Approaching Girls made Easy! (For Introverts & Beginners)

Todd gives you a step-by-step process to go from sitting on your couch to doing REAL cold approach.

📑Outline
00:00 - Intro
00:36 - This is about you
01:50 - Leave the house
02:17 - You’re free to go after this…
04:25 - Add THIS
05:34 - A new level of intimacy
06:41 - How to get her talking
08:10 - Action & progression

#ToddVDating #Dates #OnlineGame

[StrunDoNhor]

Remember that confidence is not the _lack of_ insecurity; its the willingness to act _in spite of_ insecurity.

[posama-fqmu]

im an introvert . i once approached a girl and told her i like her shirt. that girl is now my wife and we are expecting a baby soon . its that simple ...

[patulo]

i pushed myself to cold approach because of this video, today i got rejected and its better than not approaching and regretting it later :D thanks

[JGComments]

Something he said that is important is to not care what she gives you back, just focus on what you’re doing and getting comfortable. Have zero expectations and redefine failure as not stepping up to the plate. When you don’t care whether she responds or not you will start noticing which girls actually show an interest, and which ones have tons of red flags.

[mattbigmonster]

This one video changed my life man. So many years of inner game but I didn't know how to start. Almost 2 weeks in to talking to people and instead of beeing mortally terrified I'm actually excited to go out and chat people up.

Thank you Todd. I owe you big time if you ever need anything in Manchester UK or Poland.

[mattbigmonster]

Revisiting this video almost 12 months after watching and commenting on it for the first time. @Todd V Dating please, please never delete this.
All the programs and coaches miss this very important step of getting from lvl -5 to lv1. For people like me with crippling social and aproach enxiety, with no clue or experience in social situations, with depression and crippling self doubt, this is the way to start.

Right now I go to city centre almost every other day, to chill, talk to people and pickup girls. I'm still a beginner but every pretty face I see fills me with excitement and I smile just thinking about how I'm going to open her.

Thank you Todd for showing me the door, it was not easy to walk through it but thanks to you I have a bunch of good friends, healthy personal life and I look forward to every new day and weekend :)

Don't give up people, whatever it will cost you, it's worth it.

[maxunityplanteearth]

Question, compliment, introduction, conversation. Hold the conversation on your shoulders. Combine extreme calmness with good eye contact. And enjoy the conversation.

[tuba]

Todd: *stares pensively at the puppies*

[gregplitt]

This shit is gold. The key is do it. And practice it. Be comfortable in rejection. It’s going to happen ALOT. But your looking for the yes…

[wuji]

Watched this while feeling kinda hopeless, then went out, asked four girls for directions and complimented one. Doing it brings such a boost in positive mental energy. Now I just need to be slow and steady in building on those other layers.

[aquarius]

Step 1 - Leave the house.

Step 2 - Approach and say anything

Step 3 - Add compliment

Step 4 - Introduce yourself

Step 5 - Introduce another topic

[vanaa]

I feel this would work for getting comfortable for approaching anyone. Just respect strangers if they don't like being approached and move on

[Starkillyk]

Thank God I’m in person for this semester. Cold approaches/ game will 100% be worked on and improved

[Trump-A-Bad-MF]

I feel that all it really takes to approach is just balls
As easy as that, what you do after the approach it's what matters, in fact having all these internal battles and anxiety is only going to lead you to rejection, low self esteem and frustration after so many failures

With women any sign of weakness or insecurity gets you blown out, and if you're overthinking the very fact of walking towards her and saying hi
(Which Is something that doesn't really get you any result by itself)

Then with the important stuff you're just going to crap in your pants

Just approach, get used to the rejections and once your approach anxiety isn't as high as it used to be, then focus on what to do, to continue the interaction
But until then it's going to only be rejection and dismisses after rejection and dismisses
The first step is to lose your fear or at least part of it.

[doorswhofan]

This has to be the best first-step PUA video ever made: Basic, straight to the Step 1 starting point. Lots of well-socialized guys learn this instinctually and with no problems as they're growing up -- and particularly those of the more sociopathic variety, since they learn it as a necessary survival mechanism. Those of us who endured a lot of social isolation, persecution, abuse, and instability never did. After 30 years of hardcore alcoholism, few very dates or sexual experiences, and no real relationship history, I'm finally ready to try this, now or never, at 55. People tell me I look like I'm 30, so maybe I've got at least that ace in the hole. Wish me luck, brothers. The future lies ahead.

[Ronnie_Othman]

in all the shots todd is surrounded by light like an angel from heaven

[yourvision]

Hey Todd just wanted to take the time to thank you and your team for give us so much value through the years.
We love you guys 💛

[stevenking]

Talked to three girls today! One was a freebie, she called out to me at a red light, executed step 2, then told me I'm pretty 🤣. Massive motivation right there.

Second one was a gorgeous Middle Eastern girl doing an intersection fundraiser four blocks from my house. My curiosity was thick, so I ended up asking a bunch of questions, and I'm not sure if her fundraiser for a kid's surgery in Turkey was actually legit. Might have had a handler in a van with tinted windows nearby.

Third one was a textbook step 2. Pretty girl in the meat section at Walmart, managed to get a reluctant response from her, then I moved on. Feeling motivated. Sharing this journey with a friend, super grateful for this video!

[doubleb]

"I love that shirt, where did u get it" yeah that isn't awkward at all

[Kingmerkd]

This video is under rated, definitely deserves more attention. Everything is broken down and made to be easy. Baby steps aswell make it a whole lot smoother of a process.