How To Build Sexual Chemistry With Someone & Maintain It

Building sexual chemistry with someone is crucial to creating a strong, long-lasting relationship. But how do you create chemistry in the first place, and more importantly, how do you maintain it?

In this video, we'll discuss the science behind sexual chemistry and give you practical tips on how to build and maintain it with your partner. From the power of touch to the importance of communication, you'll learn everything you need to know to create an intense, passionate connection with someone. So, if you want to learn how to build sexual chemistry with someone and maintain it over time, be sure to watch this video now! Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe to our channel for more great relationship advice.

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Researcher/ Writer: Dylan Swanepoel
Editor: Sid Thompson
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Sound Designer: Gower Sun @MidnightCityMusic
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

References:

Anthony Smith, Anthony Lyons, Jason Ferris, Juliet Richters, Marian Pitts, Julia Shelley & Judy M. Simpson (2011) Sexual and Relationship Satisfaction Among Heterosexual Men and Women: The Importance of Desired Frequency of Sex, Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 37:2, 104-115, DOI: 10.1080/0092623X.2011.560531
Zillmann, D., & Bryant, J. (1988). Pornography's impact on sexual satisfaction 1. Journal of Applied Social Psychology, 18(5), 438-453.
Wynne, L. C., & Wynne, A. R. (1986). The quest for intimacy. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 12(4), 383-394.

[YumiTsui]

How important is sexual chemistry to you in a relationship?

[hannahmetzger]

As someone who's never been in a romantic or sexual relationship at all, this video helps a ton.

[EcpliseCrow]

✨ Timestamps and Major Points ✨
1. 0:35 Express All Kinds Of Affection
2. 1:30 Avoid Porn
3. 2:19 Get Creative
4. 3:03 Work On Your Relationship
5. 3:40 Get Excited About Your Partner

I hope all goes well with your partner and that you have a good day!

[AngelicaRobles]

Also don’t forget that your own mental health and your partners can definitely affect your sex life. It’s important to address those

[nikitasaville]

I'm glad that there's finally educational videos that talk about avoiding porn..most places seem to say to watch it and that it's alright but it genuinely does affect your relationship and how satisfied you feel. If you get to see other people's bodies, it makes you feel less appreciative of your partner. Moreover it's degrading, and also affects your mind in general. My partner and I haven't watched porn in almost a year and our sex life improved when we stopped, the chemistry hit the roof and the sex is absolutely amazing.

[rsmaniac]

This video came in the most perfect time

[Swam]

I learn more from these videos than from school. Thank you for providing us with this superb content 😁

[galaxy_mooncat]

Fell in love with my friend. They are straight unfortunately… but i Value my friendship with them and we’re still friends. Told them in the end and they let me down gently.

[asexualpanic_]

Even as an asexual male, this is very informative for romance and affection, too. Thank you Psych2Go. <3

[thunderblossom]

For my partner and myself, we fit very well together as a couple. A lot of similar likes. Even if we’re doing our own thing, we’ll still sit together in same room and talk. Also, we both are cuddlers. Both love to cuddle. I can vouch that learning a lot of your partner does bring you both closer, especially when you’re both being vulnerable or just one is. What we’ve found helps is we have made our apartment a judgement free safe zone. Might look at the other sideways and ask questions, but there’s no shaming. I’m not saying this is exactly what people have to do, but this is what has worked for my partner and myself

[sarahgrzyb]

Thank you for using language that is ace-inclusive in this video. That’s very important, and is very appreciated

[alimtimm]

As a single man turning 18 in less then a month, who has only kissed a girl once in his lifetime, this is very informative.

Edit: I’ve never really seen any meme comments on this channel at all, I guess because the audience is either teachers showing this video for sex ed, or people who genuinely care about their relationships.

[Professionalintrovert]

Can you guys make a video about how to reject someone but still be friends with them or not have a bad relationship after?

Edit: I know you can’t control what they think of you after it’s just if I had to reject them I want to reject them in a way that’s respectful.

[didi]

Avoiding corn is a big one... very important and im glad u mentioned it

[Aan]

Timestamps
1). Express all kinds of affection 0:33
2). Avoid porn 1:31
3). Get creative 2:18
4). Work on your relationship 3:03
5). Get excited about your partner 3:41

Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

[curiousme]

7/10 Great short video with professional to backup points and going through the most important points just needs to go deeper on practical things to spark and relight that sexual chemistry

0:10 It happens in everything around the bedroom
0:40 Sexual chemistry Buildup/Psycho therapist:Aniel Debrot research

1:45 Psychologist Doff Zilman, negative affects on watching porn

2:35 sociologist:Osmo Kontula article, published in the archives of sexual behaviour

2:45 “Enjoyable sex does not necessarily you will always have good sexual chemistry but it can contribute to building sexual chemistry overtime”

2:55 New couple advice on sexual chemistry

3:05 A relationship is far more then Sex/Relationship improvements that will build sexual chemistry

3:25 Psychologist Leeman winn explains in the journal of marital and family therapy: Better relationship leads to better sex

3:50 “Sexual chemistry is not dependant on sex, instead it is dependent on your attitude towards sex”

4:15 Benefits on deciding to do something new

4:25 Sexual buildup is a co-op game not solo

4:38 Still worried about you and your partner sexual chemistry/communication is key

[allenqueen]

Just realized that relationship is basically a co-op game

[eviecuts]

I immediately clicked even if my relationship is fine I still wanted to know.

[davepan]

Love that you included avoid porn. It is really the worst. It’s a drug and it ruins relationship (not just with your partner). Source: my own life

[kitaj]

Can you do a video about the difference between introverts and social anxiety? Thanks ❤️