Why old men like young women | Understanding Men University | Tony Gaskins

[Dr.Elaine]

“If you are looking for an older man, I am here to tell you, he is looking for you, but he is looking for you for the wrong reasons.” TG

[mitz]

He said if you want emotional security “Go to Jesus”... you want financial security “Get on ya grind” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[jenellej]

I was talking to a man 15 years older than me, and he was the worst. He was very mean, controlling, and manipulative. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[victoriousqueen]

Most older men trying to live through these youngster women. They've lived there lives already. If u asked me, most of them going through midlife crisis and don't want to accept that they getting older.

[kilimanjaro]

“Somebody who is operating purely is not looking for somebody from a whole another generation.” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. Yes, indeed, Tony.

[staceythorpe]

Getting old is inevitable; Maturation is a choice. Apostle Paul said when I was a child I thought as a child, spoke as a child, understood as a child but when I became a man I put away childish things.

[fabiennepdt]

AGE doesn't equate to WISDOM. Only true character matters within a reasonable age range, when choosing a man.

[jewelsafire]

They prefer very young & naive for their own exploits. So, be careful out here.

[bpassionfashion]

“He is a pervert” 😂😂😂the way you delivered that . HILLARIOUS!
And yes! …You hit on the the nail. We think that older men are wise, secure, powerful and that they will provide some sort of safety.
The safety that most likely we didn’t received from a fatherless childhood . A bit late but i learnt my lesson. Now I want to work on myself and hopefully God will place the right man in my life when and if the time is right !

[ninapeterson]

As a woman in her 20’s. Ive realised that they tend to gravitate towards us only sexually. Otherwise every woman will be snapped up by 25 but it’s rarely the case. I’ve dated older men and I realise that their ex wives are much older and the ones who recently married. Married women 28+. So I’m not sure. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I’m starting to think this is a myth. I looked at studies and women in the west aren’t married until 28-35+ on average. So when we say prefer young, in what way? Because it is very important to know. Being viewed as desirable for only sexual activities isn’t a compliment to me.

[CaramelCuban]

Tony, not lying I divorced my older husband almost a year ago he was running circles around me .. I was young & dumb &couldn’t see through muddy water!

[KayciazWorld]

Because often times when women are very young we're still finding ourselves in many ways. Which older men love to exploit...

[gabrielagarza]

I was dating someone 17 years older than I was. Conclusion. I had daddy issues and I was inspired my his finances, after doing some growing and healing, I came to find out, that he was a lost soul and was broken from his divorce and couldn’t take the fact that he didn’t have his children 24/7 anymore. The best you could do for yourself is to keep working on you.

[nwill]

My daughter is 22 years old and gets hit on/ogled all of the time by men in their 30s, 40s, etc. She thinks it’s gross. Good!

[PV-uxbe]

I like older men but all that you are saying is true. But I have always stood on my own two feet and never back down from my beliefs. They always stop dealing with me bc I’m too independent and I talk back a lot 🤣

[XavianneNailz]

I was 18 dating a 36 year old man. I dated him for year and half and I remember having self doubt about everything I did. When I called it off he kept coming back. I didn’t know it was a soul tie until later on. When I turned 20 I started dating a 46 year old man. He approached me and convinced me he was different. Coming to find out he was married and was having sex with his wife, his baby mama as well as me. I learned my lesson with both men. Both men gaslight me, manipulated money from me, used me and hurt me emotionally and verbally.

[sheygabit]

He's looking for you for the wrong reasons just as you're looking for him for the wrong reasons.That gave me meaning

[joharilarosa]

Young ladies you better leave those old men alone. They're old and sick looking for a Nurse. Don't get stuck having to take care of one.

[js]

You telling the truth Tony. Don't play yourself into believing that the older man has more to offer because you will be surprised down the road. In most cases they have motives which extend long-term like someone to care for them later in life while you're left feeling burdened and resentful because you are still able to "Dip It and Do It" When you are younger it seems cute. But wait until you get older but his older is way older than yours and things start getting outta balance. Also it is true, older men cheat on younger women too. So don't get it twisted. When he's strictly looking for much younger, it's not a compliment like you're winning. Remember, "Time Is Undefeated" 💯

[valenciasuggs]

This is true! My ex-husband was 11 years older than I. His first wife was only four years younger than him and he would comment that he had to teach her to do everything! I was naive but had spiritual grandparents. As I matured in the LORD I saw clearly how stagnant he remained. They are abusive, mean, condescending, controlling, and worse. It won’t last because if it is not Godly, it won’t grow!!! I could write a book and one of my goals (after 20 years, with only my children to show as blessings) is to warn women that you don’t want that energy!!! Don’t procrastinate and become spiritually famished!!! You can never get time back!!!