Long Term Partner Green Flags - Choosing The Perfect Mate

What are the green flags you should seek out in a potential long term relationship?

A great partner can make your life amazing, but teh wrong partner can make your life hell.

When you're dating, do you know what kind of men or women you should be seeking out to give you the bets chances of long term success?

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[radekduszynski]

How come this only has 1.5K views? Well done mate, this is very though provoking.

[Straga_Severa]

Hmm, I never thought that lacking boundaries may force a woman to cheat. I always knew that if a MAN lacks boundaries, the woman will eventually cheat on him, but I didn't thought her lacking them may also push her to cheating =-)

[xMckingwill]

Imo #5 astounds me and it will never stop astounding me.

Humanity has literaly developed a complex system to communicate and exchange idea and express our needs called language yet grown ass adults are incapable of using words to communicate to their partners smh

[emp]

Yep not being able to ask for your needs leads to the cliche ‘bitter codependent’

[MrFagedaboudit]

Nope, not single . Married 50 years here, lol. Just curious as to how you young folks are getting on.

[emp]

No 2 should have a caveat if the ex was an abuser. It is a red flag to talk about an abusive ex well. I know girls like that. No self respect, codependent; and end up in the same.

[annaradford]

I know for me asking want I want and need as well as boundies are ones I know. I might sent this to the guy I am chatting with a lot as his in sight will be interesting to know.

[drallagon]

Yeah, mostly communication (5 and 6) was the problem. I've never found a crystal ball to unlock my psychic abilities to read minds lol

[emp]

My graduation from abusive relationships was realizing sometimes ppl shouldn’t be forgiven. Lol I don’t speak of my last bad ex, but if I did, they wouldn’t be kind words.

[jeanpaulfelix]

The first point is so on point. If she is on insta scam it wont work.

[emp]

But I agree and these are good points. I also had to learn after the fact to forgive again, very insightful :)

[martintheguitarist]

These are all good points but in the end you have to think if being with this woman makes your life better or not. When you get into a long term relationship all her family, health, mental, financial, and work problems become your problem. If you are a well adjusted guy, in good health, good looks, have money, carrier, hobbies then it's very very difficult to find a woman who brings more benefits than problems into your life. Not impossible but have realistic expectations.

[ProfWho-uthe]

Those points are all valid. However, I never in my life found a woman with mostly green flags who was single. Seems out of reach.

[ifeelhalfnaked]

Self awareness.
I always ask my fwb or girl what can I do better outside or inside the bedroom? And if she couldn't explain the details, I will help her by saying this is how I felt or how it shows up when I do XYZ