WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER DATE OR MARRY MEN WHO ARE BROKE OR WHO MAKE LESS THAN YOU

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[SheilaTrueLove]

DOES THIS LOOK LIKE YOU'RE GOING TO LIVE A LIFE WITH PEACE AND JOY OR DRAMA, CHA0S AND ABUSE:
My brother gave my sister in law AIDS. This was in the early 80's when they only had AZT. Having to watch my sister in law slowly fade away was one of the most hurtful things I have ever experienced in life. She was a pickmesha and thought her husband could do no wrong. She DIED before he did. He was a Jehovah Witness and no one even suspected him to be low down, dirty and rotten DEMON. So even if you're MARRIED you still need to get tested every 3 to 4 months....ALWAYS!

[Lovely_Diva]

I agree with your points. I have turned down dudes who didn't have much because i refuse to be used. Ive worked hard to get what I have and Im not going to take care of no man!!!

[Arizona_lilly]

They have no shame… I’m 36 years old have work very hard, can’t share with broke bums, the relationship will always be hard… always. In my 20s I did this from 17-28 in 10 years i suffered so much when I came home. At 28 I said I’m done ! I been done I want kids But they have no house ! For my kid to stay in let alone a nice car for them to ride around in. It’s all on me. Be careful girls

[therealempresslorrib]

I had to chime in on this one!!
Never date someone who is not as financially stable as you!They will envy you.I went thru hell n he tried to break me down mentally, spiritually n verbally!!FACTS Truth here!!💯💯 he went as low as to try n talk about my lips👀👀I am a beautiful woman and he couldn’t find anything else to tear me down but decided to say I had big lips😂😂😂.Boi bye

[dollyscott-payne]

*I agree with this message 💯%!*

*A long time ago (I'm 64), my mother told her four daughters: "Consider what a man gives you ($$$) as extra. Always be self-sufficient!"*

[RightToFreedomGirl]

FACTS! NEVER DATE DOWN - he was so insecure he bc controlling worried i'd date a peer @the office.

[rosesme]

Every woman who makes more money than her partner, has caught HELL from that man! He hates, despises, abuses her verbally and/or physically, etc. He will do anything to try and discourage, "break" and bring you down! It will NEVER work! They will say: "Aw, b***h! Yo degree don't mean nuttin!" Always get a man who is on your level or ABOVE your financial pay grade.
A lot of men values a "dumb" woman who is a "submissive s3x slave", unambitious, and will allow him to do whatever he wants without question or any requirements of accountability or responsibility from him; just to satisfy his "EGO". He must have his own: Home or apt, car, stable and gainful employment. If a man does not have these 3 things, NEVER date or marry him.

[punanamousme]

I just walked away after 2 yrs. Good job, own place, car and really nice. I took notes when he had car issues and didn't have money for repairs, stopped taking me on dates, didnt mind me paying for everything, we had thrift store dates...etc..etc. I asked him a few times.."wth is really going on?" Nothing changed. He gave minimal effort in the bd.
Boy bye!!

[Arizona_lilly]

They don’t test reguardless even married women should be yearly taking health seriously about exam test their blood too

[tashahall]

Date a man that has MORE, imo . Its time more women let men take on the financial responsibility. Have your own but make sure that man makes your life better not the same

[louavillebilly]

I am so proud of women our age. I have always stated that they have to have his own place and his own means of transportation! YES! THANK YOU! He has to have his own mode for transportation. And he has to make more than me. Why are men always looking to hitch a ride to their American Dream off of the hard work, dedication, and effort, of a woman? They want us to pay most of or all of the bills! Hell Naw! I'm not paying for somebody's cruise expenses. You can't afford to pay your own way? Too bad! You can't pay for hotel expenses? Well I'ma get that single kingsize bed suite then! I cannot stand a broke man!

[Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living]

The only time a man cares about the money that you make is if he’s going to use you for the easy financial come-up. They’re not into these women - they’re a means to an end. Don’t think that they’ll appreciate you for helping them, either. Men RESENT women who financially support them because they know that they’re not a real man if their lady has to pay for everything like his mother used to do. Go look at the stories of the actresses and businesswomen who married down, and see how it turned out for them - all of the relationships failed.

I know I was being funny when I said this, but there’s a little truth to it. If you’re really that desperate for a man and you’re willing to pay for it, get yourself an escort or a young toy boy. At least he is going to be smoking hot, know how to do the “horizontal dance”, and know the score.

[netpasya]

You ladies, won't say it, I'll say it for you.
In the old days, only men with means could have children and get women.
That meant those men supported multiple households and multiple families.
The whole thing went out of whack, when women started opening it up to just anyone.
How on Earth, a dude with his pants hanging down, no job, no car, no place to live, dirty clothes, no hygiene, can have multiple baby mamas? The guy didn't just become like that. He was always like that.
These women know that's how the guy is, they don't care.

[RightToFreedomGirl]

My mentor, an Accountant, says "It's NOT how much he makes, it's how much he keeps" - Baby daddies r BROKE altho he makes 85k in IT - 3 kids, car, mortgage? Sch loans got him broker than a mug LMBO. He has no savings.

[PettyIsMyMiddleName]

I had a conversation one time with my friend, who is a PickMe say to me why does it have to be about money? Why you can’t build with a man?

🥴🙄

This was a few years ago so she and I was probably 36 or 37.

I told her that the build with a man days are OVER, they are dead and in the grave those days 😂 . When u are early 20s yes, you two can build together but we almost 40 years old? 🥴
What has he been doing for the past 2 decades to where I need to build with him? I mean I built my empire by my mid to late 20s . I was able to fully provide for myself (all credit to TMH for providing) I had apartment and all my cars were brand new. Plus, at that time I could afford at least one vacation per year .

, again what has he been doing?

And the facts are this, women live in delusional land sometimes bc EVERYONE should know as the lady said in the video that men don’t feel good about themselves when their money isn’t right. So why on Earth would a woman think she will change him? 🙄

I don’t get it 🥴

[Ms.ClarmstrongPlus]

Hey Ms. Sheila.. 😂You know when not even the hair can make it a bad day. Its always better to have your own and practice hypergamy...

[RightToFreedomGirl]

That color is stunning on Sheila + that lipstixk 💄

[markuchiha]

I was born nothing, no house. I want to end this cycle of shit.

[vanda]

So true i date one and never again it was Hell he treat me bad it has nothing to do with be golddigger

[dollyscott-payne]

*Message received 👍!!!*

*And, your hair looks lovely, Sis!*