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[silverlining]

Glad to hear you have the house now- and some peace. And PLEASE make sure to change ALL the locks ASAP!!! 💗

[annabarrette]

I AM SO PROUD OF YOU FOR STANDING UP FOR Your future self is going to be ridiculously proud of yourself.

[evilbunnyzombie]

Him moving out is such a blessing! I am so glad you are doing better. Someone as kind as you deserves peace.

[tarotchikk]

The duck symbolizes clarity, family, love, vigilance, intuition, nurturing, protection, feelings, self-expression, balance, adaptation, grace, and strength.

[karenschell]

Having a good attorney who can fight for you is key. I had to go to court for a kick out order, one day of testimony and he was kicked out that night! Totally worth the money!

[lissac]

One thing that helped me during my divorce to a narc was to think about how would my children want to see me handle things, how would I want them to see me, to remember how I handled things. How did they need me to handle things so they had the least amount of stress going through it. Your kids deserve a mom who is confident and happy. You've got this. I was a doormat, too. Co-dependant. But going through it all, I am on the path to healing and now feel so much more confident. You look much happier. Not having to walk on eggshells in your own home will give you the reserves to deal with him when you have to. The biggest lesson I learned was when someone shows you who they are, believe them. We are here for you!!

[missorli]

So glad you made the decision to let it play out in court! He definitely is trying to get an emotional response from you to use against you. Trust your gut, trust your lawyer now that you have a good one, and don't stoop to his level. You got this!!

[letakennedy]

The mother duck and the ducklings being together…this is a metaphor for you Brittany! ❤

[reginalol]

Look out for hidden cameras around the house, and phone listening hacking. Sending you warm healing thoughts. ❤

[terrylewis_]

I am sure safety is your priority, just make sure all of your cameras and security systems are solely under your control (even if you have to do complete reinstall). When exchanging the kids, don’t let him inside if possible, do it outside/garage, or in public. As much as I want you to share, and feel free to… maybe record these things and release them later on, but give him nothing. I am so thrilled things are starting to look up (fiiiinally) for you. ❤

[nessybessy]

I made a huge mistake with Lawyers too and went through a few before I found one I loved. I too gaslit myself and told myself that all lawyers must be rude, uncaring and heartless.
When I found a good firm, all the lawyers there were like “that is NOT normal! Were NOT treated right”. It was so relieving.

[CharF]

Change your locks and any security/alarm codes. Don’t forget to check if all windows are locked.

[Missreepee]

I grew up in a high stress household. My parents were terribly unhappy together but stayed together making each other and my brother and I thoroughly miserable. My father finally left us for his girlfriend when I was in college and it was like a breath of fresh air. We suddenly felt happy and free. We were able to invest in ourselves and in our house and have a better life. Even though I do love my father I wish he had left us sooner.

To everyone reading this that's going through an unhappy marriage or divorce, remember that your unhappiness is also your children's unhappiness. Don't leave them permanently traumatized by remaining in an unhappy relationship. It may hurt now but staying will have long lasting effects on both you and your children.

[neptunezwave]

Brittany, girl! You're doing better than you think. I have been a fan since before you got married. You've helped me organize my life! My purse, my office, my kitchen. I love you as much as you can love someone virtually. I've been through two divorces in my life and it's like grieving the death of someone you loved immensely. As women, we are so resilient and resourceful. If you could build this channel to the success that it is...Girl, you can do ANYTHING. Especially with those beautiful babies as your motivation. I know you will be the victor in this battle with douchehead. You've got this. ❤

[ishouldknowthis]

Kids who grow up in the home of an unhappy marriage, often end up with a subconscious fear of commitment and/or tendency to sabotage longterm relationships that might lead to marriage. I’m so glad you’re getting out of yours so you have the opportunity to show your kids what true happiness looks like.

[ZeroSunShine]

The mama and her little ducklings...being protective and caring for them just like you with your little ducklings. 🥺 How beautiful! It's definitely a sign that the home is the most perfect place for you to keep raising your children. I'm so happy you got this win. ❤

[heatherlycke]

I am so proud of you! You are strong and kind! While he is out partying, spending your money, and spending time with his new fling, you are working hard and taking care of your kids. Absolutely night and day.

[nsullivan]

I'm happy to hear that you have a new & better lawyer! There's something about being in the hands of a competent professional that just puts you at ease.

[amandamendoza]

Night and day from the last video on how much less stressed and more confident you seem. You got this girl! Everything happens for a reason.❤

[GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriend]

My parents divorced when I was 19 and, apart from the obvious shock and mourning that is undeniable, I was thrilled. I wanted them to be _happy_ - that's all I wanted. I wanted to not have to worry about them and not walk on eggshells and be dishonest every time I came home. Also as someone also currently going through a difficult divorce (I'm at the very tail end), congratulations on having your space to yourself, that pressure release is the sweetest feeling. Enjoy it ❤ I tell everyone now who wants to hear it, with peace and love, that the kindest thing you can do for your partner is make a very detailed separation agreement while you still love each other. If you never break up, great, it was just a theory. If you do... you will thank yourselves. I will never share my life and assets without a prior agreement again, never. Breakups are hard enough without also having to do business.