Surviving Divorce - Men, Understand This 1 Thing

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[bro]

After 17 years we picked up, sold hour house and moved to another state. I left my friends, family, started a new job and bought a nice house. Now she wants a divorce. I’m stuck here with no friends, no family or support. I want to get back to my home state but will leave here with less than I had when I was 20. I’m now 55. The stress is killing me. Renting is expensive and I barely have enough for the move let alone a security deposit and furniture or ? I’ll probably never own my home again. I’m sad, angry, confused, exhausted and scared. I’m not saying don’t ever get married but once again I’m laying here at 4am because I can’t

[jameskrobar]

Divorce survivor here. Rich is spot on. My second life, life after divorce, is absolutely awesome! I have way more wealth, way less stress, and life is so much better than I ever imagined it could be. Keep you heads up. The only way to get through hell is to keep on walking.

[mrbugman]

12 years post divorce here. Good video.

If you're going through it now it's not just BS when you see people say it gets better. I'm happier now than when I was married and thought everything was good.

Simple advice if you're going through it. Don't do anything you'll regret later. Don't spend forever being angry at her. If you have kids take every step thinking about how they'll look at it when they're an adult. Keep your calm around her, especially with kids involved.

You "win" against her by being a better and happier person.

[Numminz]

Thank you for this…Im going through this after 28 years of marriage. My heart is broken…fortunately the kids are grown…but my wife has changed. I feel lost…have had those thoughts of “what’s the point?” I get angry, then overwhelmed…find myself sleeping alot. I work full time…really all thats left is to sell the house and figure out whats next…but I loved this women and gave her everything. She just quit on us….its the worst feeling I’ve ever had.

[deanofrock]

I lost my brother by suicide over a woman. My brother was a rocket scientist so every time I hear the one about you do not need a rocket scientist to figure it out I think of my brother. This along with three other friends of mine took their own lives because of a broken heart. I know of not one woman who has taken their life over a man.

[jonathancrump]

One thing I would add to all this. If your 45-60 and going through divorce and you think its bad, you need to keep how bad it is in mind because just imagine how much worse it will be if you get married again and then go through another divorce when your 60-75. The point of this story is don't do it again! It's a game that the only way you can win is to not play!

[briantestro]

You don’t know a woman until you meet them in court

[Ricco]

I've been divorced now for about 11 years, fantastic advice, I had a motto, "Live Forward" meaning don't lament on the past, live for the present, set goals even easy short term goals, reward yourself...

[kennethzell]

24 years married ( she stayed at home ) and 30 years together, I ended up with all 4 of my sons with me and she pays child support and I kept our family home . Theirs hope, the emotional stress goes on and takes time to heal from ….

[waggoneer]

My wife got tired of sleeping with me. Spent two years building a new home together. A month after we moved in, she asked for the divorce. We have a 6 yo son. It almost destroyed me. There was a solid month where I had intrusive thoughts of deleting myself. 6 months later, I have 50% custody and she is paying me child support because she was a corporate executive and I had supported her, even staying home with our kid for the first two years. I'm lucky at 45 I still look 35. All my hair, and no gut. I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel, though it still hurts to be discarded. Only time will heal, but you have to make it and be patient to yourself, and forgive yourself for being wrecked and not being stronger or doing all the right things at the right time.

[jorgetoloza]

Been divorce for 18 years. Lost everything 52 finish paying child support..after 18 years..still trying to recuparate...this man here tells the truth....

[BTinKH]

72yo American here in Cambodia these past 18 years. Married the much younger woman who divorced me a couple of years ago for her cousin 5 years her junior as we now have about $2 million in assets and I am "old and ugly". All the assets (mainly land and houses) are in her name under Cambodian law. I got a fair ~50/50 settlement in the lower Court, which recognized our pre-nup (no alimony), recognized my 100% financial contribution to the properties, and gave me custody of the children. I got a fair trial in the Court of Appeals, and am awaiting a Supreme-fucking Court trial - which I will also win. My 12yo son bravely and voluntarily stood in front of the Court and said he wanted to live with me. The moral of this story is that women don't want fairness, they want EVERYTHING, even at the cost of severely damaging their relationship with their children. So hang in there guys, don't take it lying down, and certainly 'don't go quietly into the night.'

[kindredspiritzz]

18 yrs of child support, so broke I had to sell plasma twice a week for 10 yrs to make it but I finally got thru that hell and so can you. Hang in there. Shared custody is good advice, wish I had known that back when

[christophershreiner]

Thank you for the words of encouragement and truth. I had the rope around my neck about a year ago. I'm so happy I didn't follow through. I decided to stop and just have a bite before I did it. Then, I fell asleep. Each day started getting just a tiny bit better but it was enough to believe it could get much better with enough of those days.
My advice, never take your own life 1) hungry, 2) tired, or 3) alone.

[Logan]

I fudging need this right now, thank you. I have my good days and bad ones but “this too shall pass” also rings in my ears too. You survive by not self-deleting, make yourself a mental point of origin, have hobbies, and make more money. I have failed in all these aspects but making the change.

[kezmenflowers]

I told myself I will never allow this world nor a woman to get me to the point if wanting to end myself ever again. I will stay single for life because I've been exposed to too many nasty divorces and fights throughout my life. I'm not trying to go out like that.

[komododragon]

17 years and seven kids. She served me papers 3 weeks ago. I'm back in the gym after 10 years. I lost 25 lbs due to betrayal and lack of sleep. It was painful, but I'm starting to feel better about it. I'll keep you posted.

[paulmeyer]

It's so hard to understand this when you are in it. But it's the truth.

[onepom]

Divorce for a man, is a harrowing experience, especially when you have children, you can handle the finances, as a man you can handle that, but when you have children, the emotional roller coaster is a head fuck, but stay strong!! Because the odds are against you, the women have the upper hand, been through it, as the man says, there is a light at the end of tunnel, your children are not stupid remember that!!

[efthimios]

It’s insane how high divorce rates are. My younger brother was a Tom cruise look alike growing up had all and any woman he wanted - he’s single and doesn’t want to get married - not bc he likes dating bu bc of avoiding this..it’s so sad I’ll never preach to him “get married stert a family “ again...