15 Things You Shouldn't Say to Your Parents

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How to Avoid Conflicts with Your Parents. We all get emotional at times and it seems like the whole world including our parents is against us. However, there are certain phrases we say that don’t do any good and instead set parents off and only make things worse. Find out what phrases you’d better avoid and what to replace them with to be heard and have good relationships with your parents.
Nothing is better at making the pain of sadness or anger go away than the exact opposite of hate. Tell your parents “I need you to tell me you love me” and you’ll feel much happier and stronger.

TIMESTAMPS
“I’m so bored.” 0:58
“School sucks.” 1:41
“You can’t tell me what to do.” 2:35
“I never get what I want.” 3:10
“No one cares about me in this family.” 4:06
“Why can’t I just be like everyone else?” 4:40
“I don’t need your advice.” 5:13
“It’s all your fault.” 5:42
“You’re a monster.” 6:06
“I can do perfectly fine without you.” 6:30
“I hate this house, and I’m gonna run away.”
“I don’t see any meaning in my life.” 6:58
“I wish you were dead.” 7:27
“I’m gonna kill myself.” 8:29
“I hate you.” 9:08

Music:
The 126ers - Winds of Spring

SUMMARY
-Instead of just complaining to your parents that you’re bored out of your mind, tell them “I need your help because I don’t know what to occupy myself with.”
-“School was tough today” is a good way to open a dialogue that will hopefully lead to some helpful solutions.
-What you can try to tell them is “I’m upset that I can’t make my own choices and always have to listen to you.”
-Say something like “I really want it, but it’s hard for me to make you understand how much I need it”. An open dialogue is much more effective than arguing.
-Let your parents know you need some love and support right now. “I need you because I feel really sad” is a great alternative in this case.
-“It’s hard to stand out because I need support and approval from my friends” is a good way to remind your parents of their school years and the struggle to be popular.
-Don’t miss out on your chance to get advice from people who care about you most of all, especially when it’s free! It’s okay to tell them “I’m out of control and I need your help.”
-Pointing the finger at your parents for something they didn’t do is basically your way of saying “I feel guilty”.
-Your subconscious mind is actually crying out for your parents to “Tell me you love me.”
-The reality is that your family is your rock to lean on in hard times, and it’s okay to admit it and still be totally cool. So just tell them “I need you so much I feel helpless without you”.
-Even if you think so, what you’re really saying is “I’m afraid of leaving this house”. Let your parents know you feel insecure out in the world without their protection.
-Try to get over the rough patch together. “Please help me in finding meaning in life” is a good call for action and problem-solving.
-You need support, and you can get it by simply saying “I really need to hear something nice to cheer me up”.
-Something like “I don’t want to hurt myself, but I’m having dark thoughts” is a good way to open up a dialogue. Plus, there are always 24/7 suicide hotlines that you can reach out to.
-Tell your parents “I need you to tell me you love me” and you’ll feel much happier and stronger.

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TIMESTAMPS
“I’m so bored.” 0:58
“School sucks.” 1:41
“You can’t tell me what to do.” 2:35
“I never get what I want.” 3:10
“No one cares about me in this family.” 4:06
“Why can’t I just be like everyone else?” 4:40
“I don’t need your advice.” 5:13
“It’s all your fault.” 5:42
“You’re a monster.” 6:06
“I can do perfectly fine without you.” 6:30
“I hate this house, and I’m gonna run away.”
“I don’t see any meaning in my life.” 6:58
“I wish you were dead.” 7:27
“I’m gonna kill myself.” 8:29
“I hate you.” 9:08

BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
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#15
“I need help occupy myself”
My parents: *go clean your room”
me: i-

quitanaa
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Anybody remember being Young and trying to run away?



Just me?
:(

toby
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I feel like I can never prove my mother wrong, everytime she realized Im right
She will say something to back her up, like WHY U TALKING BACK, if ur parents does this, it’s because they don’t have anything to say besides that, they realize ur right but some parents want to be right all the time so they say things like that

godzillaearth
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Dad:jack stop arguing

Me: I’m not

Dad: see this is what I mean

PARIS.
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When you have just had a fight with Mom 😒😒
And want to spend some time alone ND this comes up on your phone 😔😔😔😔😔

brejeshmishra
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The biggest lie I told to my parents: Im ok

Edit: why was I this wannabe edgy emo last year 😳

WeebCanon
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15 thing I used to say and still do sometime "not my fault" 😑

gameralex
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I say nothing on this list except for “I’m so bored.” WE’RE EXPRESSING WHAT WE WANNA SAY. ;-;

Rachifier
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"It's just a phase, MOM"

MichaelJayValueInvesting
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During quarantine
mom: *"I'm bored...play another round of UNO with me"*

XXXXXX-govg
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me: *runs away*
parents: who's gonna babysit your sisters now?

angelaluo
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“Humans are social creatures”





*i beg to differ, take me for an example...*

chaotichoneybee
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Me: I need your help because I don’t know what to occupy myself with.

My parents: um are you okay ?

inayazahidd
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All of this is literally opening up your heart, and if it's hard for you to open up to your parents you need help! 'Cause noone loves you more than they do! And yes, they can be pretty annoying and misunderstanding at times!

afshantarannum
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No body:
Not a single soul:
Not even god:
Me: mom I’m bored

emili
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i got scolded for saying “you don’t love me” now i know how much love my parents have for me.

ihaveafatpuss
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I love my parents, no matter how hard they are to me
I have always been different from other girls
i am not bi but i am a huge tomboy. In our religion girls don't go out that much but i am not like that. Everyone calls me different even boys and i am proud of it

raheenamjed
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Me:I'm bored
MOM:GO WASH THE DISHES

mddystydryyfghdfggghhftu
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I hurt my parents many but they were never hurt me again and loved me

Tomorrow I will be a great daughter to my parents 😊

I love you my parents 🙂 ✌️

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