The BEST dating advice for men⁠

[GoldenMushroom]

Absolute best dating advice ever holy crow. I’m not being sarcastic. This is exactly how you have to do it. It doesn’t matter if it “feels” inauthentic. You don’t dismiss what works just because you “feel” a certain way. That’s a recipe for failure.

[camels]

This is probably the most important but simple rule for dating that there is. A simp is a guy that keeps giving it 100% effort while the girl does 5% effort. Honestly don't go for women that show low interest.

[tuinov]

Men have to initiate so its already a lose lose situation.

[rayelliott]

And have ripped vascular biceps like this man 💪🏾

[SnowBro]

I watched a dating coach once that said women are like cats and men are like dogs. You can chase a dog and he thinks it's time to play. If you chase a cat, it just runs out of fear. Just pet the cat when it wants to be pet. Don't chase it. Don't chase her or you'll scare her off.

[sahahaah]

He has a point my husband told me he loved me early and he was the first to say it but because some days he wouldn’t respond to me at all because “he was busy” in the beginning I was better able to accept the “I love you” and being more attracted and happy to hear him say that

[robertavila]

He’s right. She definitely didn’t match my interest, and that situationship fell apart like The Hindenburg. Years later, she hits me with “I thought you lost interest”, when I was all tore up about it for months on end. Done twisted the knife, and the emotional scar feels fresh, 3 years later.

[gbaca]

It goes both ways.. I don't chase men.

[palashchalke]

Too late I was the nice guy then she left me 😢😂 now I'm single again 😂

[wakeupthisisntreal]

Feels weird peeking into what it's like for guys trying to date. Its like this exhausting game where they have to give everything but are never guaranteed anything except rejection sometimes.

[blindluck]

My personal dating tip I just thought of is ask the woman if she has any pronouns if she says yes, just leave She ain’t worth it

[mattl]

This is 100% true. My wife chases me 23 yrs ago and I actually stood her up on our first date (it was an accident) but it did completely reflect what you are saying.

[Muslim_israeli]

I am just after a breakup. Because my ex gf approached me i thought she will be so interesting in me, but it was no the case. I always try to be nice to her, say how she beautiful and i love her, but she didn't do the same for me, and now we brokeup (she decided), and now I will be smarter for my next a relationship

[nazwakontaa]

Yes and sometimes woman have more interest then you. Don't be a douche and take advantage of this, couch her about interest, life.

[ecospider]

I wish someone would do a questionnaire of couples that have been married for 30+ years. Ask them how they met and what the beginning of their relationship was like. It would need to be more than 1000 couples, and 10, 000 would be even better.

Then divide the data between meeting younger that 20 and older than 30.

I met my wife in high school. So I do not have input for people dating in their 30’s.

[cesarfadul]

Are you really winning if you're still single ? Or is it winning when you find the love of your life ?

[PeeOhhVee]

Hey man would appreciate it if you reply I need some motivation, what are you thoughts on approaching every opportunity you get? I moved to a less populated state and not really feeling I could get any girls, I recently just travelled and went through the airport and saw some of the most beautiful women, I guess I’m a handsome guy and usually can pull any girl I want, but I don’t know why man I just didn’t talk to these girls in the airport man I feel like I’ve been living in Alaska and I feel some type of way seeing those woman and wondering the potential with them

[Samsaraindo]

Hes right. I would also add - don't date sad girls. I mean girls who tend to be quiet and kind of sullen, who wait for a man to make them smile. Those girls always end up unhappy. The bubbly natural positive girls are always best.

[suzannepeppard]

Noooo don’t listen to this!! Oh my goodness please just be authentic if you like someone let it be it known. Playing games on both sides is bs and that’s why there so many single unhappy people both bitching about the opposite sex. Just be you and the right one will stay ✨

[SellarsJones]

I do this unconsciously so I’m good on that