13 Brutal Truths Men 30+ Need to Hear to Live Their Best Life

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18:08 - Brutal truth #13
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[RealMenRealStyle]

What brutal truths do men need to hear now? Comment below!

[jeremygiroir]

For those like me who learn / remember better with notes:
1. Life is not fair. Be prepared.
2. 52% of men will experience ED.
3. Focus on what you can control.
4. YOU are responsible for your life.
5. If you don't take charge of your life, others will.
6. You are going to DIE.
7. Fear holds us back. Don't let good be the enemy of great.
8. There are people you need to keep at an arm's length.
9. Even warriors ask for help.
10. Most people don't care about you.
11. Comparison is the death of happiness.
12. Changing your mind is not a weakness - it's the only true freedom you have.
13. No one can offend you without your permission.
*Bonus. To be loved, you have to give love. The love you give is reflected back to you.

[stevenhudson]

Success is not built on success. It's built on failure, It's built on fraustration. it's built on fear that you have to overcome. I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life

[ISILENTNINJAI]

Lost my baby brother at 16, mother at 19 and father recently at 25. Losing my father was by far the worst because he was the one I could lean on. Now I'm the one my siblings look up to to lean on. At times I do feel sad but I always understood that death is part of life so instead of feeling like life sucks I'm just grateful for the time I had with my deceased loved ones. I focus on being a better person and only affecting what I'm able to change. I can't change the cycle of life so I won't waste time dwelling on what ifs.

[keithgraham]

This is probably the single most important few minutes EVERYONE can spend and take as the best advice you'll ever get.

[CaptainWillard]

Thanks for sharing Marine. My father died when I was 11 years old. I’m 54 now, and a “retired” U.S. Marine with a beautiful family. He never saw any of it. Never saw me graduate from high school, college, Officer Candidates School, going off to war…he was a disciplined man, who engrained a sense of right and wrong in me as a child. Who modeled personal responsibility. I’m gritty/resilient because of him. Life has knocked me down many many times. I always recover quickly. I find a way to move forward. I focus on my ultimate goal. To go to Heaven. Forward!

[AlyWesley]

When my wife passed last Dec. I was ready to hang it up but then I remembered not only do we have daughters that need me but that woman fought all the way till her final heart beat even on life support she was fighting to live, I owe it to them and also to myself to be a better man and honor her, Don't want better but do better to get better. Thank you for your channel sir it's truly helping me improve myself.

[lolhai]

I am 32 years old. I've been a nurse since I was 24. I was in a toxic relationship that turned into marriage. I was abused physically, emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually. I am not a victim. All of this took a long time to see. Now, my children are mostly with me and I have the best job I've ever had. I am HAPPY at work and even my worst day is better than my best. I haven't been innocent either, but I know my sins can be forgiven. I have repented and my life finally makes sense.

[canadianpatriot]

Lost my mom at 18, my father at 21. I wish I had told them I loved them more often. Lesson learned, never forget to tell people how important they are, because someday, it will be to late.

[nebulaneka]

I was sheltered as a child by my mom, and abused by my stepfather.
Fear is everywhere. Women, social interactions, workplace hierarchy. My self worth has been at low levels all my life.
Now I'm 35 and reprogramming myself.
Went to tech school. Graduated, while working full time. Stopped dating. Started focusing more on music, even picked up the drums. And lately.... I've wanted to work out or run more. I have let life tear me down in fear.
I'm just making lists now, and checking off items just as quick.

[LEdHeadW]

I work as a nurse in an ICU. I have been at the bedside numerous times alongside people saying goodbye to their loved ones. I've held the hands of countless dying people. I've coached so many people through these tough situations. Everything you said really resonates and in my experience rings true.

Saying goodbye is hard. A lot of difficult emotions come out based on a person's history. People grieve in different ways. Some people handle things in a really healthy way. Others... Not so much. I believe people often don't realize why they act the way they do - maybe because they feel guilty for how they've spent the last few years. The family member from another state shows up and wants EVERYTHING done, while the other family member who has been there working as the caregiver for the last few years has a much more comprehensive view of how they've reached the point of where we accept the end of life. Things can get really ugly.

Truthfully, the best shifts of my career are most often the ones where I help someone die comfortably and with dignity. Ideally I help the family through this process in a meaningful way, if they're ready to accept the reality of the situation. It's a fine line between encouraging people to ignore everything else and be present with their family member in the final days and hours - while also letting them know it's okay and healthy to go home, do their laundry, make some food, etc. To control the things they can. We'll do our best to keep them in the loop so they're there when the time comes. And even if they're not there at the very end, I always like to let them know someone - often that person is myself - was there holding a hand and speaking kind words so no one dies alone in a hospital bed.

Believe me and most any other nurse whose been around the block when we tell you there are many things worse than death and all too often we go far beyond what I think is right and ethical in a futile attempt to prolong the inevitable. Lots of what I do hurts, and often we torture people when I wish we could instead make them comfortable so they can finally be called home.

I'm glad you spoke so passionately about being open with the ones you love and telling them how you feel. Things can change in an instant, and I've never heard anyone say they wish they worked more.

This was a fantastic video with tons of real, honest, and important information. Thanks for making it.

[danielmcintyre]

You brought up some great points. Mom was an alcoholic and when I was about 25 yrs old I had had enough told her to stay away from my family. Well the Narcissist came out and she called people, parents of my friends, and told them I don't know what. 35 years later, my "friends" who I've known since I was 5 still don't connect with me, even after reaching out several times. I spent the majority of my life making sure my wife was happy. Divorced anyway. 1 nervous breakdown later and 5 years wanted to date. That went terribly wrong. Tried again in 07. Right after Christmas got kicked to the curb. Haven't dated since. I feel a need for companionship but nothing else. My 1 son who survived is Autistic and about 10 yrs ago started having seizures. Now it's hang around the house do my work and wait for the next one. So yes Life is not fair. I can keep going but probably commented too much already

[enterthebruce]

I'm 31 and far from the best position in life, I contemplate suicide often so I needed to hear this, life is FAR from fair or easy for anyone but we have to work through it and try to cope with potential issues ahead of time. Life is not fair but God is good. Thank you Antonio! All the best from the U.K,
Sean

[JordanAlexochannel]

I sincerely appreciate your honesty. I'm in my late thirties, and it has been an extremely hard time in my life. And hearing people like you helps a lot. Thanks.

[TeyCallMeBigMac]

My family is pushing me to follow my brothers footsteps career wise, and stop going to college. Everyone tells me college is a scam etc, and I get where they are coming from, but I am damn good at it. I just wrapped up my second year and one of my professors told me I had the highest quality of work that he’s ever seen at this school, and that my work would be happily accepted in a masters level program. To follow the career path of my brother when I have another path available to me, unique to my talents, feels like something I would regret not seeing through.

[DerDop]

90's childhood in Eastern Europe( only Eastern Europeans will understand this) from 22 to 32 years I spent 10 years on the run helping my brother to escape jail( no job, no careeer) from which 2 years sleeping on the streets, while we were hiding my brother got cancer, and using my identity he underwent surgery. 4 years of peace, I go to uni, I take my degree, and take my first job at 33 years(!!!)
16 months before his jail sentence would have been canceled( prescription), he dies in a car crash.
I'm 37 now, changing careers, drinking a little bit too much, and overweight, but as always, moving forward. My grandpa Survived Stalingrad, Ukrainians are surviving a war, and I will survive a basic drama.

[arnoldasbucys]

"If life is unfair for everyone, does that mean life is actual fair?"

[MuahMan]

Man i feel you. 2008 was my year. Lost a unicorn IT job because my mom died from cancer, then 2 weeks after she died my dad told me he also had cancer but waited to tell me because of my mom. Lost him 2 months later. Spiraled into a depression I never felt before. Snorted Oxycontin for 2 years after that before I got my shit together.

[jsellis]

In watching this channel for over 6 years, this is one of the best videos that I've seen on here. The guidance that is provided is useful to any man. It does not matter how old you are. It was a great reminder for me to keep the focus on myself and improve for the benefit of myself. I also find the Serenity Prayer great as well. I say it every day and apply it to situations as needed. There is always more than one narrative on how a story can be made!

[Loudestro]

I'm 27 & I agree with this, I felt when I prepared and it wasn't enough & I had times when I prepared & thanked younger self that I did.