This KEEPS 90% Of People From FINDING LOVE (Fix This Today!) | Marisa Peer & Lewis Howes

Marisa Peer is the author of ‘I Am Enough’ and creator of Rapid Transformational Therapy®️(RTT). Marisa Peer is an English best-selling author, nutritionist, relationship therapist, hypnotherapist trainer, and motivational speaker. She is using hypnosis for anxiety, weight loss, addiction, and overcoming fear.

She has spent over 30 years working with people including royalty, rock stars, actors, professional and Olympic athletes, CEOs and media personalities and has developed her own style that is frequently referred to as “life-changing.”

Other than ‘I Am Enough’, Marisa Peer is also the author of ‘You Can Be Thin’, ‘Ultimate Confidence’, ‘Trying to Get Pregnant’ and ‘You Can Be Younger’. Her specialist subjects include: hypnosis, infertility (pregnancy), fears/ phobias, stage fright, low self-esteem, confidence/ self-esteem, weight loss, relationships, career, addictions and childhood problems.

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If you’re ready to get “real” about relationships and finding the lasting love you want, then I think this episode is going to provide you with a ton of value.

I’m always on the lookout for ways to improve our sense of self-worth and self-love, and I’ve found relationships to be a great motivator for so many people out there to improve it. And now, I hope you’ll join me for Episode 1,228 of The School of Greatness!
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INTERVIEW NOTES: (condensed, and enhanced a bit)
-Don't be rejected; we are enough!
- Acknowledge: I am enough!
- I can deal with this. I've got this!
- I'm unique, but not so different from others
- I keep learning and moving forward by connecting with others!
- I'm lovable; and worthy of love!
- I take care of myself and recognize my own needs; I nurture myself
- I keep myself safe; and I believe I'm secure.
- I evaluate and re-prioritize my needs regularily as needed
- Our mates Lifestyle should match for long term compatibility. Our Values and Goals are important, but don't need to match
- Tune into your gut feelings; recognize and respond to red flags
- Get in touch with yourself: feel your feelings; get know yourself deeply and intimately
- I express my feelings to release them; both internly and interpersonally.
- I express my hurts promptly to loved ones; to release my pain and get resolution, so I/we can heal.
- I praise myself for my gifts; and praise others for thiers!
- I acknowledge what I have to offer others: I am kind, honest, thoughtful... I'm valuable to myself and others!
- Make your bad habits unfamiliar; and self praise familiar!
- Don't fear rejection, keep moving forward by connecting with others!
- You and your body react to thoughts; and you can change you thoughts in an instant!
- Feelngs follow thoughts. Change you focus and your feelings will change! Look at the sunny side... Count your blessings...
- Don't react, RESPOND instead!
- Youve got more choices now: Fight, flight, freeze, or FLOW!
- When safe and right/good, go with the flow!
- Watch your words, they create illustrations/illusions.
- Speak only Truths to yourself and others!
- Thoughts create feelings; exchange your thoughts, to change you feelings.
- You can change your thoughts and interpretation/perspective instantly; enlighten them to brighten up your world!

[dianecleary]

I knew Marisa 40 years ago in south Kensington. She was allways doing yoga and very organised. It was a dark time for her. I remember driving by her first psychotherapy clinic. Great to see her at the top of her proffesion.

[nadiafedorenko]

Sorry plenty of us know we are good and lovable but there's just a shortage of decent people - it's supply and demand. I also know people that had low self-esteem and bad backgrounds but they we're just blessed to find somebody that loved them and stuck with them despite their not feeling good about themselves and they know they were blessed. Knowing that you are good enough and worthy is not enough to bring someone in your life if there is a shortage out there of good available partners.

[unicornsarereal]

Marisa Peer is like a lighthouse in a storm, the beacon that saves us from dangerous waters. Her teachings are amazing, she is amazing. I am so grateful for the day I discovered her and I thought that her video was made just for me. Since then, I went from a very insecure, introvert person to a contented, confident woman. Oh, I am still a work in progress but I'll get to be the best of myself. I recommend to people to become a member on her platform, Abundant life.
Thanks Marisa and Lewis for this great interview.

[friedaholmes]

"I'm Not Going to Settle Anymore I'm Lovable No Matter What." Yes, I Am. 15 Years Celibate Disease Free Love My Alone Time Rediscovering My Authentic Self. 60th September 2022 Yeah, I Gave Up the Need to Feel I Matter, I'm Loved, I'm Significant, and I'm Safe. My Family Never Confirmed It and Never Really Cared Accept to Provide. I Thought I Could Get It from My Children Now Adults 27 & 37 but It Didn't Pan Out That Way. NYC

[NickNotas]

Taking shots -- that's the answer. The people who are successful at dating put themselves out there often. They may face rejection at times, but they gain experience, build confidence, and create endless opportunities.

[torreygreen]

As far as I'm concerned, Marisa is a guru, a goddess. I love that she shares her vast wisdom so freely and Lewis asks wonderful questions. The day I discovered Marisa, I was enthralled and spent the entire day watching her videos. In a day, I learned more valuable information about myself and others than from the ten years I spent in therapy. I've sent her books and videos to everyone I care about and made giant posters that say You Are Enough, You Are Lovable and posted them in my classroom. Isn't it awesome to live in a time when we can learn anything for free and share the information with just a click of a button! Marisa, thank you for your gifts!!! Lewis, thank you for yours!

[marymilord]

We can’t look for love outside ourselves
It’s an inside job

[sharajackson]

Most peeps are single cause it's just luck finding someone you find attractive, feel comfy, mental connection, chemistry, emotionally stable and trust.Otherwise its better to live life regardless.Marriage is a outworn institution and overrated.Men love a level of submission in a woman and its truly a boring and robotic way of living to be in a so called secure relationship. Woman live your life on your own terms and enjoy each moment, its not bound to having a man to be fulfilled.If you meet a guy who is sincere you will know and go with it, otherwise just keep loving your life 💜❤💚🧡

[IMHip]

I am the scapegoat in my family and i've always looked for "connection" . She has put a word onto what I have spent my life seeking. In the process i've let so many garbage people in my life because I thought I did not deserve better so anyone was better than nothing. I'm 55 and finally realizing that I have to seek out the right people and create my life and reject the garbage.

[oldrrocr]

Well done.
just sharing my notes here:
if you are going to lie to yourself, make it a POSITIVE lie. believe you're worth it! (make an effort to BE LOVABLE!)
don't expect those people in your family (or early life) who made you feel bad about yourself to EVER change no matter what you do;
there is plenty of love out in the universe - seek that out.

[vanekirk]

I am curious to know what percentage of the single population is like me, happier without a mate or partner.

[Maxhindle]

To find real love is to love thy self so much that you have no attachment to another ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[mimi-]

INSECURITY IS THE MAIN REASON, YOU GOTTA LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!! !♥️♥️♥️♥️

[marysmith]

The worst decision I made in my life was marrying a person I didn't want to marry. My mother pushed me into it because I was pregnant.

[LW-wgny]

I just love how positive statements just roll off her tongue like they are on a conveyor belt! Lol she has inspired m3 to learn to do the same!

[er]

Most people don't want to know that you are lonely; if you tell them, they'll probably remind you to be strong, that there are people out there who are not as lucky as you are; they'll probably check back in a few weeks to see if you feel better; they either have their own problems to deal with or they really don't understand what you are talking about

[susanblanche]

I might add I'm very picky who I allow to be in my life!! If I don't trust them I push them aside and if they whine about it I gently tell them it's for the best I remove myself from them. Lol

[The_Gallowglass]

5:25 it's not just that you think they'll think you're weak and needy. It's that you think people really don't care. A lot of times they don't. They might say they do but actions are louder than words.