3 Brutal Truths About Life You Need To Hear

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Timestamps:
Life Is Full Of Brutal Truths: 0:00
Unconditional Love Does Not Exist: 0:43
Honorable Mention - Pretty Privilege: 4:57
Nobody Cares About Your Problems: 7:04
No One Is Coming To Save You: 11:19
Why You'll Never Be Successful: 15:03
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Topics: life truths, life lessons, brutal truths about life

[danoalex]

That’s exactly why I go out of my way to listen and help others with their problems.When you experience people that don’t care, change the world by being the one that does.

[basilcreates]

1. Unconditional love isn’t real.
2. Looks do matter and pretty privilege exists.
3. Nobody cares about your problems. No one is coming to save you except yourself.

[Dylan-kogj]

Just because you can accept these truths yourself, doesn't mean you can't be a better person and care about other people. Have empathy, find out what really matters in life to you, foster those important relationships, remember to live in the moment, tomorrow is not guaranteed

[ХристоВасилев-бу]

I got tired of waiting for someone else to love me, to fix me, to calm me down, to cure my depression, etc. I did everything myself and I'm happy that I found the strength to do it alone. Now I try to help others who are feeling the same way I felt before.

[maxmorimoto]

Needed this. I feel it's not that NOBODY at all cares. It's just everyone has their own problems in their life they gotta deal with. As the saying goes "can't take care of others if u can't take care of yourself"

[Tadams]

As a 45 year old woman who has been with my husband for 20 years now, I will say this. I have been in and out of love with him throughout our long relationship. We have seen each other grow and change through the years and we have both adapted to each other as we both navigate life. I truly love him so much, but that love has evolved. He is my best friend. I don't know if I could ever explain the pain, sorrow, fear, passion, joy, love, agape we have both experienced with each other. Until you invest in a partner for a long period of time you will never know how hard it is, or how rewarding it is. Through thick and thin you make it through together. We all deserve that experience with another person. Find someone and love them. It is so worth it. The experience alone is magic!

[rogeliocamargo]

When I was in my teens i realized how evil ppl were because everyone is for themselves. From there i put me first without being hurtful to others and helping where I can to change ppl through example.

[JT-wcme]

"Your parents might have passed their trauma onto you" ..."Your girlfriend might have cheated on you when you did everything right" ...."you might have been born into a difficult financial situation" ..."You might have a disability" I've had all of these things.. Thanks for this vid. I'll try again.

[vanitazazas]

I agree 100% with everything in your video. Acceptance is moving on, and the sooner you're able to move on and accept the hard truth of life, the better life you will manage to create for yourself.

I live alone, I have no friends, I have ditched my entire family for perosnal reasons and I have no job or anything. I also have a series of diagnosis that cause a living hell and nightmares, yet, I accept the fact life is like this and I'm not the only one in the world who has a miserable life. Even if I live alone and are isolated every day, I still make my home comfortable and how I want my own atmosphere in order to thrive as best as I can, and it's totally worth the effort. If you think everyone will make your life good, then you're wrong.

[djr]

Believe me, plenty of people do care. They will help you if they can and if they can't they will pray in whatever form. The world isn't full of cold assholes, it's just that we are all limited in what we can do to help. Just do your best through this strange and painful existence friends 🙏💪

[acemilo]

i found your channel a few months ago, iv never felt so understood by someone, i feel safe in each video you make and i dont think you will ever realise how much of an impact you have on people, i really am not alone.

[laurahamel]

I'm also 25 and holy shit this hits home. I was fortunate to grow up around healthy relationships and in an emotionally safe household but ended up very naive. The past couple years have been really hard in realizing all the truths that you mentioned, especially about unconditional love. I thought unconditional love existed, I gave my whole heart to my ex and poured my soul into supporting him but was blinded by what became an emotionally abusive and manipulative situation. Hurt like hell because I loved him unconditionally and I didn't know what narcissistic abuse was (I also hate labels and don't want to diagnose anything but it had many characteristics of that). I have had a hard time trusting people and knowing what genuine love is now. I've had a lot of similar realization as you, and it's challenging not to become cynical and close my heart off. I've been watching you for a while and definitely have the same deep thoughts as you. Thanks for being so open and vulnerable.

[lagirl]

It really does help to know other people have similar problems. I feel less alone knowing we all are dealing with stuff.

[tiagomarques]

"The only woman that will love you unconditionally is your mother." I once heard that from a Mike Tyson interview and it blew my mind cause is actually true when you think of

[frishter]

The sad part is that a lot of society is set up in a way the pretends that it cares, but then you find out that in reality you're all alone. Without this false expectation, I think a lot of people would find it easier to navigate life by themselves.

[mr.magnetic]

I’ve known this forever. Since High school I have been a loner and always deeply craved for connection, but never truly found it. Yet despite all my problems and issues, and insecurities and deepest fears, I’ve never thrown them into anyone else because in the end we face everything alone. Yet I always seem to get the shit end of the stick when dealing with people. Perhaps I will never find that connection, but I can confidently say that life has gotten better since I’ve taken the time to confront myself and conquer myself. I have a long way to go, but in the end Jehova has got my back.

[UabLag]

Dude. Much respect. thank you. Im always afraid that men in your field of self-improvement would have misogynist beliefs but thanks for not being afraid to say that women do only get love on the conditions that they are attractive, healthy, willing to give sex, etc.

[Thomas-pqys]

It is SUPER IMPORTANT to understand the difference between love and lust.

When first hooking up, it is lust, all the way. It is instant gratification, amd it is easy to attain once the connection, attraction is established.

Love takes time, effort, and it needs maintenance, constantly.

I'm 72, with the love of my life. We aren't intimate anymore, and we don't care. We get along as best friends, don't live together except on weekends, where we work together on common goals. I take care of her, she takes care of me... and we're not keeping score. This is love.

[LordOfDhara]

So proud of you cole. No matter how much incel bate there is you make a video on a very clear very practicable way for people to not fall into that pathway. Doing God's work bro have loved watching your content evolve.

[isobignugget]

Dude, the problems that you faced in your teens are the same problems i'm forcing now in my 40s. You folks really need to listen to this guy and get the issues under control. They won't go away all by themselves.