15 Things You Should NEVER Say to Your Man || ...and what to say INSTEAD || Fascinating Womanhood

We are digging into 15 very common things women say to their husbands that invalidates their masculinity, insults their character and damages their marriage. We never really mean to hurt our relationships but most of the time we don't realize we fall into these traps of negative communication. There are FAR more than 15 things but these are our top 15.

We also cover some options you can consider to say as ALTERNATIVES to these sad comments.

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[bespokevintagecastle]

This is an absolute masterclass thank you very much I have written them down in my romantic love journal
Thank you for all that you do you are most wonderful ladies I wish they taught this to every young woman as they got married! I have shared this video it deserves to be watched xxx

[marenlatham]

My rule with my husband is I NEVER use sarcasm. Not ever. Not even a little bit. And I never say something rude or teasing and then say, "Just kidding." I stay completely away from that with as a result, I don't end up doing it with anyone.

[kariannszemethy]

The work you ladies are doing is so important. Thank you for sharing all this wisdom and encouragement! This topic is so convicting! Our tongue can be the most unruly member and I appreciate this reminder to train mine to speak words of life to my husband!

[CarolGibsongirl]

Thank you! Wonderful information!!! Reading the book has changed my marriage and my life. I’m so grateful 😊

[janineconverse]

I love it all! Instead of telling my husband to cook it himself, I say, “I’m so tired, can we do EMFH tonight?” EMFH stands for: Every Man For Himself
He always says yes and offers to feed me as well.

[babytexan]

You two are so inspiring/cute/polished/fun when you present together! Mama-daughter power duo!

[philanthroperadical]

Great summary !
Thank you for providing guidance to young women in these..very dark times...

[HAMILTONPROVIDEO]

Words of wisdom. Thank you. Sometimes I get impatient with my husband and say things that I probably shouldn't. This helps.

[MsVelandra]

Ooh i dont like when a woman says to her friends that her husband is like one of her children or her child. Like, if she has one child, she says to friends she has two, her kid and her husband.

[arieallewis]

Thank you so much for this video. I love all of your videos. Listening to the fascinating womanhood YouTube channel and reading proper care and feeding of husbands has changed my relationship 1000%. It will be one year in May for us and I am so excited to start off the marriage the right way! Plus I have gotten really good at not saying " we need to talk"

[gaby]

Here are some I've noticed:

"Uh! You're so useless." (Whether jokingly or not)

"What's wrong with you?" (Ruuude)

"Do you think so-and-so is prettier than me? (Don't ask questions you don't want honest answers to😅.)

"Do you think I'm getting fat?" (Same thing ^^^)

"Would you rather be with her instead?" (Provocative. And makes you look insecure or jealous.)

"Are you sure you can afford that?" (Ouch. Just ask for whatever it is, if he can afford it he'll say yes. If he knows he can't then he won't. Let him decide. It's good to be considerate of course, but don't question his ability to provide. Let him sort it out.)

"Wow did you see how * Jeff * did so-and-so? ...That was so amazing/impressive/wonderful etc..."
(Any kind of comparing him to another man or praising/admiring another man instead of him.)
A good alternative for this one is: "I'm so glad my man is so etc too!" Then you're showing that you're glad he has those same qualities in himself, and you're directing the admiration to him. Instead of admiring the other guy openly, you say how it reminds you that your own man is so wonderful.)😊


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[rachelharris-sparks]

“Cook it yourself.” They want to be more important than whatever your doing. Their asking for validation.

[claudiahudkins]

Thank you. I would never say most of the things on the list, but I have thought some of them, which is bad enough. Thank for the replacement things to do and say and think. God bless you and your family in Jesus name🙏💕

[tessallations]

ladies thank you for a lovely video! I'm currently struggling with my man and I being on different pages when it comes to Covid - he's super careful and doesn't want to see folks if it can be avoided, I'm really struggling and want to see folks. It's tricky because it directly affects both of us (if I get covid, he would likely get covid) so I'm trying to be respectful of his choices, realizing he's trying to keep both of us safe, while also feeling frustrated. Have you done any videos on this topic or something similar? Thank you!

[joynyenpan]

Thanks ladies. I learnt a lot from this and im guiltily of a lot of the things you mentioned.
Definitely avoiding them henceforth

[valenine]

Thanks for this.
You guys together are a great dynamic!!! <3

[swayzieandchinita]

Interesting. Just about every one of these applied in the opposite direction. My guess is: I should use the positives as a response then. 🤔

[dakihalake]

Many thanks you ladies are really inspiration and your channel helps us in our marriage.I read the book and I still have it with me

[gaby]

Mr. "Like and subscribe!" at the end was so cute! Is that Cherry's son?

[rachelharris-sparks]

Lord I need to repent. I say a lot of these. I have real disgust & bitterness towards men in general.