Marriage Problems Regain Your Wife's Admiration & Respect

Are you experiencing marriage problems? Are you feeling the strain in your marriage or relationship? Is the affection and connection between you changing?

Do you want to know how to regain your wife's admiration & respect again? Maybe you're noticing your wife wanting more time to herself, needing space or making new friendships outside of your relationship?

In this episode I talk about the phase that EVERY relationship goes through, and how what you do during this phase can make all the difference in whether you make it through to the next phase and a deeper, more loving, committed, respectful and passionate place.

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Most men don't.

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Steve's book Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband will help you to lead yourself and your relationship back to good health. Understand why your partner acts the way she does toward you and learn how to lead your life in the direction you want it to go. You CAN have the relationship you want, fulfilling all your desires while maintaining love and respect.

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[toddkollars]

So true Steve, spoken by a man who speaks truth with wisdom beyond his years. Love your guidance and fellowship. Thanks Steve!

[daddydiesel]

Dead stuck in stage 3! Been married for almost 21 years, and she is totally checked of us right now. Everything I do makes it worse. This sounds like great advice.

[abdullahclementabdulshekur]

wow, this is gold, currently in this stage.. And I have been feeling all the things you said, and I try to force information from her, nothing is working. I'm just gonna slow down like you have suggested. Thank you

[ctgeorgia]

100% here now...
Just this morning i sent her a sweet text msg and i didnt get an immediate response (like i used to get) and my mind immediately went to negative thoughts. I get so triggered now over every little thing thinking shes lost interest in me, etc. I feel like ive lost all power and who i am. Horrible feeling.

[filmguy]

Yeah… I’m also in stage solidly stuck in stage 3. We both juggle a lot. We both work 50 plus hours a week. Have 2 kids in HS with a lot of angst and drama. I noticed months ago that she and I rarely connect in a loving way. I started taking a few minutes every night to have a conversation with her… and every time I started asking about her day or sharing mine…. she spins her index finger gesturing me to wrap it up adding nothing back to the conversation. She’s telling me with the stupid spinning motion that she has no interest or time to have a conversation. After doing this to me a dozen times. I lost it and asked her what the hell we are doing. We give our jobs our kids… our full attention time and respect although we treat each other as indispensable and throwaway. How the hell after 30 years did we end up like this? I will try the technique in this video…. Although I have given her lots of space for years as I also found myself too busy to take time to communicate. I just woke up one day and thought how the hell did we become these estranged lovers that share a bed, a house, weekly sex… Where did the genuine love go and is it possible to get it back?

[allanikol]

you are very good at this, a very calming voice.

[brendantindall]

I had a phone call with Jonathan 2 days
One thing I noticed, he was very slow and very precise with his words, while I prattled on with nervous energy, my situation now did have me worked up and needed to purge I guess, but what a takeaway, really looking forward to working with you guys

[JMarshallYTTV]

This is good advice - I have little patience in relationships and want change in days or weeks when it is seeming to take months. We are in a holding pattern with her telling me she cannot be who I want or need as she has nothing left at the end of the day - yet all things she does are her choice - dogs, running, work hours, kids stuff - so she chooses me to be last and now I am left out completely. I suspect it is the end as it has been many months of being roommates with me providing everything but getting nothing in return. She is not kind, nor loving, and there is certainly no touching, yet she does talk to me about daily stuff sometimes - limbo is not a comfortable place for me.

[aadaw]

Golden priceless life lesson well delivered pa pa. Much respect

[staleypaul]

In this "phase 3" for the years, working on four. I've done all this and nothing works. Its coming time to separate but i can't imagine being without my kids. Its also unfair to them that were both miserable.

[jahlilpope]

I'm only 21 and I feel every word you saying

[craigwynia]

39 yrs married to same girl 😂😂 this is the truth I found out some years ago. Try it and see the results ✌️

[ciptojohn]

I've been in 20yrs with my wife.
we're in a phase of emotional disconnection. she is not what she used to be. we had lots of fights in the past, now I give up on trying to change her, from control freak to Letting go. I feel letting go is healthy, we can't be forever with someone anyway there's death that can separate people.
however on this stage, I just feel things running smoothly minus its still not like the hot and splash love on younger age.

[JohnDretired]

I no longer care about her admiration and respect. I stopped trying to get what was never forthcoming no matter what I did.

[darrylvillarreal]

hey Steve i need help. In 4 years we have been together, I didnt build a true, strong emotional connection with her. She started a relationship online with a man, about 6 months ago. She shut me out. She wont let me touch her she wont talk to me, only the guy from online. Shes still in the same house. I want her back, she doesnt resoect or love me anymore. I told her if she stays with him i will leave. Shes still with him. I love this woman. Have you helped men in similar situations, I am 40, she is 27. We have 2 kids together.

[johnsonoyama]

Thanks for this helpful video. Slow down

[Coolhand]

Ok. So, I have to say/ask something. I forget things. I even forget to set reminders or make notes to remember things that I need to do. Unfortunately, this bleeds into my marriage. So, for example, as we are getting in the bed my wife asks me to remember to move a computer tower from one side of her desk to the other. I'm pretty sure this is the 2nd time she brought it up. I go to bed thinking this is simple and I can remember to do it the next morning. I get up and start my day. She's noticeably irritated. I ask what's up. She reminds me that I forgot. She moved it herself and expressed that she doesn't appreciate having to ask more than once or twice to do something. How can I get better?

[EvolveJAB]

Is it possible to chat with you before signing up?

[mikecarroll]

Slow down the thinking and reactions. Yes your right. ❤ talk less. 👏

[EduardoRodrigues-cedh]

Respect is a cliche but it is the most important thing. A man won’t treat badly a work partner but will do it with his wife and kids .