Your Ex's Mind When You PURSUE After A Breakup

Coach Lee explains what happens in your ex's mind when you pursue them after they broke up with you.

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[denisejaydub]

2 months guys. 2 months to the day. Absolutely zero contact after the break up. And i didn’t put up a fight at all. Tonight he tells me he misses me and he doesn’t know what’s wrong with him that I’m the sweetest girl he’s ever been with.

Too bad for him, I’m over it. But I’m gonna go to bed with a smile on my face :)

[robertspies]

I bet when coach lee's girlfriend/wife does anything wrong, than he disappears for 2 months 😂 he knows the power of no contact

[MissRegina]

I broke no contact last night after 41 days… now I feel so terrible. It’s starting to feel as if this pain will never end

[hermitsoul]

You don't deserve someone who comes back, you deserve someone who never leaves.

[riigo]

The only thing I'm pursuing is Coach Lee's videos.

Update:
She came back after 2 months of NC
I followed all advices from Lee and slowly went back into dating instead of jumping straight away.
But unfortunately after about a month, she started to regret it and I could feel she was looking at other boys all the time, she also started to be on and off with me, hurting me so much. She finally ghosted me 3 months ago and found a new boyfriend leaving me here tore to pieces.
My friends.. as much as it hurts, I do not think you should give a second chance to a person who was willing to walk away from you.

[Pierre-LucBeauregard]

No contact works. After 5 years of NC, the government finaly reached out to me about my tax returns

[doublea]

Was literally about to go do something that would have signaled I am pursuing them. This came just in the nick of time, Coach. Much thank.

[zeekvincent]

This man here “Coach Lee” is above articulate & wise. Kudos to COACH LEE!!!

[brandonrobertkersjes]

My heart and mind are just filled with so much hate atm. The way she dumped me was so harsh and cruel.

[AzazelHash]

BIG BIG BIG BIG video again. Sometimes when my ex wasn’t showing she was curious of me I would message her begging her to come back, it never helped. They just got even more distant from me and waited longer to pursue me again. If they break up with you DONT text them. It won’t help you.

[andreamcleod]

Together for 10 years and have two kids. She left for another guy and I begged for months. Now I have come to terms she is gone and have been no contact for almost 2 months. I feel great and not looking back. My best life is ahead of me and can’t wait to see who I will meet. No contact is the greatest idea I’ve ever followed through on. Thank you coach

[ehko]

It has been day 50 of no contact. I feel a bit lost, but I think it's still better to continue than breaking it.

[LeonTunes]

Great advice. I'm nearly four months into the very painful breakup of a sixteen year relationship. We've been seeing each other regularly for the last few weeks. Nights out, gigs, hotels, all in secret because she doesn't want the children or her friends or family to know. She's adamant there's no getting back together but at the same time finding it hard to let go. She's a good person, just as confused as I am.

I've just spent the afternoon/evening watching your videos and they've really hit home - particularly this one. I really feel I learnt a lot today so thank you. For the sake of my mental health (and hers) I can see that I need to back off for a while, live my own life and become less available. Possibly go full no contact for a while. Not with any malice, just politely start distancing. Otherwise we will just be stuck in this painful loop with neither of us moving on or figuring out what we want. Sincerely, you have really helped me today. Many thanks.

[WJSharp]

I feel like I’m dying it’s been a month and 10 days since we spoke last and I went into no contact.. we have been together for 5 years and I’m still holding onto hope 💔. Thank you Coach lee.. your making it easier for me to stay in no contact!

[tannascreative]

Hard day today...thankful for everyone here and Coach Lee!

[shaniavillareal]

Honestly, after the break up, the begging, the hurt, anxiety, grief, and anger. My fear now is not losing them but losing myself. In the sense of losing my sense of value and worth again when I get abandoned. I fear that my worth will become co-dependent again with my future partner that’s why Im trying to heal and focus on myself instead, to the point where that no one can shake or undermine my worth anymore in the future.

I bought Coach Lee's emergency breakup kit,
I am following everything he says.
I have very small hope though.
I am stuck where I must focus myself and be positive. I do my best to full my schedule with activities, gym, run, music (I am a pianist), but I just can't help being sad. :(

[savvysupastar]

Bonus tip is EXACTLY on point. I deserve to be with someone who wants me just as much. Being too available opens the door to be used and taken for granted. Not a good feeling when they are careless with your kindness.

[leratoseretsi]

Do the No contact with the mindset that it might be over for good, you will either heal or get back together with them