How to Deal with Betrayal By A Friend

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HOW TO DEAL WITH BETRAYAL -Betrayal by a friend is awful and hurtful; however, if you carry around bitterness or hostility, you are zapping your own energy. The only one that continues to suffer will be you. It is like drinking poison! You do not need to condone or agree with their treatment of you. But bitterness only hurts your energy. Like attracts like, and you certainly do not want to attract more of the same. You want to attract loving, kind, and trustworthy friends into your life. Wish the betrayer well and cast it off. Spend your energy thinking and attracting the type of true friends you deserve. You cannot change what they did; you can only control your thoughts going forward.

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[mrfishbag]

I thought my friends were trusted.... Now I *NEVER TRUST ANYONE*

[sun]

It feels like an overwhelming heavy presence that's pressing down on my chest and I can't seem to shake it, but I think I handled the situation well.
It is defeating to realise how much time and effort I put into maintaining that friendship. Man, it sucks

[xw]

I just treat everyone like co-workers at this point. Family, friends, church, and work. Everyone gets treated like a coworker. I keep my feelings to myself

[rosemaryncube]

I was betrayed 3 days ago by someone I called my friend, someone I opened up to, I shared everything with including my deepest secrets. It hurts! Don't trust anyone and don't open up too much!

[lilchocolatetinkc]

I was betrayed by a friend of 10yrs, it was a series of events that took course of over a 3 month period. Im just not there yet with forgiveness I guess I need more time, but Im still very bothered by it

[bougiegal]

I was betrayed by my best friend in high school. I had a lot of best friends but each one served a purpose due to common interests. This one friend in particular I loved so much because I was able to connect with her on a deeper level. We shared our secrets our fears. We hung out a lot talking about our dreams and how we were going to stay friends til we grow old and die. Then suddenly she just no longer wanted to be friend. She ignored me, wouldn’t talk to me etc. She treated me like I was really an enemy. The reason she did that was that we had a mutual friend who was jealous of our friendship and she made up stuff about me to my friend to get her to go against me. Well it worked. My heart was crushed into a million pieces. I remember coming home from school and crying so hard that I couldn’t see straight. I would still see her around in the neighborhood with the girl who spread lies about me. It was like I was going through a death of a friend but the problem was that she was alive and well and walking around acting like I didn’t exist. That hurt me to my core. It took me 3 years to get over that friendship. Fast forward 30 years later after high school. We recently had our 30th reunion and she pulled me aside and hugged me and apologized. She and the mutual friend are no longer friends. She asked could we be friends again. I told her ok but in my head, we will never really be friends again. I will never trust her again plus I don’t ever want to feel that type of pain again so my walls are up. I have forgiven her but she will never have my heart and mind like a best friend would ever again. There’s no coming back from this. She’s been texting me everyday since the reunion. Sometimes I respond and sometimes I don’t.

[ipains]

Betrayal and backstabbing in major events are never forgiven in my opinion! But at the same time you have to MOVE ON! For your own sake. I have been betrayed hard by 3 at the same time! Yet I didn’t cut all strings because good old times sake! Wish they thinking the same.

[lisjanacelaj]

What a wonderful person full of love and wisdom. Thank you for your words, they cured my heart.

[skyradloff]

My friend turned everyone she knew against me, this helps 💙

[connormcmann]

I just recently went through a big ordeal with my closest friend of 10 years. It was really hard to accept it but after watching this I realize I have the strength to move on and have the ability to surround myself with loving and caring people. Thank you for making this video and sharing your wisdom with everyone.

[harleedannar]

My friend started hanging out with other people and that would be okay if she would have invited me every once and a while. But she never did and it mad me feel jealous but now I’m going to try and cast those feelings away and forget about it. Although we have a few classes together and I’ll have to talk to her every once and a while I’ll just treat her as an acquaintance and no longer a close friend. Makes me sad but I’ll get over it

[hninhninhlaing]

I was so upset about betrayal and I just cried a lot an hour ago. I searched “betrayed by a friend “ in Youtube and clicked on your video. Yeah I was betrayed by a friend today. I really cared for her but she just didn’t consider me

[Christinerb]

Screw that! I'm so tired of wicked people getting a free ride and another break. What is so wrong with standing up for yourself and putting these types of people in their place. "Letting go" gives them power to feel they can continue to mess with people with no consequences. Tired of the "let it go" attitude 🙄

[ImTheKingOfHyrule]

I always thought I was a very forgiving person but I finally found my breaking point. I know I'm supposed to forgive people but this might take a few months or years, and I don't want to see either of the people who lied, betrayed, and gaslit me ever again.

[niniyb]

Yeah she literally went around to everyone even ramdom strangers and talked so much lies about me so that everyone would think im a bad person and not like me, only her. I couldnt understand. I still cant. God bless us all in this world.Great video! It helps.

[kreekcraftfan]

thanks this really helped me i got betrayed by my very close best we were best friends for 7 years but then i told her i was gay and she just even though she said "i will always be your best friend" we haven't talked for 4 years, i was really sad but this helped me move on, you are a real professional

[snowyyyftw]

My friend started to ignore me and tell all of my other friends to do it to. It went on to point where everyone ignored me and no one talked to me. In our friend group. But now I'll let those friends go and find new ones. Thank you Gloria Pierson.

[bottomsugatrash]

My friend betrayed me because she has a crush on someone who actually like me. Believe me when I say I like him too. But... She is not ok with it. She started to talk behind my back. She started to spread lies. She call me names too. I don't care about it though. I ignore all shit she threw my way.

This is my last conversation with her after she started her betrayal:

Friend: You know what?
Me: What
Friend: You are *UGLY!*
ME: Well. Too bad. Because the word ugly started with a *U* . (You)

[rafaelp.l.]

I wish WORLD was filled with loving people who want to be my friends😪

[elizabethefathedesignerbra]

why do people who call themselves your friends and go about telling people what you two had talked about them while being very close. I tot a friend is suppose to be your trust buddy. I have been hurt twice by two close people and they always make it seem I am a very terrible person. I am so angry with my self for trusting people. I feel so lonely sometimes and crave for friendship n end up meeting the wrong people very often. I am so angry with me why I cant even keep some information to myself. I don't even know what I am typing. I am very hurt. all my colleagues said to me lets be colleagues n not friends because  I have been painted as a bad person. I feel so hurt. pls someone should advise . cant I just be colleagues and face my work and after work I go home? please someone advise me.i am dying emotionally.