How To Stand Up For Yourself | 10 Ways To DEMAND RESPECT!

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How to stand up for yourself. This video starts at 1:15 but I encourage you to watch all of this because this will give you some true relationship advice on how to stand up for yourself in a relationship. This is so important when it comes to all relationships in your life.

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Apollonia Ponti

[ForTehNguyen]

the most precious gift you can give someone is your time, and if they waste it, walk away.

[nw]

1. No one can validate me
2. Stand up for my time
3. Being calm is ultimate winner when being attacked....why are you so angry and what makes you think you can raise your voice
4. Understand what my boundaries are
5. Take things one step at a time...standing up for myself takes time
6. Be transparent and authentic...show vulnerability
7. Don't be afraid of being selfish....learn to say no....take time to reply....does this feel good
8. Learn meaning of being assertive....ask for what I want in mannerful way
9. Choose the right time to chat

[kristinapleasant]

My favorite take away is how you walked us through saying “no”. *take time to think *how does it make you feel *knowing the length of time the requested action will take. I used to struggle with saying no but I don’t anymore. I do however need this checklist to seal my reasoning in my own head for saying no because I still feel sad when I have to say no. Now I can say no and feel great about it! 😊

[joemancini]

One of your best videos, advice that is useful in all situations. You can’t respect others if you don’t respect yourself.

[ThisReckless]

“If you love life, don’t waste time because time is what life is made of”.

[ornog]

Thank you Apollonia. You've raised my standards to the roof. I've learned so much from you ♥️

[positive_vibes_]

I love these tips, especially #1.Put Yourself First!

[jakeniemiec]

Thanks for video! One thing I've learned about being assertive and standing up is always standing up for what you believe in. That's the difference between assertive and controlling..

[ThisReckless]

I think what’s good about her videos is most of us in the comment section are good men treated poorly by women who have little to no standards. We often forget that we have standards and Mrs. Ponti addresses this. Identification of self is far more important than identification of the other; This was hard for me to understand because I would sit and try and figure her out. I already have myself figured out so no point in wasting anymore time.

[rudeawakening]

Thank you so very much .
A priceless, valuable, and easily understood message .

[PibbXtra]

This was a GREAT video!! I have seen many videos about how to stand up for myself, but this was by far the most crystal clear explanation I’ve heard. Thank you SO much!

[cheung]

Another gem video. This one hit home. I learned from therapy that my upbringing led me to be more of a caregiver (than caretaker) to a fault as it’s a way to seek validation in my relationships. This video really distills the essence of having strong understanding of your boundaries. I’ve only recently realized that it’s a way to effectively combat my overly caregiving ways that tends to deprioritize my needs before others to a fault. Love this and sharing to ppl I know who will find this useful. Thanks, Apollonia for sharing your knowledge. 🙏

[ravipeiris]

Dear Ms. Ponti, I came across your channel few weeks back and I wanted to take a moment to express the value about your channel and advice. I am 49 years old, a physician by training and have travelled around the world. Having said that, most, if not all men, assume that they know everything they need to know about women (that thinking begins in a man's thinking from his 20's all the way through to middle age). I just met a nice lady from an online dating site and after I came across your channel, I reluctantly started watching one or two of your videos. I was taken aback by some of the issues you addressed with respect to the mistakes and assumptions I've made in the past. Now, I watch your videos as they have assisted me from taking mis-steps in getting to know this lovely lady. Certain mis-steps are understandable and can serve as learning experiences unique to one's relationship/courtship process. However, some mis-steps can be deal breakers and it would be sad if a wonderful relationship could have been saved if that person just opened up to learning how women think and feel and leaving the world of entitled ignorance which I came from regarding the opposite sex. Thank you for empowering us through your experience and education. Take care.

[robertmarwick]

Cheers
I have a penchant for exploration, mainly metaphysical in nature, and want to explore new career opportunities. This video is great confirmation.
Thank you

[MosesEmmet]

How about this in relation to time... how many guys drop everything for a girl they really like? Instant loss of respect.

[bigdogmack]

You are a godsend. This video got me out of the friend zone with this woman. Thank you thank you 😊

[miketheknight]

Apolonia this is my favorite video of all especially the learning to be selfish part is the best

[christianbenn]

Stand up for what, s right for yourself & set your boundaries

[logicalthought]

Thank you people need to know how to be assertive and love and honor themselves. Also communication is the key to any relationship. If you cannot communicate properly the relationship is lost!!!

[jacary]

Yes yes u did it again thank you beautiful luv this video 😍😍😘😘