What makes people boring? | Julia Berkenfeld | TEDxVenlo

Allow yourself to make a stop and think about your life for a moment. Is it boring or interesting and what makes it that way? The conclusion may be really interesting. Have you ever wondered if you are living a boring life? Julia Berkenfeld did and decided that this was a good question to raise in a TEDx speech! Julia went looking for the answer behind man’s most boring question. She researched standard, bored and boring people. Her conclusion is really interesting actually!

[saravalinemati]

I know someone boring, whom I avoid at family gatherings Everytime. She talks NONESTOP about stories that have no endings..she could go on about 1hour about an experience that is not interesting AT ALL ...

[Brian-rsug]

My hat goes off to Julia. For developing the skill and ability to speak in front of large groups of people at 20 years old. Most people would rather jump off a bridge than conquer the fear of public speaking. Great job! Keep at it, you have a compelling future as your life’s journey unfolds before one day at a time.

[SebastianBeaumont-xrnf]

It still didn't clarify why people are being so boring

[nirmalsekar]

There's a lot of things we have to consider when we think of bore or interest concept as the social interaction changed gradually as a repercussion of technology development people who think and act unique feels boring and isolated it's just an example of the realtime circumstances.

[moraz]

I can fell the fear in her voice
I cant blame her its a ted talk

[leeimmerzeel]

Wowww what a proud moment Julia. It was a true privilege to coach you on your speaker journey. Your 20 years, the world lays open in front of you with possibilities!!!

[claudetteboudreau]

Enjoyed your talk! I am 67 years old and I play and have fun daily! Today I went in the forest to pick fir branches to make Christmas table centers for friends and family! Hope you had a great day also!

[LdyOscr]

You asked yourself a question and you sought for an answer. In a time when many had stopped questioning and started obeying blindly you represent a nice path.

[williamf.buckleyjr]

TEXTBOOK DEFINITION of irony!!
Speak about something that's boring, using the most predictably boring forum ever invented.

[Zoey-zyit]

After watching this video, several questions just came out in my mind.
Are those 'interesting' people really feel interested about their life or just want other people think they live a interesting life? And this kind of happiness is based on whose perspective?
How can we define other peoples' life boring or not?

So, this speech is not persuasive enough to convince me.
But I still respect her courage to give this talk.

[nickp]

I was told at a young age that only boring people get bored

[karenquintana]

It's boring talking about being boring. I don't consider the conversation she overheard boring. It was actually quite important. Everyone has their own stories which I find amazing.

[prashantrawat]

NOTES OF THIS VIDEO..SO YOU REVISE. ❤️
what boring is..
when you are not able to create fun..
when you cant dont create laugh..
when you cant establish contacts at multi levels..
when you cabt create novelty..
when you cant trigger happiness hormone.

when with a person do things that are in capacity of the person that person likes..do like him


positive energy..
small minded because of not being in social contacts...

when they knew something that evokes intrest in you..meams when you knowledge or inyrrst hits their intrest...

when you do activities that they like..

when you are very rare person that they have ever mey..

happy always..
openness..

usually people don't open up because they are chances for being dragged down when they get themselves vulnerable and vulnerable means telling in and out.. they shut themselves
show and share intrest..
positive..
vulnerability..they allow themselves for being vulnerable to others
establish strong connection when both gates are open..then there is sc

not sharing interest..
not engaging with people

simply just existing not living like a zombie kind of life where there is no colors whenever they have colors in life a person is very interesting


sep sharing and engaging with people

lyl living your life

open up by talking to people..
star discussions..
give people compliments..
start asking how we doing..
connect by sharing your stories and experiences..

during adults.. fear the consequences of action and they don't do that that's why they are not full of adventure while kid do that and they have adventure everyday..

being childish can boost your happiness..

story of establishing and playground in Netherlands..

excited amazing to feel like kid again

it feel amazing when you feel like a kid again

explored and fulfill their and your dreams

do something new set new goals go out

[jpncrepresent]

Good point girl... "Am I living the life that I want to live?"

[tortuequimarche]

Things are only boring when you think of it as boring

[asyhabdf]

ur suit, accent, and speak break, it just perfect💯

[yoursubconscious]

Let's see what she has to say in 20 years when she grows up and deals with more consequences. Not to be negative, but we cannot deny the truth.

[ellijohnson]

i’m super proud of you julia!!! you did that!!

[med]

I so much relate with someone shaking while public speaking, It is scary.

[suzahdicosplayjackets]

In other words, like Maverick says, "Don't think. Just do." Be a kid. Life is short. Make the difference we always wanted to.