Signs That Your Breakup May Be Temporary

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Listen to the Ex Boyfriend Recovery podcast where Chris Seiter talks through the different signs that your break up is temporary.

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Thank you for this!
3:45 #1 having a child with the ex
7:45 #2 a)committed to a therapist b) aligned with his values by working on themex: ambition & creative
Do not put them on a pedestal. Work things that make him admire/respect you.
11:11 #3 no contact & prioritize yourself
14:30 # 4 time & luck
17:55 #5 response time to your text messages.
19:00 example
19:31 it doesn’t matter who reaches out first: what matters is whom ends the conversation first. What matters is the time response to your text (quick response), engaged responses, & you’re ending the conversation first. It’s normal that the ex won’t reach out first.

busyazn
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I'm thanking God that my break up also was temporary I'm back with him thnx to u

ritahclaire
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I've been in no contact working on myself for 5 weeks, my ex is going crazy. Something went off in her head and shes calling, texting and hinting to me she wants back.. very jealous about everything going on in my life.. kind of feels nice to have power back in my hands..problem is, she needs to prove to me that shes going to change her habits..I worked on myself, she went backwards.. I'm pretty sure she was the problem all along.. wish me luck, maybe well work out, maybe not.. but at this point I need to see some progress from her.. I think she relies the grass isn't as green as she thinks..

markkeuffer
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That last bit about ending the conversation when they're enjoying themselves... Fuckin' gold. I'd like to buy you a beer sir.

rbrtctln
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The problem is that a lot of people understand the power dynamic of being the last to respond. So I don’t think it’s very important, however more important is how engaged they are. Exes can just respond out of politeness, and if they’re not really trying to maintain the conversation, they probably are just being nice.

Time is big too. If they respond hours or days later, and it’s dry, they are just being polite.

But yeah, my ex knew all the games and never wanted to be in the weaker power position. However, this doesn’t mean that she wasn’t interested. If you want to have the power, it’s likely because you like the person and don’t want to be taken for granted and ultimately rejected.

Gbb
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Me and my wife are separated we have 2 lil kids. Been like 2 weeks half she moved out. Hard when we text about the kids. Since she left I got new paying job I bought my new truck and I'm fixing my house. My side business is grow slowly all when she walked alway. Im doing this for my self and for my kids. Yea its hard when u don't see her. Same time you need to heal and learn to let go stay focus guys if she comes back wont be easy for me to forgive her. That trust is hard to accept

jcporosity
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If they left it's not temporary. They don't get to do that again.

codyherndon
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So my ex broke up with me about 3 weeks ago and haven’t contacted her since. I was basically crippled for the whole relationship because I tore a bunch of stuff in my leg and I couldn’t enjoy her activity’s she was very invested in because of my leg(I would have tried my best but I was listening to the doctor). And once I got cleared to do whatever I wanted she broke up with me saying she didn’t have feelings. I feel like she broke up with me because she felt I wasn’t invested enough into her and I was really trying my best to be. And at this point I’m not sure what approach I should take.

thecableguy
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What if his body language and eyes scream that they still love me. What if his behavior is totally the oposite to his words. And his actions the oposite to his words...

kimherreweg
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Wow. I don’t have children with my ex but everytime I break no contact after not reaching out for weeks at a time, he immediately responds back and he sends 3 and 4 messages back to back. And I always end conversation with no response

mdk
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He broke up with me through text and started ghosting me. So I'm not sure what that means or how to have closure.

christyburgin
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My ex broke up with me during quarantine, so it's really difficult to get him to feel anything when we're not seeing eachother. About a week later, we agreed being friends would be nice, but I obviously want him back as a partner.
He goes days without responding, and when he does it barely lasts 5 minutes and it's all dry texts. It's hurting me that after agreeing to talk and be friends he's practically ignoring me.
It's hard to make him jealous and admire me during this pandemic because he has almost no way of seeing what I'm up to and accomplishing. He acts like he doesn't miss me or anything we had.
Is it possible to start the no contact rule this far into still talking and it work? How am I supposed to make him miss me when we don't see eachother everyday anymore because of quarantine?

malicefordinner
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We don't know how much longer we are going to work with together I have no idea what going to be

sairungsaklim
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How do you know who ended the conversation first when neither say we will talk later?

toms
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My ex kind of doesn’t want me in her life anymore and is pretty mean to me when I contact her telling me to get outta her life. She said we’re not getting back together at all. I’m afraid she’ll forget about me. I messed up by lying and digging a bigger hole for myself. She doesn’t wanna hear anything I say. I’m trying the no contact rule but it’s scary.

keniadepaz
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So what if you don't have any kids together. An you feel like you're doomed. Cause we share nothing . None of those barriers

jeraldbrownjr
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My wife and I separated a month ago. We’ve been together 8 years come November. I really screwed up during the relationship. I’m extremely depressed. Living back at home with my parents. I left her everything apartment car dog. I’ve broken no contact just about every other day. She says she loves me but not in love with me. I’m so scared to lose her for good I really thought we’d be together forever. She said she hears what I’m saying but she doesn’t trust it to last. She’s empty says she needs to set boundaries for herself. She says maybe our timing if off and she’s not saying never she’s just saying not right now. I feel like I’ve dropped my chances of getting her back. Scares the hell out me because I truly thought she was my soul mate. We got married at 23 & 22. I feel a lot of problems were Because we were young. I just got a job in another city (where my parents live) and she told me congrats. I was looking for her to say why make that change but she didn’t. She said she can’t wait to have dinner with me in 6 months. I’m loosing my shit. And self sabotaging my chances because I’m so impatient. So here I go for the like 7th time in 1 month going no contact. I can’t believe my marriage is closing on me

TerranLikeKaren
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I broke up with ex three months and he doesnt want to talk to me but he keeps talking to my sister...Why

mildredmunene
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Me and my ex broke up 3 times becouse he always lost interest but he always came back. Two months ago I cheated on my ex and he left me, at first he was angry but then he left me in a friendly way. I did the no contact for a month, I stop following him on insta and also him.
I sent him a text yesterday but he told me that he wants to remain friends, and that he doesn't love me no more he also told me to forget him.
He said he still cares about me and that his not ready to see me for now becouse he don't wants to hurt me. He asked me if I dated other guys and wanted to know about my life since when he left. What should I do? Am confused becouse he always left me becouse he lost interest but always came back. Thanks in advance

favourisabu
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How about religious beliefs ? Is it temporary or forever

liliad.