I tried to ‘Cold Approach’ girls as an Introvert (Difficulty: Impossible)

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[realbenjaminseda]

Ngl this one was hard to watch back 😂... pretending to be an introvert was super cringe but we got the job done.

[Lordran__]

As a massive introvert, I got my first girlfriend in late 2022 when I was 34 & it happened at work. She worked in the beauty department of Nordstrom & she spoke to me FIRST the day we met, which is a big deal for an introvert like myself. I felt like there was immense mutual attraction.

Long story short, I would occasionally go to her department to flirt. One day, I asked for her number & she gave it to me. Some days later, I was at her place & you should know the rest. And the funny thing is, she lives right up the street from me. What a small world.

[CosmicSpin]

If you consider yourself an introvert (like myself), you cannot let yourself get psy opped/brainwashed by the word. The definition of Introvert = one who recharges their social battery by being alone rather than with people.

The idea that you're "antisocial" is nonsense. You just recharge differently, and it shouldn't affect your personality in the slightest. No one should be able to "tell" you're an introvert/extravert if they met you at the gym.

[jeniapustilnik]

you cant mimick being an intervort as a confident even if u really want . because the emotions and the energy is what changes everything

[muscleandmath]

Ain't clicked on a video in ages but as a self diagnosed introvert (but not antisocial or similar), this got me interested. Do have to say, massive respect to you for telling people not to be fake. And also how respectful you act towards the women and they way you speak about them. Not as though they are some hapless creature that needs to be picked up, which is how some guys online seem to act.

[MrBreadman]

As an introvert, I just own up to myself and act accordingly. Introvert doesn’t have to mean being stuck to oneself and avoiding social interaction. You just have to pick your spots. Also introverts are better listeners. Sometimes I just sit back and let her talk and say the right things at the right time.

[tytytiethr]

This is the most helpful advice I’ve heard in months! Thank you for helping guys like me out.

[cookiesarelikecream]

Instead of pretending to be an introvert you should have just gotten one of your subscribers who’s actually an introvert to work with you and try to approach women

[bert]

Love these types of vids man. Keep pushing them out!

[diogopocas]

your content is great, original and you are very charismatic, cheers man

[anthonyl]

Get her Instagram for what?? Dude, she's already in front of you. Ask for the number. What has this world come to? Smh

[davidz]

Every man gets rejected, but the success rates vary a lot. If you have a high success rate, it'll help your confidence & happiness. If you're rejected 99% of the time, it'll make you unhappy.

[Havaseet]

You're not getting numbers though. Anyone will give up their Instagram. Real interest is when they give their phone number

[levilangham]

HOT TAKE: You don’t have to be an introvert if you don’t want to be.
I forced myself to talk to everyone and pretend to like talking to people.
I literally faked it till I made it.
Just be capable with talking to anyone and you can do that with practice 🤯

[Edwardo]

That girl in blue he approached sounds so sweet 💙and easy going based on the tone of her voice and replies. Anyone else felt her sweet vibes??

[tyronewilson]

He talked way too much for an introvert 😂

[NoahTahiliani]

Bro the videos just keep getting better!!!

[morm]

I like the new concept of approaching better than the animations it's inspirational man, if you ever come to Arizona let's smoke some weed and cold approach Benjamin man it's inspiring to see you preserver through rejections

[DylanSterling]

A non-introverted person cannot pretend to be an introvert. Putting on glasses and saying "I'm nervous" isn't enough.

[davidjite]

Should have worn a shirt that says “I paused my game to be here”