The Ugly Truth About People Who Gossip | Mel Robbins #Shorts

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People who gossip WITH you, will gossip ABOUT you.

It’s the hard, ugly truth. And your friend Mel Robbins isn’t afraid to break it to you.

But don’t worry, I have advice and science-backed strategies to help you get these negative people out of your life and how you can start creating more positive energy around you.

It’s all on this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast 👉 “How to Handle Negative People: 6 Strategies to Protect Your Peace”

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[saraw]

Family who gossip about family to family are extremely toxic.

[denises]

“Don’t talk about anyone that isn’t there.”. Sounds simple 😊

[venusohara]

I couldn’t agree more! My intention this year is to remove myself from conversations that revolve around gossip and if I speak about someone, I’ll make sure I’m saying something nice about them. ❤

[clairbaker]

This is a golden rule my mum taught me when i was younger. Absolutely spot on correct Mel! 👏

[lenny]

I am the family scapegoat. I never fit in with them. I never partook in their gossip but man oh man they went hard on the smear campaign against me once I set boundaries 😢

[Roanoak]

My grandma always said to me what people say about you behind your back ain't none of your business. And once I realized that I stopped caring. And guess what? Because I stopped caring, I wasn't worth the rumors because there just wasn't drama.

[positivevibe]

What's the difference between gossiping and venting? If someone hurt me, I will vent to a trusted friend. However, I let the person who hurt me know how it made me feel. Therefore, I don't consider it gossiping. I don't like it when others gossip/trash others. I understand venting, but gossiping..trashing others is unacceptable to me. I take up for others when someone is trashing them. . So people know dont trash others with me. I can understand needing someone to vent to. Great video, Mel.❤❤

[Banana]

It's amazing the friends you loose when you stop and then you are left with your genuine friends

[MultiDani]

I knew I met the right people when I heard them say GOOD things behind peoples back

[reliablektraining]

This is something I've had to learn the hard way with people who meant a lot to me at one time and always spread other people's business, even really personal things. For some reason, I thought the personal things I told them would be safe. I learned my lesson.

[christinatandy]

My supervisor, manager and co-workers.

[sandrataylor]

I didn't learn this until in my 40's. A very important lesson to learn. Creates an awareness for yourself also.

[JJJJJJ]

Gossipers are the biggest time wasters of your life, and you cannot get that time back

[Justdoinok]

My ex husband did this with my own daughter. Triangulation is an evil manipulation tactic.

[satyasunshine]

I HEAR I'm VERY traumatized from SEVERE narcissistic

[csroka]

Truth. One difficulty is that people who yearn for group belonging, lack quality relationships, or weren't taught how to build relationships are unfortunately more prone to gossip, so their lives continue to be troubled in this cycle.

[macmama]

I had three kids and told them this. It helped them choose a better friend group.

[lettherebelight]

Yes! I walk away from people who gossip! I was never that girl who likes to talk about other people!

[babetteh]

I call it a game of “Social Collateral” … they need information so they can go to the next party / gathering / event with the largest amount of collateral. Don’t feed the beast!

[Bihi_Lotfi]

Exactly ma’am .
Gossiping is very bad behavior, I think is worst than lying.

Thank you so much.