How to Make Friends at the Gym

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Hello my strong strong friends! So I get comments in my videos all the time asking 'why are all those people watching you?!' Although it would make me feel pretty cool if random gym goers wanted
to watch me lift, but the fact is, these are my friends! I've been able to grow a strong base of BFFs at the gym.

Whenever I wanted to get strong, or wanted to reach any kind of fitness goal, I realized that I needed to spend time in the gym. For most of us, the only way we're going to keep going back is if it's really fun! I've found, the easiest way to make it fun is to make some friends while you're there. I've found some of my best friends at the gym and I also met my boyfriend there.

When we start lifting or start something new, we feel awkward, maybe embarassed or like we don't know what we're doing. The great thing about being at a gym is that there are other people around. If they're not beginners like you they have been in the past and its great if their not beginners because now you have real life resources that you can learn from.

1. So my first tip for making a friend at the gym is: Just ask for a spot. Everyone needs a spot at some time in their life, so ask someone, or offer a spot to a friend. Be careful if your friend is benching over 500 pounds for a double, but in most cases they wont.

2. Next tip is to ask something simple like "Is my depth ok?" Or "Am I low enough in my squat" these mean the same thing, but this just a super simple way to open up a conversation with someone else. Before you know it, you could be talking about lifting and then your goals and the what kind of post-workout meal is best ::WINK WINK WINK:::

3. You can also continue the lifting conversation and find someone who looks kind of strong and ask them what they do for programming. This is how I got into powerlifitng. I made a friend who was super strong and he helped me when I ran the smolov base cycle.

4. Maybe the easiest tip yet is to compliment them! Now if you're a guy or just uncomfortable complimenting a girl on the fit of her lululemons, an easy and completely platonic way to get around this is to talk about a piece of equipment they have. Lifters are always trying new belts or wraps or knee sleeves. Ask someone what they're wearing, and how they like it.

5. Now this one might seem a little creepy, but not for me. An easy way to find other people that you might want to hang out with is to look at your Gym's instagram geotag or any tags they might already have. Most internet friends I have, turn into IRL friends... so Maybe you're not going at the right time as other people who are interested in what you're doing. This is also a good chance for you to find out if your gym has any social activites already.

6. If you're a powerlifting, bb, weightlifter, or strongman you will find people who are doing what you're interested in at a local meet. I've made so many pals from other gyms and all over the world just by going to meets and getting invoved in the community. Also if you've made some friends at your gym and hear about them competing, you should definitely go support them. Sometimes we compete and it doesn't seem like that big of a deal, but when our friends get together to support us, it feels really good. Also then when you're ready to compete, you'll have built a supportive community who will back you reaching your goals. Competing is so much more fun when you have a group of people who will buy you a beer or two after!

It would be great if you saw another strong strong friends in the wild or in the gym and then you guys can bond over being strong strong friends together.

I've talked about it a bit and you all seem excited about it. I'm super stoked, I think we've created a community of cool ass people, and thank you. Since going to expos, and people coming up to me and hugging me and saying my strong strong friend! I'm so excited and I hope you guys know that you're strong to me and keep being strong.

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Wait, blasting metal through your headphones and death staring everyone who even attempts eye contact with you isn't the right way to meet people?

Thisismyyoutubehandle
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I've found people at my gym, specifically powerlifters to be SUPER supportive and friendly and always there to get you going and motivate you

stephanietmua
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I've taken to calling my dogs and cats my strong strong friends. I think they love it.

vegankathryn
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never get a woman to spot you on a 500lb bench attempt...lol....

johndillinger
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No matter what, you are better off now. Good luck with the future, I hope you find love and a fulfilling career.

benwalker
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That attempt at spotting 500 gets me everytime.

JackDagnaIs
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When your the only girl in your gym 🙋🏼🙋🏼

tishfolan
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Ahh I was wondering about the shirt! I'm so pumped :) Keep being awesome and an inspiration, girl!

ghoulish_girl_
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Totally agree, go to a powerlifting meet to find powerlifting friends. This is where I have met the best of friends. Some friends I have had for the last fifteen years. Sometimes they are hard to get rid of :) Just Kidding!

thompsonsgym
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Nope, I tried making gym friends once. brings back too many terrible elementary school memories... no no no ... I'd rather be alone, watching Meg squats videos... nice and safe, where my feelings won't be hurt...

davespark
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Don't know if it's just me, but I hate when people talk to me in the gym so I don't bother talk to anyone else I just assume everyone doesn't want to be disturbed

gratata.enchilada
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unfortunately i'm a social idiot, the people at the gym that i go to are amazing and sweet! but i just don't know how to open up or keep a conversation on track! :P

Evatarma
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Just now watched this video. Thanks for posting kind of needed it.

jacobmeyers
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I joined yoga, spin, and muscle pump classes and meet alot of great people at the gym I go too

andrewilson
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Meg is adorable! Would be a strong strong friend

ThatBoi
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How to make friends at the gym when you're like 14 and everyone else is 25 plus. I'll just be a loner forever <3

notwhatuexpected
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try to find a worse picture next time thx

gabrielmalone
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Love this. I have been wanting to make friends at my gym but everyone has headphones in. New goal.

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With such strong, strong friends I'll finally get the accompaniment necessary to pull of "The Lion Sleeps Tonight".

mattgregg
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I'm a bit too excited to pre-order the Strong Strong Friend t-shirt.

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