7 Ways To Know If The INFJ Has For SURE Door Slammed You

7 Ways To Know If The INFJ Has For SURE Door Slammed You | The notorious INFJ door slam is no force to be reckoned with. Whether we're talking about an infj door slam break up or even a situational infj door slam, once the infj personality type has made up their mind, it's difficult to know if they're ever coming back..

Well, the first step to infj door slam recovery is to be sure you've been door-slammed in the first place. So, how do you know if the INFJ type has taken things this far, and is there anyway back in? What are the infj door slam stages and how can you tell if a door slam is coming?

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TIME STAMPS:

0:00 - Intro
00:48 - Number 1: They’ve finally expressed every disappointment they’ve had
02:12 - Number 2: They’re extremely calm and don’t spare a single explanation
03:29 - Number 3: They get annoyed by inside jokes and past memories
04:37 - Number 4: You’ve done them dirty
05:44 - Number 5: They’ve moved on (rather quickly)
07:02 - Number 6: You lose access to the INFJ you once knew
08:28 - Number 7: They were taking subtle steps away before the door slam occurred
09:41 - Comment Question
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[rachaeltramonte]

I care with every cell in my until I don't. And when that happens, I door slam and never look back. No drama. No talks. Done.

[sstpersonal]

When people take my kindness for weakness, and think they’ll get away with treating me badly.. the door slam is real fun… especially when it comes out of nowhere 💪

[lanelothian]

I only door slam people who deserves it. Mistaking kindness for weakness is always the rock they perish on.

[TC-gxqn]

I find the lead up to a door slam very painful; when I am having to face the ugly realization that all of the emotional energy and love that I have expended on that person has been in vain and they truly do not have my best interests at heart at all. However, the door slam itself brings a sense of relief, happiness, and hope for the future. For me personally, the actual door slam is the end of the pain.

[faridaashu]

"If that's you, congratulations. You've made it to the INFJ never again book of lessons".
This is hilarious and so apt😅.

This is one of the most apt and exact videos I've watched about the INFJ door slam PSYCH-O. Thank you.
I'm literally in this exact process right now, and everything said is reflective of my motivation and process.

People underestimate the value of the energy we spend to be in their lives. Coupled with our ability to be consistent, they always ultimately take it for granted and assume it'll last forever.
It's such a sad reality to come to terms with but it is what it is.

Personally, this is one of my favourite videos of yours. Keep doing the great work.

[chriscampbell]

The reason we move on so quickly because before we doorslam is because we have already moved on. I doorslam at the very last moment and last resort.

[yashivuvbolshomdomenakholm]

As an INFJ, I've never known any of us to jump into another relationship right after a door slam. Not ruling it out, just never in my experience. The earliest I've, personally, waited to enter another romantic relationship was a year. But most of the time it's years. Mainly because the pain is too great and the healing takes a long time... Even if I was the one to door slam, it's still heart breaking and I feel everything. So, a mature INFJ, who isn't BPD or a Narcissist, will wait. It's like having open heart surgery with no anesthesia. You just don't want to even bear the thought of putting yourself in the position again... And yet another reason why INFJs don't like to reminisce about a past relationship with memories or inside jokes: it hurts too much and the jokes are over. Nothing is funny after a door slam.

[mistyblue]

If you never want to be DOOR SLAMMED....watch for clues. Door slams feels good and is final, when the other person usually "doesn't want to talk calmly" That door will never, ever be opened again. Hopefully the person getting slammed learns the valuable lesson before their next relationship. Every word he says in this video to 100% TRUE.

[jernada]

The door slam is not malicious, and not done lightly either. The big take away is we have already grieved, and anguished and tried to address it well before the door slam.

[angeloesplana]

Number 7 is really true. For other people, they thought it is easy for us to door slam someone. What they do not know is that before coming up on such a decision, it takes days, weeks, months and even a year of sorrow and pain which is truly heartbreaking.😢
But once we had done the door slam, that's the end of everything. We can finally fee the freedom from an imprisonment liked toxic relationship.
It not the door slamee that just felt the heartbreak but most specially the door slammer on first hand.

[nefarioussagittarius]

I'm glad that the video maker had the empathy and knowledge to point out that it's not only the person being stepped away from that hurts. The whole thing sucks. It's the death of a relationship even if it was a shitty or toxic one and a grieving period is sure to follow. We'll still do it, because we are too smart not to. And it's a kindness. No one should want to stay in a relationship that is not nurturing them. Same goes for the person being walked away from. And yet, we'll labor over it for months before we actually act hoping to be proven wrong.

[mariareisnoronha]

Absolutely 💯. After giving plenty of opportunities to people totaly undeserving, I have door slammed many a times. Never regreted any of the door slams either. So true too about the keeping it civil on certain relationships that still needed some level of contact 😆. Funny only in the last 2 years I discovered about personality types and specifically this INFJ personality type that so weirdly fitted myself. I lived my life thinking I was so different that could not fit with the "normal" standard, now I understand myself better. Thank you for this great video 😍

[annmowatt]

100% accurate. I spend months agonising and analysing every event, conversation, hurtful deed and each sign of abuse. I then instinctively start to step back and distance myself until the next one is the deciding factor and I just leave. I say nothing but just switch off completely re this person and there is NO going - back. I would like to think the recipient learns from this but as insincere, hurtful and toxic, I doubt that they do but at least I have escaped.

[longtailgt]

I've door slammed quite a few people in my life. In fact, in the last few years itself. And in most of those cases, it was gradual but it was also literally a door slam in the end.

[pagemastrogiovanni]

These habits are so true of me. I thought I was just odd this way but I guess it is an INFJ thing. I have done every one of these actions.

[BananaGrace]

I literally laughed while watching this because it’s 1000% accurate. I LITERALLY blocked a friend of 14 years, a couple days ago because I couldn’t take her toxic, dismissive, arrogant, boundary pushing, disrespectful demeanor anymore, after multiple attempts at trying to confront her and resolve things…. I said my piece, respectfully but boldly… she dismissed everything I said and tried to flip it on me…. So I blocked her… I’ve literally had a feeling for months that this friendship would end and while there’s a few things I do miss…. I have other friends… other friends who actually value me as a person whom I can feel safe around and be myself around… and don’t keep pushing my boundaries. Two days prior to blocking her, I blocked a guy I had been talking to for a short time… literally not worth my mental energy…

[christopherqueen]

Doorslammer, yes. And I had done this before I had even heard of MBTI.

It’s like an electrical relay in my mind. When connected, current flows through. But once tripped, that whole circuit shuts down. And if I did this for cause, it’s not likely that anything will obviate the causes.

[ironxcrosss]

Yeah, I've had to door slam a couple times already. It is not a fun thing and it does take a while to go through because of our willingness to want things to work. Hell in the last months with an ex I was trying to be friends with I was thinking "maybe I can just keep then around to write a paper on psychosis, narcissism, and the desperate need to be unique." (Wasn't gonna just a joke thought to myself, but the possibility was there) but ultimately having to slam that door is what needs to happen for both parties in hope that they may be able to self reflect and so that you as the INFJ can heal from the wounds they caused

[gumatohuka]

Door slam is";No way Back for me 🙏🙏♥️.

[davidbanks]

As an INFJ, there's an unfortunate point sometimes when you realize you are being manipulated. Maybe it's a description of an event that is inconsistent with the previous version (or two versions they described). This can happen personally or professionally. Who wants to be lied to or manipulated? And yet... we tolerate that to a point. But once that point is reached...the door must close. Chances were given, as were options for clarification, most INFJ's want to find an explanation at all costs because we care about people. But there comes a point...and when reached and then INFJ's need the door shut and bolted.