Dream Life Update: Where I Am Now

A chatty life update on my dream life journey, where I am now and what I've learned lately, my struggles as a content creator and the thoughts that put me at peace. I'm so grateful for all that I've learned and all the confidence I've gained over the years. Here's to more years of growth and evolution. Love you all 💕

Apologies for the audio issue! The SD card in my mic was full and I didn't realize it stopped recording midway. I felt like my response was real and authentic, so I didn't want to redo it (I wouldn't even know how anyway lol). Now you can hear the difference a mic makes! HA! The creaking sound from the camera audio is from the lens refocusing. Also, I live on a really loud street so sorry for the car noises in my videos!! As much as I love this apartment, I have to move out after the lease is up to a quieter neighborhood bc you can't get away from the traffic noise here.

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Aileen Xu
PO Box 296
Brea, CA 92822

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// A B O U T

I’m Aileen, a lifestyle blogger sharing knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life.

Lavendaire is my blog about personal growth + lifestyle design. Follow along and learn how you can create a life you love.

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Disclaimer: This is NOT a sponsored video. All opinions expressed are wholly my own.

[federicameazzi]

"If I die tomorrow I will be happy with the life that I have created" that's a very powerful thing to say, obviously in a positive sense.. It completely explain how happy you are in this moment, and I'm truly happy for you. I think that everyone aspire to achieve this peace, and with your videos you try help people like me to feel the same light, to create their own dream life because this is possible. Lavendaire is the first Youtube channel/thing in general that made me come across to all these important topics like self love, law of attraction, meditation, the importance to be present and have a positive mindset, let go the fears.. And this has been a breakthrough for me. This completely changed my life, nothing has been the same since the day I discovered this world, it's like I had never seen the world in colors before. Now I see colors, I feel connected with the world, I'm a better me. So thank you. THANK YOU. ❤️ (I'm Italian so sorry if I made any grammatical mistake, I hope that overall this message makes sense ahah) Kisses from Milan✨

[brunoharari]

"if I die tomorrow I will be proud with the life that I have created" great message

[fatmaelwishy]

What really touched me is the point of balance, especially regarding self care, mental and physical health..
You inspire me to be kinder to myself and to the world. Also to be more merciful and peaceful 🍃
Your lovely feminine energy crosses my soul so beautifully, Aileen.
Love you so much♥️♥️
And grateful for everything you added into my life through both, your presence and absence at the same time 🌹🌹

[NaturalBeautyGlow]

I agree with you. The point in life is to be relaxed and worry free weather thats possible or not. Working hard is NOT the goal.

[ZoeyArielle]

Such an inspiring update 😊✨ thank you!!

[lavendaire]

Vietnamese, Chinese, Portuguese, Italian, and Arabic subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings. Thank you to the contributors listed in the description 💕

[PhoenixLayton]

I absolutely love your channel! I found your decluttering videos while I was doing some decluttering in my house the Konmari way. When I saw some of your other videos I realized that I needed more change. I needed to declutter more than just stuff. I’ve started reading many of your favorite books and have subscribed to your podcast. It’s only been a couple of weeks but I’m feeling happier than usual and my mood is only getting better. This channel was definitely the change I needed. I’m totally recommending this channel to others. Thanks!

[snt]

Your dream life series is exceptionally encouraging and helpful in real life I have learned many things which changed my life positively.
Thank you so much ❤️

[UzzielleTV]

Thank you for sharing your vulnerability which I consider a strength. You never fail to inspire me. Your content was a motivator to me starting my channel. I followed your life path exercise and discovered what I needed to do in life and I chose YT this year to be that platform where I help even if it is one person in the world.
You are doing great as a person and as a brand; if you need to redirect focus more to yourself now, it’s ok and timely. Remember life is too short, take care of yourself as much as you need.

[Shethespy]

so relatable and a beautiful reminder to creators. It’s easy to get lost in the hustle and easy to feel that we are not working hard enough. ✨ and I’d personally love to see dance videos & astrology videos haha post them anyway

[mistice]

It feels so goood to see how happy you feel to live your dream life✨. It truly inspires me to work hard too and still keep a balance with work and self care. And it's okay to move a little out of the commitment of your channel ( self help ) because if you have got more to share with your audience whether it be dance, music or art then just go for it. Do what you you feel is right.
Loads of love💕

[kayecambare]

I love how honest you are with what interests you. Thank you for giving me that tiny boost I need to be motivated about things I'm passionate about. ❤ your videos always had that effect so whenever I'm feeling a little down, I just play a video of yours and I feel a little better. Looking forward to more of your videos :)

[kevinliu]

"If it all ends now, if I lose everything I can say that I'm proud of what I've done with my life". That is a powerful message 100/100

[ionaharkness]

After all the hard work you deserve relaxing and actualy living the dream life you had always wanted.I started following you arround 2015 it’s amaising how far you have come. You are so amaizing. 😊Btw would love to here you sing again❤️

[justineleconte]

I found it both inspiring and impressive. Very happy for you 💜

[VivaLaDecadence]

I love this video! I've been struggling with pretty bad anxiety for the last few days because I'm starting grad school this coming week, and this video is the first thing that had a lasting positive impact. I've felt better ever since I watched it this morning. Before, even after sleeping, journaling, reading, and talking it out, the anxiety kept creeping back in. So thank you, Aileen. You made a positive impact for at least one person. I've been watching you for a few years and you are such a bright light in the world.

[WendiBlum]

Hi beautiful!!


Love your updates. You have inspired me to do the same. ❤️❤️❤️

Struggles teach us so much. You are so real!!

I love the part you mention about balance and mindfulness of what’s going on in other areas of life. I come from the pharmaceutical industry and nothing is worth more than our health ( and our relationships).

You are my favorite Youtuber !!

[Joy-xzfx]

Wonderful! You are still working hard. You are the best at what you do. You are uniquely you and you are amazing 💖 I appreciate that you are finding balance in your life

[yaqeensnipes]

Really happy that your happy. Nothing feels better than being content.

[Audrey-vfgb]

You do you and open new doors in life. You are so inspiring and optimistic. I would love seeing your growth and new videos. Life is all about trying new things. Love your channel!!💕💕