Is Your Dysfunctional Family of Origin Still Inside You?

How do you know if your family-of-origin is still influencing you from within? Jerry Wise helps identify the symptoms of our unconscious family patterns. Resolving these deeply ingrained dynamics can lead to greater freedom, maturity, and reduced reactivity. He also shares strategies for exploring this deep programming, helping you become more of your Real Self and less of your Family Self.

Have you ever noticed that you have greater self-control and self-confidence when you’re calmer? It’s no accident. In this video, Jerry Wise explains why calmness is so powerful.

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Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC, has helped 10,000s of people heal from family dysfunction and become the true self they were never allowed to be. As a family systems and self-differentiation coach, he leverages 45 years of experience to help clients permanently break free from family-of-origin dysfunction, cultivate healthy relationships, and build a strong sense of self.

****DISCLAIMER: THIS VIDEO IS NOT INTENDED TO SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING. BE SURE TO CONSULT A PROFESSIONAL TO HELP YOU INTEGRATE AND UTILIZE THESE CONCEPTS.****

[jerrywise]

Finally get your family OUT OF YOU & be the true self you were never allowed to be 👇

[petermautner]

What people have lived through via family impacts that person forever. Parenting should be on the educational agenda, before one has marriage and their own family . Not everyone can be a good parent .

[tanyakashyap]

I'm absolutely astounded by how the F.O.O is pathologically imbricated in our subconscious.. recognition of this phenomenon is itself quite overwhelming.. I mean it's crazy how our minds adapt to survive the theatrics n histrionics.. n it's equally liberating to know n understand n help yourself to start SELF differentiating.. 🕊️🕊️

[mariadiez]

I never saw before. I like what I am hearing
Iam a therapist, now, learning about narcissistic abuse in the family system and in general, (my case is my mother and what she created in the family)
Nice to hear you and thank you so much for helping people
Maria. 🤗🙏👋📚🧘‍♂️💕

[MajinSayon]

Here's an uncanny experience: one time, after getting pretty high on marijuana, I clearly HEARD my mother's voice inside my head, criticizing and putting me down. It was going non stop! That was when I realized how deep FOO programming really is.

[danitaminer]

Spot on!
Thank you 😊
This was exactly what I needed to hear at exactly the right time. I chuckled as you went through the list and verbalized ✔️with each one you listed. Getting better everyday. So much gratitude to all the therapist out here on YouTube sharing this priceless content and to everyone taking time to post a comment. We all need each other more than ever.
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[hikingviking]

Yes my Dad is still in there. I inherited his fearfulness and acid reflux. I’ve learned so much from you Jerry.

[kkane]

Thank you for identifying the root of the problem 🙏🏾 changing our beliefs work
Facing the reality work
The deep questions work are healing.

[jennylynn]

Jerry, Thank you! Eager to listen and grow - you are such a blessing! 🙂

[JCat]

this is such valuable discussion, thx!

[Sister_song]

Wow thank you so much Jerry! Life changing wisdom!!!! P. S. I love your shirt!

[Journeygirlme]

Thank you dear man. God bless you for sharing your articulate work allowing us to see and clarify our feelings

[christinerobertson]

Thank You again, Jerry. It's easier for me to focus on my husband's FOO and issues, rather than my own FOO who is just a Narcissistic mom.

[conniehensley]

Thank you for your videos sharing vital information.

[Goldenheart]

Jerry your videos and lessons continue to help me understand myself and my family as a whole on such a deeper level. Watching these patterns start to break apart in all of us as I continue to move forward on my healing path has been such an amazing experience. Understanding the need to heal the inner adult as well as the inner child and there connection to one another has bern a real eye opener. Your work continues to highlight the layers upon layers that need to be healed in order to keep moving forward. Thank you! 💛

[Denise-yc]

God Bless, Jerry Wise,
Every single Day. Thank You Jerry Wise. I give thanks to God for you.
Your tapes are very important in my life.

[PrettyWhiteLady]

The exact message I needed to hear today Jerry!! So very wise, if I may lol ❤

[equalityforall]

Thank you for this video. I just struck out with a bad therapist, who had told me she knew about narcissistoc abuse, but didn't. I need to find another way to deal with this, . I'd love to try your course even though I'm older.

[MinkaLovesPineapples]

Thank you for the video Jerry. Very helpful info.

[kareemmohammed]

helpful insight Jerry, much appreciated as always.