If A Man DOES THIS It’s A Huge RED FLAG

[ramonaphillipsteach]

Yes…Red Flag. Not humble, too prideful

[opinionatorX]

This is a big problem with alot of men and women. This will kill a relationship

[Avance]

Men act like they can do no wrong though! We as women blame the men and men blame the women. But I blame myself for moving to fast and not being more cautious.

[yota]

Just hold yourself accountable period!

[theosaka]

This is the Foundation of the narcissist.

[maragirl]

Thank you! Red flag with any person male or female.

[soeumsoeun]

Ex husband!!! I don't know why I would think he would treat me differently. I learned from my mistake to never take in a cheater. I put too many years into this marriage to find out he's a narc!!! I'm going to heal from this.

[lovingtherightone]

yeah, pride becomes before the downfall... I already see some people downfall... I've tried to help them see the problem...too bad

[bellezanegra]

The fact he’s already doing something that requires him to take accountability is a red flag.

[paulahunt]

That’s a Narcissist. If he deflects the blame for his actions onto someone else. I lived with one for 19 years. I used to call them “but apologies” I’m sorry, BUT… A horrible way to live. Not in it any longer.

[gravityclarity]

Yup. Knew a guy like this who would never back down. Lots of people didn't like him.

[luzvargas]

Not accountability for his actions is a huge problem. That’s why many of us run away from them in a heart beat

[MikeThaPhilosopher]

This is definitely a red flag for a woman as well

[TheVexedScribeNaga]

This is my number 1 pet peeve...not just with a man, with anyone. It makes me mad just thinking about it.

[brendasullivan]

I know someone who blamed everything he did wrong on other people. He got caught with a weapon but he blamed it on the bouncer not liking him

[LadyLynn]

Perfect Example of " Grown AZZ BOY " ( IN MY BK) FEMALES AS WELL ...

[AS-onfz]

My ex tried to come back to me saying that he was ackowledging his mistakes in that moment and we had already broken up for like 2 months lol and in that moment the light went off for him and THEN he wanted to change. Amazing 🤣. So disspointed...

[powerofknowledge]

Some people will take this completely out of context. I don't think there's anything wrong with someone explaining the reason for their reaction, if it's a result of someone's toxic Behavior. If someone is screaming in your face and you yell back at them and then the person wants an apology without taking their own accountability, That's when this statement would come into play. "I'm sorry for yelling at you, but I did it in response to your screaming in my face. Could you not scream in my face anymore?" Ain't nothing wrong with that.

The method you're talkin about only works when there's two emotionally mature people who can both take accountability for their actions. Both people have to be strong enough to self reflect on their own behaviors and be willing to work on it when it's pointed out. We can't forget that for every action there's an equal and opposite reaction. There is a such thing as cause and effect.

[wesleywashington]

Interesting topic!! It's making me think.

[sarahdiv]

They want their way even if it is the wrong way