This KEEPS 90% Of People Single! (BIGGEST DATING MISTAKES) | Matthew Hussey & Jay Shetty

[paulastorm]

My husband and I fell in love on our first date. We both just knew. We were married 36 very happy years until he died in 2016.

[amarula]

I genuinely think relationships is not for everyone. Some of us live this lifetime just trying really hard to learn how to love ourselves because it's not easy or simple, some of us die not achieving the discovery of love. It's just that.

[TheDaniMilan]

I have been on a self love journey the past few days and it feels so good. I recently blocked a guy who gaslit me all the time pointing out my flaws without acknowledging the issues he had. One thing abt self love is to love yourself enough to let go of that which doesn’t serve you

[jane]

"Be a lighthouse. Be the energy that you want first."
Excellent, Matthew.

[gavinspeaks]

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”

― Oscar Wilde

~Much Love from a Law of Attraction YouTuber💜

[larissafonseca]

For anyone wondering, the lady’s name is Lori Gottlieb and her book is called Maybe You Should Talk To Someone

[NathalieLazo]

The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extend) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️

[Avoid_Low_Frequency]

I had to keep listening to you, Stephan Speakes, Lisa, marissa, day after day, podcast after podcast until my brain soaked up all the information and put it in to practice! I keep working on myself. I’m 65…lots of things to let go of and live in the moment! I stopped planning date 2 before we went on date 1. I’m enjoying the person! Not the perspective relationship

[sceachain]

Dang it.. Wish I had seen this years ago..

Long story short, I dated this girl. In hindsight, it was a terrible idea.. But just like you said, I was in fantasy land.. Maybe not my fault, but we had talked a lot about a future together etc. And then she just dumped me, and was very nonchalant about it..
I was totally gutted.

I'm normally pretty good to shake off disappointment, but in this case, I spiraled down pretty fast.. Wondering what could I do to get her back etc..

But after about a year.. the lightbulb finally went on..
Boom.. I figured myself out.. I wasn't upset with losing her. I still had many good memories.. But what I lost was my future.

And when you lose your future, you are wandering aimlessly towards.. nothing... And given my personality, that's not how I function..

Once I let go of this fantasy/future, and realigned myself with other goals, I had this tremendous sense of relief.

Thank you guys for helping others see this too.

[sensingnewspace]

I need to watch this before every date to remind myself again and again and again.
It is like faulty programming that overwrites my thoughts and behavior when I go on a date and/or like someone. It feels really tedious, sometimes and afterwards, when I realize what I did or am doing, I am almost even shocked at how easily I let go of my goals because I fall back into fantasy thinking and dating 😢😂

[hajji]

Just actually GETTING a date would be a fine thing! I have had SO MANY conversations online but that's as far as it goes. I realise it's the thing about online dating but it's not even online dating it's online chatting and then....nothing. I have had a few, but very few and unsuccessful. 😑🙄

[tonjaspeaks]

Many times we can get caught up in thinking that our opposer can steal or gift or steal our position. The fact is no matter what the enemy does he can never take your place. He can get the spot next to you but he can never get your spot! God has graced you to walk in your calling in a way that no one else can, baby your seat is reserved!!

[andreag]

watching this high and actually FEEL everything he describes hits differently

[sabrikay]

So much values from your videos every time!
In this past year I learned the importance of self-love and acceptance, thanks to your words and the content you've put out. I hope that everyone can find peace with themselves and can enjoy life to the fullest.
Thank you Jay!

[vosgita]

Thank you. Sometimes I thought there was something wrong with me because i don’t get nervous on a date. I don’t get why people do! It’s supposed to be fun. If a guy makes me nervous, its a red flag for me.

[amyp]

Matthew it's normal and natural to be nervous when you go on a date with somebody... I never thought it from your perspective about their status and what they're wearing or and then I try to figure myself out and say don't be nervous and be yourself and try to have a relaxing you know demeanor because it's not easy to be me and be totally cool if they don't like it...

[-aznho]

Thank you for being here for us Jay. I always listen to your podcast whenever life gets hard. you make my day🤍

[paulaparkman]

I got sick to my stomach on our first date, almost puked... honestly, he makes me feel so lucky, he treats me so good... I think I found my soul mate, a little nervousness is nothing compared to what we found in each other!!!

[kieuanhphan]

One of the best talks i've ever listened to. Amazing approach to love and so true, so authentic! Love you both!

[imAishax]

To any one who watch this
You're gonna be the best husbands & wifes