Eight Lies Narcissists Want You to Believe

Narcissists lie all the time and they want you to believe and there are truths they never tell you. If you're wondering why you fell for the narcissist, or why the narcissist lies so blatently, how you fell for them in the first place, check out this video, where I explain it all!
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[helenaduarte]

I wasted 10 years of my life with a narc, it was empty promises all the time, but he was so convincing that it took me all these years and lots of research on narcissism to understand that i was dealing with one and that i had to run for my life. Thanks for bringing awareness. God bless.

[mimipeach]

“No one is going to want you”, “you’re boring” are the biggest lie the narc had told me

[HN-kkvy]

Told me she was in the hospital for trying to commit suicide, saw a picture of her with someone new while she was supposed to be in the hospital. Called her out for cheating and she blocked me. Losing faith in humanity

[tyrachel]

Liars and cowards. Never be nice to a narcissist and walk away at the first red flag. No second thoughts.

[cherylwarren]

They use lies to distract the attention away from them and their awful abuse

[cymbolichuman]

When I raise my voice, it's time to just stop!
The biggest lie: "I love you, you're #1 in my life.

[KonstantinDikov]

At some point I started ignoring the lies, because most of them were so unnecessary and pointless and my mind couldn't find a rational reason for her telling them. You accept the little lies first (because they have told you all the sob stories) and then you start to accept the big ones. It is really scary how you slowly lose all logic and boundaries..

[Kana-vviv]

He told me I don’t communicate. The next day the whole team was discussing to keep it real. He got upset because of it

[ediereno]

Liars. If their mouth is moving when they tell you something, it is a lie.

[Stardusted]

When I left my abusive narc in 1979 there was no name for this insanity. Even telling my lawyer the crazy things made me feel like I was the crazy one. Because who could believe me right? Those things are so crazy you feel crazy retelling it expecting anyone to believe it. Luckily, he was an older lawyer who I later learned had physically removed one of these types from his office! But after seven years I got out and ran for my life.

[jammiedodge]

LOVE THIS ONE... "YOU ARE IMAGINING THAT!!"

[marjoriemartinez]

The worst are insults disguised as jokes

[dkitd]

While deleting things from my phone the other night, I came across my narc exe's reply to the last text I sent him in October 2021 before blocking him and going no contact (didn't realize that was a thing with my phone!). I scanned his reply...he told me "trauma works both ways"; "I never wished him well"; and, that I "never appreciated everything he had done for me". Ugh, so gross. 8 years of his lies left me broken, but I am now healed. Seeing his reply triggered me briefly, but then I said aloud, "But the truth is..." and his lies faded away from my mind.

[hotpotato]

*#8* "I'm not really like this"
*#7* "You are the one overreacting"
*#6* "I'm sorry, I didn't mean it"
*#5* "It's all your fault"
*#4* "You are being too sensitive"
*#3* "You're imagining things"
*#2* "It's not a big deal"
*#1* "I can change"

[elisabethberninzon]

Everything sounds so familiar. I've been told so many times that I'm inadequate and incapable of adapting to today's world. This same person has never had a real job and can't even operate a smartphone correctly.
Do not believe a word they say, period.

[yukio_saito]

6:42 #5 "It's all your fault."

That happened to me many times at work. Toxic bosses and coworkers don't take their responsibility. They are liars!

[aad]

When my ex got catched with a lie he allways said "what ever" and wave it away like nothing. But when he "catched" me what he assumed was a lie....

[khadijahnyabinghi]

That they have good intentions for you and want to see you succeed and win in life. Lol.

[lettiedewinnaar]

Rebecca im the first person to react on your vidio .ALL True .. Ive got super hand experience of this type of vehaviour ..But .NEVER LOOSE YOUR OWN VALUES KEEP ON MOVING FORWARD .RUN FOR THE HILLS AND GET OUT THIS TYPE OF RELATIOBSHIPS ...THANK YOU REBECCA

[nickel]

I've heard the majority of them. But she didn't manage to gaslight me permanently and she didn't manage to break me down. I kicked her out eight months ago when I found out she was trying to cheat with a coworker and though I had screenshots of their conversations and her conversations with other people about it she denied everything....