How To Stop Oversharing And Stay Mysterious

How To Stop Oversharing And Stay Mysterious
This video will be about oversharing, that is telling people more than they need to know. We will look at why you should not overshare, signs that you might be oversharing, how you can stop, and we will look at how you can reply when someone is oversharing to you. Enjoy the video ladies. Much love Urania
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[Meeounn]

I overshare because I want to make friends. I want to show the person I'm open and vulnerable. But I need to stop, because not all people have good intentions. Thank you for this video.

[Togepixel]

I constantly overshare and it causes me to hate myself afterwards. I sometimes wish i could stop talking all together

[isaak]

I just told a friend one of my darkest secrets, I love her and I trust her. But I think that was too much and now I'm embarrassed.

[titilayooluwatosin]

I never over share, even to my closest friends.
“Never let them know too much” is my motto.

[ajohonly]

I’m gonna watch this many times until my skull 💀 is burning
I’m trying but this thing is hard 🤦‍♀️

[ioanafilipescu]

Oversharing is overwhelming almost always. Especially for the person who has to hear somebody oversharing when they barley knoe each other

[ShiaGirl]

I've been learning not to overshare when it comes to conversations that are in person. When it comes to social media, I don't post anything personal 99% of the time. I have coworkers that overshare. When they speak, I listen then act accordingly.

[RosemarysLoves]

I think there is a more tactful and kinder way of reprimanding someone for oversharing. People overshare because they are operating from a space of insecurity or a need to connect or soothe a sad feeling; which IS NOT A BAD THING. Rather than say "you're making me uncomfortable" you can say "you know its interesting that you're so open considering we've only known each other a short time, perhaps we should hold those kind of conversations for when we've known each other more? I like to pace myself when getting to learn someone new". Simple. That way you've stated your boundary without filling them with shame.

[lenorabarclay]

Over sharing is often a trauma response. In childhood some children couldn’t express themselves and were not listened to hence the over sharing now. It’s not your fault. It’s a trauma response. Healing is possible. ❤

[titilayooluwatosin]

A current potential mentioned a while ago how I don’t share anything on social media.
He found it so attractive.
Ladies, keep them guessing! 😌

[MadameDawnless]

I feel big shame after oversharing. I recognise that I overshare, when I don’t feel comfortable or don’t feel seen and understood right.
Being around people who make you feel safe and calm is key

[ladycarys]

I’ve been working VERY hard to reduce my oversharing tendency. It runs in the family.

[lifeasyouseeit]

I am married into a family who's secretive and narcissistic. I am the one who overshares and that has made me vulnerable and open to ridicule. People take me for granted cz of that. Oversharing has always landed me in trouble and I have started to control my urge to overshare by making my conversations short.
- From India ❤️

[fembot]

My friend is my boss, meaning we were friends before she became my boss. I overshared some feelings about my work and she came back and used it against me. You can’t trust anyone.

[flordeloto]

I sometimes overshare especially with friends who are very curious and enjoy asking everything, then I feel uncomfortable with myself because it's my life and the details aren't people's business. I need to be more careful about it.

[Punkinapp]

i really regret oversharring. whenever i comeback home and remember what i talked about with others i really regret. i wish i can stop this hobbit

[benl]

I know this is mostly ladies’ channel but I am a male and I think your advices apply to literally anyone regardless of their gender. I take advices from you and I wanna thank you for giving out such good advices. You rock!

[sarahmountstudios]

I tend to either be a locked vault 🔒and not be vulnerable at all, or to overshare too much and spill my secrets. I’m not sure why I sway to each extreme, trying to find balance.

[gabrielamartinyuk]

I don’t share a lot. I noticed when people ask me things I feel uncomfortable because it’s too personal.

[anastaciathomas]

These were great tips. I’m going to use the “I’m sorry that happened to you.”. I have an over sharing coworker.