If you were my daughter, I'd share these 7 harsh truths about men.

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If you were my daughter, I'd share these 7 harsh truths about men.

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[SummaGirl]

I’m in my 50s. The lessons I learned that I wish I had known as a young girl:
1. Nothing, nothing, nothing you can do will make him love you. He will want you or he won’t.
2. Most men are not motivated by love. What they really want is to be envied by other men.
3. You can’t compete with his fantasies. Look at his p0rrn. If he is into a certain kind/race of woman, and you aren’t that kind/race, find someone else.
4. He will know if you are what he wants very quickly. If he isn’t talking marriage in 3 months, he probably never will.
5. If he lies often, it’s because he is hiding who he is or what he is doing when he is not with you.
6. Men are usually like their best friend. If his best friend treats women like toys, chances are you are getting played too.
7. If he won’t talk about your relationship, it’s because you don’t really have one.
8. If he hides your relationship it’s because he is either already in another one or is actively looking for another one.
9. Don’t assume he wants what you want, especially children.
10. If he mistreats you, it’s a reflection of who he is, not who you are.

[Internal-m.d.]

For busy people:
1. Not all men are honest, see actions not words. His actions need to match his words.
2. Many men fear commitment. Don’t wait for change. Look for someone who is on the same page.
3. Respect is crucial. If he disrepects you he is not worth your time.
4. Emotional availability varies. Some men don’t know to show emotions. Seek someone who is more emotionally available to you, because it’s key to deep connection.
5. Action speak lauder than words. Look for consistency.
6. Independence is attractive. Maintain your friendships with your friends and family, enjoy your hobbies.
7. Relationship should bring more joy than pain. If a relationship frustrates you, it might not be healthy.

[stephaniepiazzese]

I’ve wasted my youth completly on dishonest men.
I’m an older woman now, , , I have lost all hope and all 😮faith in men. I’m just concentrating now, on my animals, preparing for death, ending well, , and my
Precious Friendship with my Lord. ❤

[MontanezCrew]

You forgot to mention “If a man truly loves you, he will not hit you or abuse you physically.”

[marthaw]

My immigrant father from the Ukraine always told us daughter’s never depended on a man…always know how to take care of yourself financially!!…he was soooo right! Love you Tato!🇺🇦🌻❤️

[Oshiiiiiiiiiiii]

My dad always said, " Men use words, Women believe words. "

[African.Diaspora.InLondonUK]

😮❤ ladies, women & girls. If a man confuses u while dating or delays. U r not the 1 & not a priority. U r an option.

[abigailholt]

I’ve seen so many women leave because he’s not ready for commitment only for him to be married to someone else with a baby on the way a year later. If he won’t commit you aren’t the one.

[realtalkwithLeila]

I'm at a point where I don't even worry about who leaves anymore. Even friends who don't show up, I just let them be. Whoever is meant to stay, will stay.

[maydvicky]

1. Not all men are honest
2. Who claims his ready for relationship but flirt with other family
3. Respect is crucial
4. Emotional availability varies
5. Action speaks louder than words
6. Independent is attractive
7. You deserve the best

[augol]

Never invest yourself completely in a man. Always remain independent. As women we usually are the natural care givers and give so much of ourselves in a relationship. Be careful not to over give and not get anything in return.
If you have asked your man to take the bin out and every day have to remind him, to do so….Leave the relationship. He does not love or even care about you. Repeatedly asking him to do something basic, that he should just do automatically is exhausting. And NO he did not just forget. You don’t forget what he likes, so why is it ok if he “forgets”.
Speaking from experience here…25 years married with 6 beautiful children, married to the wrong man. So much time wasted. Some men see a good women and just want to use her.

[annstar]

I wish someone told me this when I was 12. And reminded me at 17. Would have saved me a lifetime of man-hell.

[andreabryant]

This video needs to be heard by all teenage girls!
I was married to a man that disapproved of all of my friends. Moved me an hour and a half away from my family. Got a job where he would be away for a month and home for a week. When I got myself established and had some new friends he wanted to buy me a new house 10 hrs away. I stood my grounds & said NO.
Anyway, I definitely needed this knowledge when I was younger!

[lindal]

Regarding commitment, I was supposedly engaged but he would never discuss a wedding date. Four years together. Then I met someone else, we were engaged within a week and married shortly after that. Still together 38 years later, and I am now the mother of four young men. Fortunately, they are good men, like their father. I am blessed x

[cocosurgerow]

I had a college boyfriend that made me cry. Realized there are a bunch of fish in the sea - so why am I crying ? Got rid of that loser . Dated a man who was real - and never let me down, and married him. I hope that loser found his match or stayed single.

[Red_]

Never had a real Father to tell me these things. Wish I didn’t have to learn them, would’ve saved me a lifetime of grief.

[dragonfish]

1. Not all men are honest. Actions speak louder than words. Reliability and honesty is a character trait.
2. Commitment. Says he loves you but avoids talk about the future. If he’s not committed to a shared vision, it might be time to move on. Find a partner whose goals and readiness match yours.
3. Respect. Valuing your opinion, boundaries, thoughts and time. If a man speaks to you rudely, call him out.
4. Emotional availability varies. Look for a partner willing to communicate. Be patient and set boundaries. Support his growth. It is key to deep connection.
5. Actions speak louder than words. Promises and sweet words mean nothing if they aren’t backed by the consistent and caring actions. Fairly to follow through means his promises are empty. A man who loves you will do small actions.
6. Independence is attractive. Spend time with your friends and have your own social circles. Encourage each other to pursue your dreams. Be your own person.
7. Never settle for less. A good man should enhance your life, support and uplift you. Don’t be afraid to walk away from a relationship that doesn’t serve you.

[louiseparham-lk]

I grew up in a very toxic environment. My father treated my mother like trash. He not only favoured my brothers over me, he was very abusive to me. He was a textbook misogynist. He cheated on my mother. I wanted to find a partner who was not like my father and brothers (I was the scapegoat). However, I found myself in the same toxic relationship with partners one after the other. In therapy, I found I was being drawn to men like my father, which disturbed me because I intended to get away from all that. Apparently, I was drawn to what was familiar. In addition to that, I still think there are far too many men out there who treat women like trash. They just want the sex and not the commitment. They will be as dishonest as they like just to get what THEY want. This behaviour is the height of selfishness, misogyny, and downright cruelty.
Thankfully, I did finally meet someone completely different from that. I did not meet him until I was 46 and married him at 50.
It is not so much that men are born with these tendencies to use women and not commit, it is how they are brought up, thinking they have this divine right to take pleasure from women and not accept responsibility. Boys should be taught to respect the opposite sex and about commitment and responsible behaviour in a relationship. In addition, girls should be taught to say no to suspect behaviour, to respect themselves enough to not take crap and draw boundaries around unacceptable behaviour. I think the last point about independence is key because girls are not taught enough to be independent until they find someone right. Unfortunately, i had a very poor role model in my mother, who was too dependent emotionally on my father and put up with everything rather than get a divorce.

[toxicnena]

And another important one, coming from someone who's had a job seeing the worst side of normal men for the last decade — be kind, but do not trust easily, do not let yourself be manipulated. and even family and family friends can be unsafe to leave your children with.

[grey]

Whole heartedly agree with the notion about if a man isn’t honest or live with integrity in the other areas of his life, it will certainly translate in other areas.