Community discussion on 'The Value of Others' (Part III): responding to your questions

This will be my final livestream dedicated to a discussion of my book, "The Value of Others." In this talk, I will respond to your questions and reveal my plans for the future.

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Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world.

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[sthnguyen]

It’s amazing that you showed up in my feed. I have been consuming psychology related contents for a very long time (Dr. Phil, for example), self-help books, meditation, philosophy but I have never ran into anybody who has taught me so much about life and relationships. I have not yet listened to your book. Just waiting for that perfect time to do so (on an international flight/trip), in the very near future. Your content is great especially for men (and less so for women) who are in dating market. I wish that there is an equivalent teacher for women.

[edwardyoutube]

Very valuable session! I particularly liked the points about the adored-adorer shift, the constant subtle renegotiation in relationships and the quick excursus on personality disorders (I've experienced this personally). This episode should have gotten more likes for sure. Happy birthday Orion!

[quicksno]

Happy Birthday Orion! 🎉
As I read the book I found myself hearing your tone and inflection in my head. I thought to myself it would be neat to read more books from people that I spent time listening to first.

[MarthaBergerson-rg]

This content is always super practical!

[luismendez]

I have just finished your book . It took me a month to read digest and process. Some of your explanations are thousand time more informative and real than the YouTube videos on the same themes. Any young person would do themselves a favor to read, reread and grow some conscious behavioral change to improve his/her odds to get what they really want. And tell me about it... just knowing what you want is HARD work... thanks Orion is a great jewel you have written for humanity....

[yelena]

Listened to your book in one breath. Appreciate your work.

[oscarlambe]

After noticing the spider man card, all I can imagine is Orion’s friends repeatedly calling him Tobey Maguire for the last two decades.

Happy Birthday Orion 🎉

Thanks for all the wonderful original insights from the book.

[Ohmaryy]

I love the concept of giving a person 100% and pulling back.

The subscription method.

[ArtyWend]

Catching up from the UK.
As always, very enlightening 👍😁 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Thank you

[AlbertoFalgue]

What a book!

Regarding your live viewers, it would be great if you could double-check the times for these discussions, as they fall during the night in some countries like the UK!

[HelpMeFindTheseSongs]

Hello Orion! You made a series for women on how to get any man they want and keep him.
Can you PLEASE do the same but for us men on how to get a woman and keep her?
PLEASE.
Thank you so much for everything you do 🙏

[AnnaCoon-xl]

You look very handsome.😊
Happy birthday!

[stephanypistachio]

Listening to this now! So interesting wish I was able to participate. Sorry I missed out on the live. Happy birthday 🎈 again 🩵

[perdoppenheimer]

Started reading your book, wow. The videos are awesome too, but the book gives the added meat to helping layout the concepts with a better foundation, 10 star book by the way. Midway through chapter 3 I got an idea, why do some woman adore homosexuals? They give the idea of this epic captain, with no cost to the passenger. They also create the idea of perfect captains that can be passengers on a woman captain's boat, again, free of charge. Alas, these captain/passengers however are not for sale 😂

[Topspeedmotorcars]

"Listen to yourself " Orions best quote followed by fuck that...fuck that! 😆 love it.
Happy Birthday 🎂

[MITdork]

My man with the new summer 🏝️ polo! 😎🤙

[johnvienna]

"It's not rocket surgery." That was a mistake, but I love it anyway. Even Orion's mistakes are great. 😊

[marriagecausesdivorce]

1:10:04 – Is all psychology ultimately evolutionary psychology?
1:11:28 – The importance of emotional vulnerability?
1:12:29 – Coolidge Effect vs Resource acquisition/Good genes
1:13:08 – Narcissist vs The narcissist’s victim
1:15:07 – Vetting for mate vs vetting for co-parent

[kimcosmos]

He didn't publish before Darwin. He sent a review copy to Darwin and Darwin asked him to wait while he published

[kimcosmos]

If a guy wants a woman who doesn't want players he should remove all mystery up front. Problem is... that leaves almost no women because of their entitled princess mindset. So if you are going open... go big.