If You COMPARE Your Relationship To Someone Else's WATCH THIS! | Jay Shetty

Text me: 310-997-4177
--
--
Join the conversation by commenting below.
--
--
--
Jay Shetty is a storyteller, podcaster, and former monk who wants to make wisdom go viral. He loves taking his own life experiences, lessons from his time as a monk, and truths he has learned to make others’ lives better.
--
Follow me on Social Media:

[titanxbsd]

The things that Jay said applies to every aspect of life not just relationships...

[LulaS]

We’re all different people with different needs. Comparing your unique journey to that of other people will only bring you frustration. Focus on yourself. Focus is power💪🏽👍🏽🙌🏽. I wish you all a fantastic new year. 🎉🍾❤️

[PsychedelicActualization]

Letting go of comparing is one of the most freeing things one can do ❤️🙏🏽

[kristinetank]

You know your happy when you don't feel compelled to post all your business, outings, and celebrations on social media.

[FatimDoki]

Not just relationship but also anything in life. The reason social media started to become toxic to me. I just deactivated everything.

[ladennayoung]

Yes. I learned that was stupid of me to do. Some people be going through all kinds of drama in their relationship behind closed doors. Everyone need to learn how to be grateful, and stay in their own lane. Some people pretend very well.

[irmabronder]

Most people don't understand my relationship, because they compare it with their needs of a relationship. I have a spiritual relationship. I am in a relationship to help others and they help me. You let the other be who they are and they let you be who you are. At the same time you encourage the other to develop to become even better than they all ready are. You must be happy on your own, so you can be even more happier together. Much love. xx

[TanvirAhmed]

Thanks to social media, you know more about other people’s love lives than ever before. You see photos of couples kissing, going on romantic dates and epic trips, and celebrating what appears to be the perfect union. Often, these posts are their own kind of fake news. You’re seeing only the good moments that someone has chosen to show. What you don’t see: the bickering, the blow-out arguments, or the boring nights spent at home. The same can be true IRL. Couples may show only a specific side of their life in public—usually, the happy one.

That’s why, even though making comparisons to twosomes you admire is perfectly natural, it can take a toll on your love life. Those curated images may leave you plagued by thoughts like, Why don’t my partner and I go on big adventures? even if you’ve never been interested in such excursions and your relationship is otherwise satisfying. Or if you’ve recently had a huge fight or been dumped, you may wonder, Am I the only one this has happened to? This kind of thinking puts unwarranted stress on you and your partner. It can also make you feel lonely and singled out, when in reality, other people are experiencing the same thing as you are.

[mariosarah]

I'm glad that I'm not in a relationship

[seemranhoro]

You don't need to be perfect together. you just need to be happy together.

[mariah_]

Being in the presence of some you love who enjoys the little things with you.

[aftershanman]

Mia:Chris is always doing nice things for Kaitlin
Me: but you were just bragging to her about all the things your boyfriend has done for you

[cryptoflippodcast]

*DON'T COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS*

*Only compare yourself to yesterday* ❤️✅😇

[JP-vumz]

"Love is misunderstood to be an emotion; actually, it is a state of awareness, a way of being in the world, a way of seeing oneself and others"
-David R Hawkins

[azn]

I'm a jealous type seeing others happily married, but I won't rush my partner if he's not ready. Love grows

[ilovegoddoyou]

7 Prayers for 2021 1. May your health improve. 2. May your family be loved. 3. May your friends be blessed. 4. May your paius be less. 5. May your finances multiply. 6. May your worries disappear. 7. May 2021 bring Healings. Blessings and Miracles. Amen.💕

[HARU.]

I agree.... It's true... I mean when you love someone spending time with them is all that should matter not the lavish weekends and all... Sitting together with your partner at home is fun too... You get to know each other very well...

[gangavi]

💯 👍 can't agree more.
"Comparison is competing in disguise"- golden words!!

[AhmetKaan]

*Hello everyone who will see this comment anytime in the future! I hope your 2021 will be so much better than your 2020. Stay strong, I am cheering for you!*

[nicoleonfeels]

You will never win the comparison game. Just be better than yesterday 👌🏽