. You reason that out of 24 hours in a day, she can find 10 seconds to shoot you a simple message. But women don’t think that way. They respond to their emotions and their feelings, not logic.

If you expect that she will message you back, you can expect to be disappointed. They don’t say expectations are the root of suffering for no reason. If you expect her to respond within an hour, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment. If she always responded quickly in the past, it doesn’t mean she will respond quickly in the future.

She might have pulled away and ignored your message for any number of reasons. She might feel bored. She might feel as though you’re too available and responsive. She might feel as though you’re too relationship-focused. She might feel the need to test you. And yes, she might even be busy or sleeping or tired.

If you don’t hear back from her, it’s important not to panic. You must let her come to you and never double-text her. You sent the last message, so she must send the next message. There are a lot of subtle elements at play here. But waiting for a woman to message you shows her one crucial thing: you can walk away, and you’re high-value.

I’ve seen women disappear for 1-2 weeks, which is normal. Women sometimes disappear for a month, then come back and act like everything is normal even though their behavior is anything but normal.

If she’s testing you, it’s because she wants to see how you behave and how you react. Does she have more power in the relationship, or do you? In other words, does she care more, or do you? If you care more, you fail her test. This is because women are, by nature, relationship-focused, and men are mission-focused.

Did she ignore your goodnight message or leave your good-morning message on unread? If so, it’s a sign that you need to back off and give her space. This is a hard pattern to break. But it’s a pattern that you need to break.

You can’t keep sending good-morning and goodnight messages forever. She will send you a goodnight/good-morning message when she feels like it. All you have to do is be there for her when she’s ready to express her emotions.

If you try to call her out for ignoring your message, she’ll do one of two things: pretend that it was an accident. Then continue to ignore your messages as she now knows you are relationship-focused.

If you reveal your displeasure at her behavior, she will pull even further away from you. Is she acting disrespectful? Sure she is. Can you call her out and expect her to change? No.

If you show her you aren’t affected when she ignores your messages, she’ll find you even more impressive. She will come back to you with even more attraction.

Will she continue to ignore your messages sometimes? Yes. Will she continue to pull away and test you? 100% she will. Will you lose her? Absolutely not. All you have to do is let her go and come back when she’s ready.

If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, right from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, then I highly recommend you get a copy of my book Atomic Attraction.

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Chris Canwell

[maxpaws]

If she leaves you on read, the only thing you should feel upset about is the time you wasted on her.

[chadhardy]

Make no mistake, women read every single message that comes to their phone. Even if you dm her and it show "unread"...she has read it in her notifications and decided to make you think she hasnt read it...which is even more disrespectful. Dont reach out and never message her again.

[palindrome]

Note that she may never come back. And you should be absolutely cool with that.

[ledzarulje]

She is never so busy not to answer. Their life depends on the phone

[mcdove]

If she doesn't message you, cut your oneitis attitudes and move on. Never prioritize females or pander to them, focus on you & your goals cuz they are a distraction & waste of time

[elsquibbs]

"expectations are the root of suffering"

Very true!

[thoreau]

Once you don't give a damn. Things happen. Women can be hot and sexy...but that doesnt mean whats going on inside their head matches the exterior. Dont go looking for a woman for happiness and fulfillment. You need that within yourself first.

[Omnitrix]

It doesn't bother me if my messages are unread. I simply take it as 'oh, she's not interested'. And I simply move along.

[kiuk_kiks]

He should stop initiating messages every single time. If she doesn’t reciprocate, just let her go. She’s not into you anyway.

Edit: Typos

[Tane]

With women you must remember two words…Don’t try

[caucasianafrican]

Give space. Get a hobby/do other things. Mirror her... stay slightly less excited to her. Did I mention.... give her space. Now Good Morning, Good Night, crap. She needs to have space to move toward you. Back off... don't teller her what you are doing. There is zero mystery about you.

[flamesurfer]

Sorry bro, she has found another digging stick. Same happened to me and the more you chase the more she runs.

[Sidewinder]

He asked her out twice and she said maybe. She's not interested bro, move on. Never message her again.

[medicinekeysformrcps]

I never found a girl returns back by chasing. If she wants to pull away, help her to do so.

[MMA-CLIPS]

If you chase, they will run. If you don't text at all, they think you've moved on or forgotten about them.

You must find a perfect balance.

[jankucera]

Background: She's found another guy

[southwestxnorthwest]

You guys need to stop initiating text conversations; respond to her when she messages you and keep it short. I used to be the one to text first and it never got me anywhere but dumped. Right now there's a girl I dated on and off in the past who is messaging me and this time she is the one messaging me first. She is pursuing because I'm not. Its so predictable and easy.

[agee]

listen guys, she is not going to dump you and find someone else if you dont message her so just resist the temptation. Always put yourself in her shoes and think how you would feel.

[ahmedabdelmagid]

Respect yourself and never allow her to cross a line you should draw. Focus on yourself and you will meet a better one.

[neshifuturo]

She thinks that you are easily replaceable if she doing that