6 Signs You’re in a Toxic Friend Group

Is your friend group lifting you up or bringing you down? In this video, we explore the subtle signs that may indicate you're in a toxic friend group. Let's explore complexities of toxic friendships, providing valuable insights on recognizing these red flags and taking steps towards fostering healthier connections.

It's important to be aware of the signs of toxic friends and toxic friend groups because friendship is meant to be a source of joy and support, and it's crucial to surround yourself with positive influences.

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Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Editor: Caitlin McColl
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Animator: Ekko (new animator)
Youtube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[Miiskl]

1. lack of trust and support 0:40
2. constant criticism 1:08
3. unhealthy competition 1:41
4. manipulation and control 2:28
5. negativity and drama 3:04
6. lack of boundaries 3:30

[NarcSurvivor]

Pay attention to your energy and emotions before and after the interaction. It will tell you if you’re feeding an energy vampire.

[mentalwellnessdaily]

Avoiding toxic friends can be very difficult for some, especially if the alternative is having no friends at all. But it shouldn't stop you from seeking out those who bring out the best in you.

[drunkenwench]

I left a toxic friend group in my 20s. None of them want to speak to me anymore. I made new friends in my 30s and now nearly 20 years later, I’m still good friends with them. They are my rock. Leaving the toxic friend group was the best thing I did for myself.

[vicnedel]

Its hard to call people your "friend" when all they do is put you down and no-one in the group has your back.

[kanmaniprem]

Sometimes we’re the bad guys. Instead of isolating ourselves and not talking to anyone. You should make an effort to change yourself for a better you. Sure, It takes time but the results are always worth it. ❤

[ceasinghornetd]

clicked this because i'm paranoid only to be even more reassured that my friend group truly is just that

[yolekz]

the denial im in rn realizing my friends are actually fake💀

[hlewis]

It's tragic how one person can end a group of friendship. I had a toxic girl in my friend group unfortunately she'd been backstabbing and talking shit about pretty much EVERYTHING. Glad I cut her off from my life, my other friends (who are now my exes) also did the same.

[pushistayaovechka]

I had all of these in my 'friends' group! 😭
Now I have no friends at all and kinda happy with that. Can't trust people anymore.

[namzOT]

Lol. My ex bsf had all the toxic traits. Now I have anxiety and depression. 🙂

[jwanie]

#6 really affected me long-term. In high school, I didn't respect the boundaries of some of my friends; they told me that they wanted to spend time with other friends too. As a result, I've struggled to form close bonds with others as a adult because I fear the same thing happening again

[laraduff]

All of these are reasons why I’ve been disillusioned with friend groups for years. I find it so much easier to genuinely get to know someone by hanging out one-on-one

[danielsampson]

I don't have any friends like that, but one fits perfectly with my brother, and another fits most of my siblings.

[TojiFushiguro_]

Love how they used Alhaitham and Kaveh 😭

[thatonewaspatyourpicnic]

I remember when I was in Middle School, I'd always hang around these group of kids. One actively harassed and belittled and bullied me about everything, from my interests to what I wore, to the point I contemplated suicide.

I only hung around them when my best friend either wasn't in the class or was absent because I really had nobody else.

He stopped in High School, then made a comment about my hairline one day, to which I told him to shut the f up. He never bothered me again.

I realize now that friend group was toxic.. Middle School were the worst three years.

[Oskir_Schlickarsson]

I was in one, but I didn’t have any other friends so I didn’t leave it. And now it has severely ruined my confidence and social skills for the rest of my childhood 🙂🙂🙂

[sophiaisabelle]

Toxic people aren't a good option. They're carrying emotional baggages with them wherever they go, and you don't need to help them out with them.

[laurenl]

Yes, some of my coworkers are like this. Which is why I strictly keep it work related with them.

[Avery_mimi]

well i kinda relate to this video because ive been treated like the backup friend which is unfair and im sick of it so thats why i have found new friends and i can finally have a better life.