What You Must AVOID to Be In Your FEMININE ENERGY

[jazmynbell]

Stop mommying grown men and redirect that energy to yourself. Watch your sleep improve, your energy levels rise, and your confidence grow.

[glenniii]

As a man, I can totally agree with you, I like to learn from my mistakes if I make them. When someone constantly corrects me, it doesn't feel right.

[erinsymone]

Agreed. But the key to protecting yourself as a woman while doing this technique is to actually keep up your own boundaries, standards, and expectations and truly allow him to face consequences. E.g. if he repeatedly hurts you when left to his own devices to figure things out, you have to actually leave him.

[ChandraSoulCoach]

Yes! I even notice this applies as a mother with my sons as they get older. So important to show them you trust them to figure things out themselves. Just like helicopter parenting makes a child lose faith in themselves. How we feel and treat men affects them! Allow them the opportunity to rise to their masculine nature and solve problems and protect and provide for us.

[makingabusinesswithmoe]

I love being in my feminine energy and seeing my husband lead and problem solve. It’s takes away so much stress that I never understood was the masculine energy I was holding to keep face of being in control.

[alejandragalvan]

I started doing less and made a huge difference. It made him feel needed and wanted which is what men want!

[hawkinsheidi]

“Let him face the consequences of his own actions.” 🙏💕 Amen

[xposetruth]

This is so true. We as women get so tired of waiting for them to step up so we hold their hand across the street. But we deep down HATE IT and then we resent them for it. Great reminders!

[coffeecupcloset]

In another word, he needs to be in his fully masculine energy

[ludmillaarondo]

We need more shorts 🥰❤️ Being feminine is really hard 😢😢

[GemB]

Yes that was my fault in my previous relationship. Will never do it again!

[melvaneperen]

I just gave this exact advice to a client last week! It was a tough love moment for her… it can be difficult to watch our partner fail, but sometimes the remedy/solution that comes from the failure is what was needed, not the mama/wife/partner taking all the weight of the “adulting” responsibility away from the other partner.

[krissmall]

Men grow from resolving and recovering from failure.

[thecatspajamas]

You look so pretty here. Your eyes look so green and I LOVE your hair!

[HenrySimmons]

Trying to help him isn't bad, it just shows that you're a good person. I don't date selfish women, I date women who care about me.

[angelamd]

Good! Especially don't treat him like a child. Thanks sweet lady!

[MissHHarmony]

Doing this is what almost ruined my current relationship. I had no idea how much of a detriment it was that I was constantly trying to fix him

[Samxoxoxo]

Omg i always felt pressured to be that way because of where i come from. some people say that if a man takes bad decisions it’s possibly because he is not with a good woman. Even his mom gave me the speech that women are smarter than men and that we (HER AND ME) should guide him to do best. I find it ridiculous. why you want to put that weight on my shoulders? He is not my kid and i don’t need to raise one with you, I want a man 😭

[carlahabib]

Omg, I wished I knew that 15 yrs ago, when I was still married. My ex had terrible eating habits. Constantly eating junk food and I was trying to fix it by cooking him healthy meals only and throwing out the junk. I never won this battle. It became unsustainable at the end. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[aminawilliamson]

I’m learning you can’t teach a man how to treat u, just allow it to be shown and keep it short and simple act accordingly