What Gets A Guy Sexually Hooked On You - Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy

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Every magazine tells you how to have great sex, how to spice up your marriage, and what positions to try when you’re bored.

But what really gets men hooked sexually on one woman isn't some secret sex position...

It's when he feels comfortable being able to express all of his dirty thoughts WITHOUT being judged.

When we’re with someone long enough, we become used to them. They become our best friend. That’s when it becomes scary to reveal a new, kinky, sexual desire with the person we love.

In this week’s episode of iHeart, we talk about how to get out of this feeling of being “trapped” sexually, so that both men and women can create an environment where they truly become one another's sexual fantasy (as well as loving partner)!

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[dixtx]

Why am i watching this i don't even have a man

[akayrk]

"i really believe that nothing should be considered embarrassing between two people who love each other." Gold!

[Moiselle]

That's so true what Mathew said ; The only way to spice up the relationship is to talk about each other's fantasies, fetishs, desires, wants and needs. People tend to censor and shut down sexual activities and that's why these relationships backfires and ends up ultimately

[zsuzsuspetals]

Matthew's advice is as brilliant as the line, "He's just not that into you." He tells women what they need to hear. Not what we want to hear. I so wish I had his advice when I was single 20 years ago! Life would have been a lot easier. Still love hearing his advice even though I'm happily married. His advice works for us married folk too. Thanks Matthew!

[nsomnica]

Your eloquence and authenticity are so unique for your age and your advice is just priceless! All the best from Switzerland

[chrissif.]

"most people would feel more comfortable doing weird and crazy stuff with someone they barely know than with the person they love", yep that rings true. Thanks for the tips Matthew! I'm going to work on it.

[lauralambeth]

100% agree. I've been thinking this way for years. So important to be able to communicate. This is why casual sex isn't going to rock like an awesome relationship can. Not all partners can open up but u can train them. :)

[jmcampbell]

M-- I'm touched by the degree of your self-examination, analysis in general. You're a philosopher, always seeking to understand what others take for granted. You're true blue.

[mz]

Absolutely brilliant!
There’s nothing more intimate and beautiful than seeing two people in love trying their best to spice up their sexual life while staying committed to each other ❤

[leonnalove]

This is so smart, honest, real and true. I am a phone sex actress and the majority of the calls I get are men wanting things with their wives- not someone else- that they can't experience with her for fear of rejection or her lack of interest. It is so much easier to explore with a stranger, but being known to that level is a deeper intimacy and is a stunning part of a person to know. Some women would be so angry that their men call for phone sex- if only she knew his fantasies are all about her. It's tricky, though- it's easy to feel inadequate when you aren't giving your SO what they want because you might feel embarrassed or unattractive.
You are an incredible intuitive and open man, Matt- I really enjoy your videos and you are really illuminating people and making the world a little better by helping people love more. xx

[MileyLoverIv]

OMG Matt your timing is creeping the hell out of me, you always know what kind of video to put up it's scary. Thank you so much!

[GinMatt]

Never do anything that you don't want or like, within your intimate relationship.

[andreacontrerashernandez]

I wonder what kind of weird stuff Matthew is into. OMG

[Daria]

Thank you so much for being here on internet with us. I just finished my 8 year relationship and your videos help me get through it.

[ScottishLeo]

Great advice Matt! 8yrs married & we're still learning more about the other. Early on i learned speaking aloud is difficult for him so i wrote that very question (whatre u wanting?) & passed it to him w/shy smile & gave him time alone to reply. That way i can process reply without him watching for reaction & it worked like a charm! We have a lot of fun 😁

[anewloveofficial]

If you love your partner, you should be open to him about anything because being in a relationship is a partnership, so communication is a must in all aspects especially when it comes to your physical needs.

[NancyMcCurry]

You're so right. After a 25+ year marriage I can state this honestly, the wide sexual repertoire that started so well in the beginning of the relationship slowly contracted because I never wanted to tell him that if he'd just move his thumb right here (or whatever tiny shift we needed to make) that would have helped me so much and it would have helped him too. After so long of doing it "that way" I was afraid to hurt him and say, "Nope, not really, actually". I know he only ever wanted to make me happy in bed but it's that fear of hurting the guy's feelings in the moment I couldn't stand. Next time, I'll say, "You know what, that works great but I saw this today and, wow. " I'll be open and transparent and brave next time. It's really the most loving thing we can do.

[mariaoropeza]

I`M A COMPLETE MATTHEW HUSSEY JUNKIE...

[redfoxes]

The reason is simple - if you start doing something new, you get accused of cheating, "oh, where did you learn that?" so then you don't even try. Btw, i'm speaking from experience.

[MeditatewithAbhi]

Bringing conscious communication and confronting the issues with the open dialing is the best way.. Love it