23 Ways I Created My DREAM Life | Levelling Up & Becoming THAT Woman in 2023

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CHAPTERS
0:00 intro
1:44 making the decision & visualising your dream reality
3:48 the inner work: self discovery & therapy
7:45 only accepting the BEST experiences
10:53 redefining success
13:04 earning more money: building a brand/business
17:15 dropping the ego
18:28 stepping into your femininity
20:15 creating irreversible decisions
23:01 create stronger boundaries
23:30 invest in yourself in ALL areas
24:58 change your environment
26:52 learning key principles through books
27:50 challenging yourself everyday
28:35 improve your communication
30:34 making new friends and relationships
31:00 focus on the journey rather than the result
32:20 accepting feedback from others
33:08 putting yourself out there
33:34 taking 100% ownership for your life
34:04 work hard AND smart
35:59 quitting alcohol
37:40 starring a new hobbies
38:40 stop excessive complaining

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𝐖𝐇𝐎 𝐈𝐒 𝐌𝐎𝐍𝐓𝐄𝐋𝐋𝐄?
Montelle is a creative entrepreneur coach, travel influencer, and international retreat facilitator. She is also the founder of 𝗕𝗿𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗜𝗻𝗳𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲™. Her mission is to empower female entrepreneurs to tap into their unique abilities and build a profitable personal brand. Through her coaching, workshops and online content, Montelle provides actionable steps that help you break down limiting beliefs and go after the life you’ve always dreamed of.

[MontelleBee]

Hope you enjoyed this video about the 23 ways I created my DREAM life. Is there anything else you'd add to this list? ✨⬇

[helenarichard]

I decided to follow my passion for writing books because it's a second income stream but also a passive income. This way I am not only dependent on the writing because I don't think I can make enough of it. I just sent my first manuscript to an editor. Pray for me! I am going to work part time next to writing. I use quantum jumping to be the person I want to be now.

[grannyronna]

Montell, you are 27 and I am 72. What delighted me was how much I learned from you and from this video. You lifted me up: I am brand new to YouTube as GrannyRonna and my goal is to show how much we have to learn from each other.

What I love is that you don't talk about what to do: You live your life and that shows what is possible. What will be a brand new part of my journey is working on my femininity: Even though I am old, I am still a woman and am curious to learn if all those years in the corporate world taught me to lean into my masculine energy too much.

Thanks so much for your wisdom, your sharing and your beauty . Of course I will be following you and checking out your videos.

[euphonicbalance]

At the ripe old age of 51 I am finally breaking out of the box I've put myself in and following my dreams and passions. Thank you for sharing this, I gained so much from this video. X

[noelledaemmrich]

This was the first time I really sat down and took notes of what a YouTuber was saying. I nodded my head like 1000 times because I constantly thought "she is so right" and I realized all these thing seemed so logically too me and so basic but I never thought so deeply about it and how I as a person am really affected. I was always somebody who was very aware of myself and my situation but after this video I got a very different view of myself and how I want to live. After watching this I really feel like I can reinvent myself and my life. Thank you sooo much for this! I was never so much influenced by a YouTube video 💕 Thank you for caring.

[patricia_]

Thank you so much Montelle, you give me so much motivation! For me the most important thing is my environment, I’m 27 now and I’m still living at home and I regret not moving out earlier, but my dad passed away few months ago and I can’t just leave my mum in a house she can’t afford, but I’m still trying to improve my life and follow my dreams. You’re such an inspiration 💕

[capitalggbeauty]

I definitely feel you on the stepping into your most feminine self, I am 24 and was never made great decisions as far as trying to grow and now that I had my daughter I want to show her differently because I was shown procrastination and not finishing what I start and basically surviving instead of living not having plans and just living day by day. I really do see you as a role model and want to change my life and your videos have helped me mentally
getting out of those old habits.

[FineNaturalHairROCKS]

Montelle, this video was literally perfect. As a busy human rights lawyer, I don't have a ton of time to watch full length 40 min youtube videos, but I simply could not stop watching your video. You are a shining light and it is such a blessing that you've chosen to share your light with others. Thank you so much for posting this video. It was really helpful for me to get the reminder to be more positive, more feminine, and more driven in creating multiple sources of income. I appreciated this video very much.

[tobes_x]

I love what you said about only accepting the best. Sometimes wait or save to get the best of whatever it is rather than fasting up myself and getting something that’s basic. Thanks girl x

[SuzyBenz]

You are so inspirational, I hate the 9-5 grind, I’ve been trying to create my dream life for years & sometimes I get frustrated by self doubt or lack of results. Your video is great, keep inspiring 🥰

[gabriellepitts]

For two years I've been planning to leave my 10 year career, in two weeks! This is my irreversible decision to step into the new me by recreating my environment. I'm 180 degrees from the girl I was when I started that career and she isn't me.

[MurunwaP-Zoe]

I love you so much montelle, you keep on inspiring to do better especially growing myself as well as my youtube channel, i thank God for you and i appreciate you ❤

[sandramish]

Inspiring and enlightening us as always, love you so much Montelle. Glad I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it!
I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗

[mufasahm]

I'd to like to point out ladies. Femininity is not purchasing luxury items, going on holidays or earning money. I know she said it's not a must, this is what she personally likes, which is understandable. But she is speaking about earning money a lot more than her other points. Living simple and humble is more Feminine rather than grinding like a man and calling it "having the best." Money is not always success nor isit feminine actually. Feminine is being a receiver rather than going out to grind for it. Femininity is being soft, living in the moment, having a light outlook in life, receiving, being calm and being receptive. It is not feminine having a side hussle, grinding to being financially free to have the "best experiences". This is pure masculinity not femininity at all. Being Ms Independent is not feminine.

[OurStorysYours]

Thank you for being realistic about the struggles that comes with the transformation! A lot of people give up because of doubt. Thank you for reminding the doubt it a part of the process💛

[Nurseaholic]

Creating irreversible decisions was my favorite. I recently didn’t take a career opportunity for something I love & later regretted the decision because I became available when the event came. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[angelasagenda]

Watched many of your videos. I’m going back through a lot of you videos for a second watch with pen and notepad in hand. I hope to apply at least 50% of the great advice you give on your channel. Thank you MONTELLE. 😊

[Anne-vsop]

I've taken away so many points from you! Thank you

[rosemarie]

Montelle, this video is full of wisdom and insights, made more personal and practical because of knowing that you have done these things and continue to do them. I love journaling, and learning and the growth mindset.

I appreciate your point about defining what success looks like for us as individuals. It is easy to fall into the trap of thinking that what "she" has or does is what I "should" do too. But if I have the clear vision of what God wants my life to look like, then I will define success as He defines it for me.

I also agree with your point about challenging ourselves every day. It builds character to do at least one hard thing a day...even if that is just exercising!

Focusing on the journey is a hard one for me. I like the end results, but the journey can be long and it takes patience and perseverance. But sometimes the "end" leaves a vacuum that I was not prepared for, and then I wished I had enjoyed the journey more. And it is true, enjoying the journey enables us to grow and sometime it helps us to realize that the ladder we were trying to climb really was up against the wrong wall.

Dealing with our own internal growth, and taking ownership for our life are great points too.

You really did put a lot into this video. It could have been a whole series...and really, it still could be!

You are a wise young women. Thank you for speaking to your generation so truthfully...and truly, all generations as your advice and words of wisdom are timeless.

[lotsoflovecindy]

thank you Montelle for sharing this! I've always wanted to create my dream life, hence the career change, moving out, restarting my channel, having a side hustle 💗 You're such an inspiration and thank you for sharing your journey! 🥰