Say These Things to Your Ex to Spark Their Love Again

What do you say to an ex to get them back? It's important to not only have the right words to say, but also the right mindset. Coach Adrian and Coach Alex discuss how to communicate with an ex to convey detachment, well-being, happiness and confidence. Learn about setting boundaries, handling negative remarks from your ex, and some things not to say to your ex.

00:00 How to Communicate with Your Ex
02:39 Understanding Body Language, Tone of Voice, and Words
09:06 What Not to Say to Your Ex
12:40 How to Respond to an Ex's Request to Stop Flirting
16:28 Setting Boundaries and Asserting Oneself
17:42 How to Handle Negative Remarks from an Ex
20:22 Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity
29:04 Using Humor to Reconnect with an Ex
34:03 Reconnecting with an Ex

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[DavidDevanMT]

Don’t talk about the break up and what went wrong
Start a clean slate, share new news
Speak like a friend & don’t flirt
Respect boundaries.
“You were right I needed to work on myself. I have grown”
Keep positive. Be humorous.
“I want you to be happy, even if it’s not with me” alleviates pressure (you’re no longer an obstacle to their happiness)
“Thank you for blocking me, it woke me up.”
“If you choose to communicate again then great”
Adapt accordingly
Don’t be intrusive. Don’t trigger.
Show acceptance of break up, that you can laugh at yourself and keep it lighthearted
End conversation yourself don’t wait for them to end it! Don’t ask for next communication

[datyellaman]

Listen to these men! Every single thing they said would happened has happened, the only problem I'm having is that now that I'm learning new things and becoming my best self, I don't think she deserves me, but i still love her, it's a strange predicament

[jamiebarrera]

My husband cheated on me after 30 years together. He has started a relationship with a very bad person. I found myself telling him what she was all about. I felt like the other woman and that’s wrong. I came home from visiting our daughter and he was gone. I didn’t even know we were in such a bad way. He hasn’t even told me what happen for him to have done this. He has cut all of us off. He don’t talk to any of us. He has lost at least 50lbs and he is not nice with me. We miss him and need him but he don’t care. I find myself full of hate in my heart and I don’t want to feel like this.

[danielcarroll]

Funny enough I didn’t think I needed this, haven't watch your videos in a while. It has been 1 year and let me 7 months since we and my now, for now friend. I wouldn't say ex anymore. More a friend I previously had a life with. But now something has change. She is now reaching out quite a lot, randomly vame over to my house.... twice and last week went for a walk at the park with it's absolutely crazy. And I am at a point where I have been considering other women. Totally ready to move on. Still working on changing habits for myself and doing what I want to do. But we are ralking once or twice a week. Its crazy absolutely crazy and now I am here again watching you guys reinforcing the wisdom on manuvering through whatever this is.

[yeadats.twinnn]

Well sometimes it really doesn’t matter what you say even if you love her deeply she still not going to wanna be with you even after your mistakes & apologizing for the hurt that you caused her she’ll still move on respectfully

[IrisAgnes]

As wise and clear as your information is, can we PLEASE get testimonials or receipts, please.

[MiracleChidiebere-kdtw]

I haven't spoken to my ex but I feel like we will get back ...

[scottjohnson-ijnr]

She said don’t contact me anymore and after her rebound was gone she reached out to let me know in a round about way

[lilia]

Thank you very, very much. You are an imcredible source of force, hope, support and joy. You make me want to be and to become better. Thank you for everything you give us, from your time to invaluable tipps.💛

[sandranewman]

Great advice as always. He has messaged to come and collect some unnecessary bits from mine. I'm not sure how to respond. Any video to help with this.

[rulonjjj]

You guys have completely changed how I look a my situation. Thanks a ton!

[angelaponte]

my ex wife just reach out today after no contact for 15 days, she invite me to thanksgiving at the house, but i'm to going to keep my guards up, just in case.

[PaulZinck]

The best way to get your ex back is to be your true self. Stop the people blessing and codependency. Focus on you bro show her you don’t need her but you wanted her.

[Bulk-like]

How can I ask you questions or talk about something?

[farahhammad]

I did lots of mistakes and after all that mistakes I started watching u guys
Now what
I don’t know what to do

[xSternchen]

He said he isn't ready when I asked him if we just let it flow with time.. but before that, he said there isn't any negativity when I approached... because our break up was very rational. There were no begging or anything like that, just accepted it because we loved each other, but had fights.

I don't really know if I should go to NC again or should go on with small steps...

[anthonyraymond]

Can you guys help me ? I’m late 40’s she is very stubborn it’s been 6 months??

[stanislavnikolov]

awesome content and info, very positive msg ( again) thank you for sharing with us and making us better !

[danthehands]

Do you have exemple of a good accountability letter...not easy to say the perfect things...thx

[louisemelilli]

How can I talk with one of you privately