Women Are Attracted To Sexually Disciplined Men (& Why It’s Important)

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[knowway]

“If you’re paying for farts in a jar, there is an issue in our society.” - Courtney Ryan, 2022

[joelbell]

10:00 this is a perfect example of the disconnect between men and women. “I can’t imagine being that lonely” understand, you’re talking about something like 70-80% of men.

There’s a quote that I can’t remember who said it (I’ll probably get it wrong) but it kinda goes like this.
“Women will never truly understand what life is like for men, and how could they? Life, for the majority of men is like walking through a cold, dry, dark desert, alone, dying of thirst, and the worst part is that nobody ACTUALLY cares, and you learn to accept that.”

[richardpatterson]

As a recovering porn addict, I cannot agree more. There's such a huge difference in state of mind and perspective between maintaining that self control and giving in to those urges

[igbsx]

It's tough, when women (according to dating app statistics) find 80% of men immediately unattractive. Courtney's right... We (I'll speak for being an average man) only want affection and connection, but women are emphatically telling us that we are unattractive and often creepy. Porn is clearly not the answer, but for many men, that's the only affection they can reliably access.

[TrungLe-khhs]

Yes, having self-control (emotional self-control to be precise) is very important to any relationships really. Emotional self-control is really what prevents us from being needy, clingy and controlling in a relationship. To strongly desire someone and yet still be able to give him/her the time and space to come to us at his/her own pace shows confidence, patience, and strength.

[bebiswhale]

It's crazy how when men ask sexual discipline of women it's called being insecure

[southwestxnorthwest]

Not afraid to admit it; porn addiction was o e of the worst things that ever happened to me. I've tried numerous times to kick the habit with some short term success but always relapsed. I've been abstaining now for almost a month and the benefits are clearer than when I gave up drinking 2.5 years ago. Absolutely 100% I agree with the concept of this video!

[BudrMac]

I was starting to lose hope in finding the right woman. I have been Sexually Disciplined for a long time, now, and have been constantly barraged with these impossibly sexually frustrating situations - especially when going to the gym… Sexual Frustration is one of the most hideous forms of anguish a man can feel and a huge part of it is attributable to our abhorrently dysfunctional society…

You do remind me that the right woman is out there… Each day, I just have to stay calm, collected, disciplined*, and focus on becoming a better Man. Eventually she will show…

[shamanahaboolist]

Women : I want a man with sexual discipline so he won't harass me when I'm frigid.
Also women : I want a man to be so attracted to me he can't control himself.
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[TCTGFAM]

I think having self - control is a trait that is attractive in both sexes; women who lack self control are not trustworthy either. I speak from personal experience, my ex had no self - control when spending money which put me in a horrible state of mind, anxiety, lack of respect for her and generally not considering her a long term serious partner at all.

[davidaston]

I've said it before and I'll say it again: Courtney Ryan is one of the few channels where I don't feel, as a man, I'm being sold something or lectured. Or worst made to feel guitly for being a man.

Women in the 21st Century western women get what they deserve.
For over 50 years, men have been made to feel like being male and straight is 'wrong'.
We've been marginalised and treated in such a way more and more men are doing their own thing. Opting out.

There's a horrible set of double standards:
When women want to do their own thing and reject the need of men they're labelled as winners.

When men do it? We're labelled as 'incels' or women hating?

As for dating? More and more people are staying single because dating has become more trouble than it's worth. And that's before you get to the fact people have less free time.

The truth is you have to find yourself before you find someone to date.

[flobo]

Seeing that you are an above-average beautiful woman I think it could be argued that you'll never ever experience the kind of loneliness so many guys experience on a day-to-day basis.

I don't intend to be mean when I say this, because I quite like your channel, it's just something that many beautiful women I've talked to cannot even comprehend because they've never experienced anything even close to this.

[brianrooney]

I feel loneliness becomes more bearable when you have a purpose in life

[eytschmaen]

From a male's perspective: the difficulty is to hold back your sex drive as soon as you are triggered in any way, because when the going gets tough, your brain automatically slips into your pants, no matter what you do. It is then almost a kind of spiritual exercise not to let yourself go immediately, but rather to enjoy the process of being turned on on a whole different level.

[akman]

Every time I see your video, I was reminded of all of my past experiences, good and bad, and I was able to look back at them from a new angle. Thank you Courtney, you are a gem.

[renevanderkraats]

I think it's hard for women to imagine the sex drive young men have. It gets a lot easier when you are older to ignore and put these urges aside, but in your sexual prime it can be a real nuisance to even yourself in your daily life. Basically anything with two bumps and a heartbeat is game, in the eyes of your hormones. That doesn't give you a 'get out of jail free' pass for any of your actions, but I think that hormone-supercharged drive to procreate is sometimes dismissed too easily.

[chrism]

I caught my ex with another dude after 6 years of marriage. After getting out of that, it was several months before I had interest in dating. I met a few girls that were ready to hop in the bed on the first or second date, seemed to be more interested in my lifestyle than me, but I didn't want another one like the one I had! I met a girl in her mid-20's, never married, no kids. We didn't do anything for about 5 months, didn't even discuss sex. I know, most would say they are not interested in a woman if they are not putting out after a couple dates. Before you jump on that thought, I am now in my mid-50's, have any idea how many friends I have that have been divorced after catching their wives cheating? The same women that were willing to bang on the first or second date!
The same one that waited 5 months, we dated for 2 years, got married and soon having our 25th anniversary. Still have a more active sex life than most couples married 2-3 years!

[RobertCoulter-dgqf]

Working on yourself to be a better person is the biggest key to make the proper relationship choices. Any choices. Head or heart.Views change, behavior changes. Behavior changes, nature changes. Nature changes, destination /outcome changes.

[steveportice]

I am very glad that you shared this video, I have always been taught that the more times a man is with a different woman before being with the one to be your wife, causes a lot of lack in commitment to the one that you choose to be your wife, so I have chosen to wait for the right woman, instead of just hook ups for self gratification

[freelikesummer]

My best sexual experiences happened when I was disciplined in sex and in life. Think no porn, less jerking off, healthy food, not smoking and drinking, excercising regularly. This builds my mojo so much. I think we men should enjoy strengthening our minds, bodies and dicks forever.