Why Cold Approach is a Superpower in 2023

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[carsonwerner]

I fumbled the bag the other day at the gym but I’m definitely getting more comfortable at talking with women

[richos]

The leap of faith scene from Into the Spider-Verse helped me so much when it came to getting over the anxiety to approach. Now I always play it in my head when I’m feeling nervous about making an approach. I just think to myself “what’s up danger”.

[jmfernelius]

Its always been a superpower. But yes in todays age its rare. My dad was the orignal day game cold approach back in the 70s. He saw my mom sitting in the the student union bybherself walked up and said "is this seat taken" 50 years married

[daleferia]

I cold approach daily. I haven’t been very successful, but my confidence gradually increases after each approach

[Champ]

Facts. Online you darn near have to be perfect at everything to get a match. Let alone convert. Wheras my best pickups were IRL at my rawest.

[theowlfromduolingo]

3 questions that come to my mind:
- Is it a good idea to approach a girl that is in a group of friends, does it complicate things?
- How do you reply when she is already in a relationship?
- How do you know when to approach the girl (situation, kind of woman, body language etc.)

[thewongtim]

In 2 weeks after my exams, I'm going to exactly start doing this. Dating apps are a cesspool. In a way I'm excited for rejection so that it's something that will be normal and no longer feared.

[arnulfbichler]

Respect that you still give out game for free

[Natepullup]

I’ve been doing more cold approach in the gym, women been super receptive, just be in the moment with zero expectations and it’s actually pretty effective

[mustang]

Facts! Plus there are some women who don’t feel comfortable using dating apps because of creeps and weirdos.

[rickgerald]

Was on vacation at the beach and cold approached a solid 9 on the beach. I gave her my number and didn’t even take hers. Long story short she texted me later we went out for drinks and spent the night together. Meanwhile on the apps I get curved by 5’s and 6’s

[Steve]

This is the best most simplest video ever! The only other thing I’d like to do is ask her there and then for a date and not bother with her number until I’ve met her again

[rickgerald]

The only hard part of cold approach is finding places to approach when you live in a small town

[CommandoMaster]

Don’t forget that men will still face tons of rejections from cold approaches just like online apps, but u feel it differently 😢

[thekevinager]

I feel like one idea I had about when and what to say at an cold approach is like when you’re in line at a Starbucks and you see like a girl, just ask her if she comes here more often, play a little stupid and ask if she could recommend her favourite drink to you. Then, there’s room to maybe hang out in the moment or meet up some time for coffee as well where you can offer to show her your favorite or something

[mvphung]

Good stuff. Back to basic with real interactions since beginning of time.

[nayan]

Can you please bring back zeus. That's way more entertaining. I personally engage way more with zeus more than i do with you.

[eagleelisei]

You correctly said it: "every girl secretly hopes she's gonna meet the man of her dreams..." . To be the man of her dreams (look good, money status) is the pre requisite. That's the most important part, not how she encounters you. A chad with a tinder account would "close more sales" than a fat nobody doing cold approaches

[andrewjordan]

Yes, and a lot of guys will say that dating apps are “more efficient.” WRONG. I’ve gotten dates from cold approach after talking to them for 2 minutes. On apps, it can take days to get a good match, and weeks to get her number, and then longer to get her on a date. Cold approach beats the s**t out of online

[jasonrocksvegas]

Being young and handsome is a super power.