Modern Dating Struggles | The Nice Guy Cliché (07)

Women always want nice guys, but why do they "finish last"?

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[chrisod]

The problem with the 30 club is that they spent their 20s chasing dudes heading for the 27 club.

[dragoonseye]

You deserve to be alone if you want to leave your fiancé over having to go pick up coffee. While he cooks you breakfast.

[salbill]

"I want a nice guy, I mean, I've been with the bad boys since I was 14, but now, now that I'm 35, I want a nice guy, You know, someone that's into me only, worships me and is always there for me no matter what." I would keep chasing men that use and abuse me but I can't compete with the 20 something year old women that I thought I would forever be...
Ma'am... aren't you describing a dog? You really thought you would be 20 something for ever?
Never fall for it fellas, some of these chicks spent 20 years getting used and abused by men that don't really want them - as soon as they realize their time is running out they settle for suckers.

[YourHineyness]

Expanding on my previous comment...women shop for men like they shop in general. They go into a store, touch everything, try a lot of it on, but then leave the store empty-handed. I guess it's a girl thing.

[Maurice]

They don't want a nice guy. They still want a Chad, **that they think** they can turn into a nice guy. Facts.

[Nyarlathotep_Flagg]

She's missing the real point there: A lot of those guys once WERE genuinely nice guys(not me, I was a just(at least as logically consistently as I could define it), and fair guy to the max once, and was up for the occasional kind action/gesture. But I wouldn't say I was 'nice'). They learned that women rejected them for being that guy, so they changed to get a relationship. And now you're bitching at those same men in their mid 20's to late 30's that are no longer interested in being nice.

In essence, the shitty ppl in life(including you) shat on them, until they decided being a doormat was a horrible life to live. And payback became a bitch.

You know what generally happened to the surviving nice guy? They found a nice girl who supported them in life, and eventually married them. They don't want you. They found someone better.

[BloodyHeck]

For the guy with the woman complaining about the coffee, dude, run. I’ve known these women. You’ll never be allowed to have an interest in anything outside of her. If you want to go do something that you want to do, especially a guy activity, what she’s going to hear is “I don’t love you anymore”.

[gilbertgurule]

"You won't have any kids if you ruin my lipstick" she's a prime candidate for true equality men, threats are not to be taken lightly

[amy]

Goodness how lucky I am to have my husband. He dances with me in the kitchen while I cook, we travel together. He brings me coffee before he goes to work with a kiss and I bring him lunch at work. It’s a partnership. We know we aren’t equals but there is a balance. These women are whiny and ungrateful.

[stevec]

Being a Nice Guy will only earn you a place in her friendzone.

[Haudidau]

After talking to a girl for 3 weeks she finally accepted to go with me at a date. As we were eating a Chad she knew approached and asked us how we are and if am one of her relatives. She said I'm just a friend. Chad asked if she want to go to his place tonight and she said yes. After he left her full attention was on her phone. Also she told me that I am not her type but we can be friends if I want.

[JohnBrown-vnqw]

50 bucks worth of sushi and a blunt a bubble bath and in bed by 10. sounds like a great night to me

[dsds]

The problem has been well explained via various youtube videos. Woman want the top 10% of men. Online dating apps have made this feasible. The top 10% men have a great time but have no need to commit because they have an endless supply. Eventually the women realise that they're not going to snag one of these men, so they resentfully settle downwards or become long term single and bitter. Their experience with the men they have hooked up with has left them with a skewed opinion of the rest of men.

[vincelorino]

As for the last woman in this video; no, it's not about acting nice and trying to exchange niceness tokens for sex; it's the fact that I was always a nice person to everybody, that is how I was raised to be, that is my natural disposition. I had to literally have a pen and notebook, observe and write down observations. I literally had to recall and use the scientific method to track data visible data from The Real World and then I had to figure out a way to put it into practice. It was extremely difficult because I had to look at it like acting; had to completely disregard my own natural desire and natural feelings and natural disposition to pretend to be a chauvinistic egotistical stereotypical a hole. The thing that made me very upset and angry after recreating this study multiple times? Is the fact that when I behave quote be myself quote? I don't get nothing but my own left hand. However, when I act like that stereotypical f-boy a hole? Women on my pants and stick it in their mouth. Women give me evening texts and invite me to their house for very naughty activities. Women send me naked pictures. Women dropping my DM and give me saucy messages. So is there any wonder that there's an epidemic of players and F boys when quite simple scientific methodology proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that behaving that way equals sex, when men are hardwired to do whatever it takes to get sex? Wow, a mammal that breathes air that is submerged in a body of water is trying to poke its head out into the air to breathe!

[iamkAIden]

If a guy is a bad texter when you dating him, he’s too busy texting and going out with other women. Just accept it women

[banginghats]

"I want a nice guy". No you don't, you want a very tall, fit, good looking man who makes stacks of money and wants to settle down with a woman even if she has a huge body count.

[flushtheglobalists]

CHAD can be nice when it comes to "comforting" these Western feminists

[gigirigips]

🤣🤣🤣he sent her for coffee and this is the strongest reason for a breakup🤣🤣🤣 In this case it is 100% his fault. Why?
1. she is not beautiful at all
2. she got into relationship with him simply out of boredom
3. she was, is and will always be mentally deranged
4. she was never emotionally involved with him
5. she is seeking attention and validation from complete strangers over the internet rather than from him
6. she didn't/does not/will never respect him
7. she is a traditional woman but her tradition is to jump from deek 🥕to pennies🍆
8. she's got a bad temper
9. she is impulsive
Wait a minute! What if he kept her just as anti-masturbation treatment and he never intended to actually commit?!?

[mikef]

To the lady who feels she is running out of time, wait till you hit 50...Time really flies.

[par]

It is truly inexplicable western women thought they could upend the social order with aggressive feminism and still enjoy traditional relationships and lives. The geometrically declining segment of traditional "nice guys" want absolutely NOTHING to do with 99.5% of western women. On and BTW it isn't "nice guys" who are ghosting women but the minuscule percentage of Chads/Brads/Tyrones 95% of women limit their dating to who have at least three or four "options" for dates.

Yes, time is running out for many western women who spent their "pretty" on endless hot girl summer and are quickly approaching their late 20s and early 30s with NO meaningful relationship options.