3 Reasons Why Women Are Attracted To Older Men | Courtney Ryan

In this video, I go over 3 reasons why women are attracted to older men. I'm not saying that younger guys can't exhibit any of these qualities, but they are more consistent amongst the older ones. It takes some longer than others to build the qualities that make a healthy relationship. Thank you so much for watching and let me know what you thought in the comments below!

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[rjmacready]

I enjoy younger women-not just for looks, but because of their energy, and optimism, and fun. And, they usually have no kids.

[zainulabidin]

Summary:
1) They know what they want.
2) They are more mature and responsible.
3) Sense of security.

[terencemccue]

21 years apart with my wife. Everyone said I’ll give it 2 years. They are all divorced and we are still going strong at 23 years. My career is over now and I support hers. I always used to say... I don’t like all young girls, I like that young girl.

[keyboarddancers]

Young men: instead of wasting your twenties chasing girls, focus your abundant energies consistently on your health and well-being, your education and your career and on interesting or adventurous activities or hobbies. If you can avoid any/too much debt, all the better. Be totally independent but maintain a few close friendships. By the time you're in your thirties, you will *NOT* need a dating app!!

[TheEngineer]

“Women don’t care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winners.”

[jerodklee]

I just found Courtney’s channel and I’m shocked at how mature she appears to be while being so poised especially now hearing that she’s only 25. The world needs more “influencers” to be proud of so I’m encouraged.

[rodolfolahsen]

1:10 they know what they want
3:43 mature and responsible
6:11 sense of security

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Men are attracted to younger women because biologically they can produce children and are more likely to survive the process. Women are attracted to successful men because biologically that maximizes the likely hood of success for her children. It’s that simple, there’s no reason to be bitter about it, it’s just nature.

[massimo]

Fellas, work on yourself and focus on your purpose. Do that, and you will need to fight them off with a stick. Trust me.

[MahaDas]

I am now sixty-two years of age and I have not been with a woman for almost twelve years, but I try to keep myself in good physical shape regardless. In the last year I found myself working in an environment that was occupied by many women, some very young others closer to my age. I realized that some older ladies were interested in me at first, but a larger majority of "interested" women were much, much, younger. Until this event, I have never been thrust into a work situation where my attention was so highly sought after.

[RyanUybengkee]

Im 45. I have been through a lot. Older or say "MATURE" men do not have any time for games. All we do is develop ourselves more and more each passing year. Men increase in Value in Age through experience and Calmness. Trust me, being Calm in ANY given situation is such freedom. Boys play Games, older Men achieve Goals. One after the other. At 25? some (or most) men have not figured out yet what they want. I say Some. At 45? a Man's reputation IS HIS asset. We have had many battle scars. We are still learning. Older Men have their emotions in Check.

[MrDanielWP]

If you're an 18-22 year old male, ignore women and acquire currency. (Or, more precisely, the MEANS of acquiring said currency.)

[rjmacready]

Only 25? You possess much poise, wisdom, and caring for someone so young. I hope God blesses you with a wonderful man soon.

[terrytari]

You are right, Courtney! Since I have been getting older women & girls have been hitting on me. I keep my body in good shape but doing, weights, cardio, and yoga (I just became a yoga instructor). I started to see that some women have hit on me in front of their husbands or boyfriends. That never happened to me when I was 25 years or younger.

Courtney, this is true of ALL women i.e. older, younger, White, Mexicans, Black, Asian, Middle Eastern, Jews, etc. Even if the women are Police Officers, lawyers, entertainers, my landlord, women taller or shorter than me, well educated, or non-educated.

[moolis]

"Girls wait at the finish line and get with the winners."
18 yr old girl to a 26 yr old guy: "You're too old for me"
18 yr old girl to 33 yr old Zac Effron: "He's SO hot"

[cleverpanther]

At 55 I am surprised at how much 30 something women like talking to me. My advice I would give my younger self is to be relaxed with women and don't dodge their emotions or any s*** tests. Women love to feel comfortable and when you act like you can handle anything life throws at you including all of their emotions, issues or anything else they share they want to be with a man like that. If a woman feels like you are their "rock" and a calm in her storm she will want to be with you.

[AlanLawSydney]

I agree with you, Courtney. After divorce with 2 boys, I got this much younger, talented beautiful woman stand next to me and have been together for the last 5 years. Age is just a number, it’s the personality, the chemistry, the love that gets you together, and keeps you going strong. Keep up with your good works. Thank you.

[Sad_Cat_Epiphany]

Courtney, what you are saying is what I've been trying to get my single guy friends to understand for years. A guy seeking a serious relationship in college is a roll of the dice, simply because all he has to worry about is getting his next term paper done on time.
But say that a guy finishes school, develops marketable skills, gets into a decent paying job, learns to manage his money, even starts investing, purchases some real estate, and gets a decent, reliable car - by his mid 20s. I get it, that takes a lot of work, independence, and discipline.
I just wish more young guys would realize how desirable that is to a lot of women.
Inevitably, this man will become quite selective of what girl he will share his life with - he now has a lot to lose by being in a bad relationship.
You said one time that if a guy would focus on himself to improve himself, that women, definitely high quality girls, will come and take interest. I can testify to that statement.

[scottschumacher]

I am a mature, experienced and by most standards, successful guy. I have generally only dated or been married to a woman at least 10-12 years younger. So I definitely know of which I speak. I agree with the security, maturity, experience, income attributes. The problem comes in when your partner expects an above average income, but complains and does not understand that in order for her to enjoy the fruits of your labor, she must except the extraordinary amount of time and work required to generate that income. If she complains that you spend too much time working, then she is a spoiled brat, and needs a dose of real life.

[Lobo]

I'm 39, unlucky with women of age between 26-33, which people say is my "marriage material age", but younger girls like me and I never try to downplay my age. I like their energy and decency, some generations are more stable in mind and more decent than the older generations. I don't really know what they see in me, I'm depressed and financially ruined guy. In recent years I've been dating women that 20 years ago would be in my mind way over my league.