Is This Sexual Tension? How to Tell What They're Actually Feeling

Are you caught in a web of mixed signals and uncertain emotions? Wondering if what you're experiencing is genuine sexual tension or something entirely different? In this video, we dive deep into the intricacies of human interactions and provide you with valuable insights and practical tips to decipher what they're truly feeling. Whether you're navigating a potential romantic connection, friendship, or professional relationship, understanding the underlying dynamics will empower you to navigate the situation with clarity and confidence.

Writer/Researcher: Michal Mitchell
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Aniamtor: Sarimopi
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[moetmochi]

im so delusional right now i’ll believe anything

[red_dulge]

2:07 Amanda laughing and being suddenly ecstatic while being used to her calm voice is surprisingly lovely 😭💞

[Aan]

Timestamps
1). What is sexual chemistry 0:34
2). Words left unsaid 1:24
3). They are so funny 2:02
4). Heart A-flutter 3:12
5). A pause and gaze 3:41
6). A touch here or there 4:22
7). Palms are sweaty 4:50
8). Flirting 5:24

Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

[The_Top_J]

I love the feeling of love, but I also hate it.. it’s so confusing. So hard. So complicated.

[Tatianas_Inezpirations]

I didn't know sexual tension was a normal thing when meeting someone knew for the first time. I want a relationship, get married and then have children. I felt very guilty about having sexual tension early on. It's gotten to the point where I have to fall into temptation and not follow my desires. I don't want to hurt myself and the guy I like.

[Sarah-Jane]

Apparently I'm flirting with everyone I meet because I like to have good eye contact and I laugh very easily 😄

[skylinevspec]

realizing you are sitting here, listening to this video while your thoughts drift away and a smile sets in. You know this feeling..

[claudevonrunningman]

I recently adopted a certain philosophy. Dunno if it’s good or bad, but here it is:

As a guy, I don’t make a move on a girl’s hints.
At first this was because I can usually assume I’m wrong, and I’m going to chose the option with much less severe consequences.
Nowadays, though, I pretend to be oblivious for a different reason: I don’t want to be with someone who can’t act like a real adult. I have much more respect for women who actually say how they’re feeling as opposed to leaving me to determine whether she’s flirting with me or trying to set me up as a sex offender.

Some of that probably came out colder than I meant. I’m curious to know what some of y’all think. If you disagree, please let me know and I can make amends to my philosophy

[KimieMekamiko]

I am a typical demisexual and there is this one man I am into for the past 10 years (too long Story). When I managed to fly to his country and we sit next to each other at his event, I was dying out of sexual tension. I never experienced it that heavy around men I usually get to know or get to like. Maybe because I was never that close to someone for so many years x.x
Even if it was hard to bear, I really enjoyed that moment a lot and some of the points you mention in the Video also suit his behavior sometimes😊💕

[theredguy]

What I will say is that it usually becomes clear and sometimes even straight up obvious when you have found someone right for you. Sure it's all very complicated and at times very overwhelming, but here would be my advice. Think carefully about what matters most to you in a relationship, what you value most. When you meet someone who meets those values, they're more likely to be right for you, but don't immediately think that it's a guarantee that they'll be into you romantically. They might just not be naturally attracted to you which sucks but it's just life sometimes. I also advise that if there is an imbalance between sexual playfulness and care for each other then it's likely best to back away. I once had a girlfriend who did really care about me, but she had no desire for sex or even just soft playfulness like cuddling and kissing in bed which is something I need to feel more secure and connected.

[BloxxingDinosaurus]

Is it just me, or has this channel been posting more intimate relationship videos than usual?

[stayhappylittlemermaid]

There are times when you need to release the bitterness and grab a firm hold of happiness.

[chrissiem]

As a neurodivergent, just the title alone made me laugh 😂 flirting, quite frankly, frightens and confuses me, and Im not exaggerating when I say that I flirt like Ross from Friends 🤣🤣🤣
The fact that Im married and have a fulfilling sex life is honestly nothing short of a miracle
PS. Im speaking for myself, not on behalf of all neurodivergents 👍🏼

[hillhell]

This tension seems to also make people do things they don't normally do. I remembered my ex back in college before we got together was a very reserved quiet person keeping to herself, but she always manages to be somehow near me. As young as I was I was numb to seggsual advances. Because thinking back on it on our class free time she's like sitting on my armchair while chatting with me, I'm like there's a chair right there why not sit there and her reasoning was so we can hear each other better which sitting on the chair right next to me wouldn't really make much of a difference. But yeah after a few more advances I realized what she wanted.

[sentientAl]

I do make longer lingering eye contact with someone I’m attracted to (sexually) but I also clam up verbally when I’m with him, whereas I seem more at ease and laugh more when I’m with a guy I’m not attracted to. Sigh, I would not want someone I’m not into think we have sexual tension 😢

[almark]

I just smile when I can tell someone likes me (not because I like them).

There's a barista at a café I go to and every time I get served by her the interaction is always awkward.


She leaves a lot of pauses in conversation as if she's genuinely receptive to what I am saying and genuinely cares.

Whereas normal people will ask me how I am before even listening to what I actually have to say (because they're just being nice).

I don't like this girl at all so I know the constant awkwardness is on her. And I find that flattering so I smile to be polite because she's a sweet girl.

[Grinningfartking]

man if i got a real hug from my crush i would bigboy cry. cant imagine that level of happiness i would experience

[niasiamack]

Timestamps
1. Words left unsaid
2. Heart of flutter
3. A pause and gaze
4. A touch here or there
5.. palms are sweaty
6. Flirting

[fruity]

Psych2Go always seems to post videos at the right time given 😭😭 like this video literally describes how I am feeling. One of the best ones imo.

[Capamike]

4:50 I love the eminen reference there 😂