Narcissists will hold grudges against people and rarely will let things go

Narcissists will hold grudges against people and rarely will let things go

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[_Anna_Nass_]

Thank you for bringing up the nice guy thing. They’re always “nice guys”, until they feel like they’ve got you properly attached, then they’re the absolute worst.

[MJ-qbph]

Laughable when they do the punishing, rejecting or hurting you - these freaks are beyond sick

[davidmalebranche]

This makes so much sense. A brother I dated in 2017… we reconnected in 2021 and they held something against me all that time… and kept making me prove and prove things over and over again for something I did when we weren’t even a couple. I fell for that guilt trip and fell for him… then when he had me he started getting distant. When I asked what was wrong he got upset, cursing me out and acting like I was crazy to even ask. So I bounced. Never again.

[teresacotton]

I never chased him, now I'm running from him. He's blocked. Until he finds a new alias. Keep up your good work Lee ❤️

[dyoung]

💯!!!So true of the narc I know & his entire family. All of them are on their 2nd & 3rd marriages. They all talk about their exes as though they just divorced but they all have been divorced between 10-20 years. They’re insane.

[johngaulding]

They will accuse you of not ever getting over the bad things. While they tell you with a smile on their face "you deserve it because of what you did". Using anything you ever did for an excuse to abuse or disrespect you.

[bellezanegra]

They also hold onto things you fought about or had a disagreement about and then they will bring it back up again over and over

[cherrybacon]

It's ironic and amusing that my Ex took me back just so he could discard me. 🍒

[floridagirl]

Well...I have a grudge against the narc ex for all they did and got away with.

[sallyb]

I DID chase him, 50 years ago. That's how long I've been living a lie.

[godsfavor]

Good grief Lee! 🤦🏾‍♀️ It’s a hard pill to swallow but once it gets down it’ll help with the healing ❤️‍🩹. Kudos to you for supporting the survivors.

[toniparsons]

Truth!!! I’ve known my ex since I was like 14 years old……reconnected several times throughout the years (not romantically) and he sent me a booty call after running into him one night……I never responded that’s not my gig……he never let my non-response go after we finally connected…..7 years later……7 YEARS

[anncrosby]

Stay no contact completely if you are out they will torment you and you will be back were you started at the discard stage even worse it all about revenge 💯🙏

[mywateverlife]

These ppl are too much work. I'm tired and regret meeting mine.

[darrens]

I have had this deranged narcissist stalker bother me on and off for 20 years even mirrored many things my car, facial expressions and even now goes past my mothers place who I use to visit a lot. Saw the warning signs but I was to just thick and naive to see the red flags. And as sadly as she gets older she seems to be more delusional and lonely? And stranger? I swear that is why they do it mostly loneliness? I wonder if Lee would agree?

[firsttbone]

Yup, still hear about how I pulled away from her over 10 years ago after I found out she had an emotional affair on me :/

[Fleefromsin]

When dealing with sinful addictions you must relentlessly lean on the Spirit. Everyday and all day. Satan knows how much you’ve been allowing this sin to captivate your mind and soul. Jesus said some things only come by prayer and fasting. Your deliverance is on the other end of your submission to Christ and His Spirit.

[DONTWANTCHANNE]

The 'rage' has been going on for about 15 months...gets made and oppositional when I try to coordinate care of our cats to the point I am not able to do what I need to do for the cats. Sometimes I need him to take a minute to get something from his house...its always 'i'm busy, i'll do it been waiting 2 months for one thing. I will have to just spend money I don't have to buy a new item because he is too busy to find a minute for his cats.

[Md-rntg]

My ex who is still stalking me just saw me wearing a pretty summer dress Inever wore dresses when we were together saw him looking did he get jealous?

[louiseelizabeth]

That's kinda weird... My nex said I never replied to his first message through Match, but I didn't remember it when I did message him... He never brought it up after that one time (15 years together) and he never really love bombed - well, not with money anyway... He kinda never went away after the first date 🤣